Is anyone in a relationship with a porn or sex addict??!
Question: What is your relationship like on a daily basis and do ya'll argue alot? Has your better half gone thru treatment and how is the relationship now? Am i just better off saving myself the pain and just leave my husband? Leave serious advice only PLEASE!!!
Answers: What is your relationship like on a daily basis and do ya'll argue alot? Has your better half gone thru treatment and how is the relationship now? Am i just better off saving myself the pain and just leave my husband? Leave serious advice only PLEASE!!!
Try reading this free e-book called 97 steps to a happy relationship. I've read it (a while ago) and I still think about the advice given in it.
I'd leave him. Sex addicts ( I don't know about porn addicts) are more likely to cheat, and that hurts. Save yourself the heartache.
If He is those things...and it hurts you....tired of it..bothering you to much..than leave him its your choice not us( yahoo answerers)
im a porn addict and dont get into major fights with my wife about it. we have a normal relationship, i just have a higher drive than she does and i use it for stimulation to releive myself. no harm no foul i still see her as the woman i love not some sort of tool
i have!
but i didnt mind it!plus it was only 3 months!lol.
but still...i think im kinda like that,so him being like that only made things better!=]
the only thing was when i wanted things to be romantic,and get the whole teen love story,he wanted sex!so we brok it off!
anyways...if you dont like it, then i wouldnt stick around!
or you guys could get theropy!my cousin got it,and hes all better now!=]
good luck!
Wow I thought my life was different and rewarding, and I think I am much better off than you!!! A relationship with a
porn or sex addict will blow your mind if you continue the
affair. They have mental problems that shrinks can't always
solve. Bail out while you have your mental marbles, and don't look back or there is no hope!!!!
I been there with my ex i did not leave for that reason but it did contribute when it gets to the point to where you feel inadequate there has to be a change and the fact that you are married he needs to listen to what is bothering you and if he blows you off like you are the one with the problem he definitly needs counseling. it would be in your best interest to insist on counseling porno addiction is just like any addiction. and it may be hard for him to stop i took the tv out of our bedroom and made it so he had less alone time and refused to watch with him i hope this helps good luck!
your choice. my old flatmate was a sex addict and could go nine times a day, he met an equally horny girlfriend and were at it like knives morning noon and night. i moved out pretty quick. they have been married for over four years now and have three children
Both addictions are quite different, of course he could suffer from both. Porn addicition is often claimed for guys who like porn or collect porn, but unless they have a mental requirement to view then its not necassarily an addiction (it can be shameful and distrubing without having to effect his day to day life). Once the addiction starts taking over then the problems begin. Whether its not wanting to go out due to wanting to spend "special time" with himself, or avoiding friends and family to partake in sex acts, you have to watch for these kinds of indicators that show the switch from a dirty hobby to a full blown addiction.
It is normal for guys to appriciate porn, the female form and the pleasure of sex. But most porn collections are discarded or put away once in a serious relationship, with any use of such aids being in private.
Its very hard to make a complete statement on your relationship as I don't know you, your husband or the particular problem you have. You definately need to discuss your feelings about the porn, need to have a conversation about the damage it is doing to your relationship and possibily see a marriage counseller to discuss getting your relationship back to the happy place it was in the past.