Wow why is this guy such a jerk?!
Question: today at my school there was a hockey game and this guy i used to like, lets call him john, was on the opposing team. Well after the game this guy at my school, bob, who no one likes because hes a fckn annoying drug addict went up to john and told him i liked him! john is hot so now im really embarrassed. but what should i do now? and what the hell is bobs problem?
Answers: today at my school there was a hockey game and this guy i used to like, lets call him john, was on the opposing team. Well after the game this guy at my school, bob, who no one likes because hes a fckn annoying drug addict went up to john and told him i liked him! john is hot so now im really embarrassed. but what should i do now? and what the hell is bobs problem?
As a guy, I can honestly say "John's" mindis probablly not as active as you may believe. Now John will probablly not believe Bob to begin with, because guys don't make as big a deal with things like that as you may think. Just don't worry about it and if John confronts you and asks you anything respond however you'd like. If he says "You like me?" kind of smiling and happy in a flirting way, you might as well agree and maybe he'll go out with you. If he does come up to you and say something not so good like: "Was Bob serious?" or in any tone that you don't think is very happy, just respond in a way that reflects your personality. If you play hard to get, say "You wish." and walk away. Or say: "Bob's an ***. Don't listen to him."He probablly won't think much more of it.
But it sounds to me like Bob likes you... (Trust me, many guys suck that badly at flirting)
aha, i've had the same problem. the best way to deal is to blow him off like its no big deal that it happened. dont show "bob"that you care about it or he'll feel lik hes won that battle. Move on its not a big dea if he know you like him, it might even give him a little hint & he'll stat noticing you too
Bob is a jerk and John probably knows that.
i feel you sometimes people that have no life like to butt into ppl that do have a life hes a jerk but this is how u look at it forget him just smile when he looks at you when you go back to school dress nice and keep his eye you are young and there is nothing wrong with having a little fun. now he knows you like him so now you are on his mind, don't act mad about it just act like ow-ell and smile he will give you a thought now live life girl and forget the jerk he just did you a favor!
well, he's a jerk alright. he probably has a crush on you or something...normally guys pick on girls when they like them. i did it the girl i really liked for the first few weeks, and now we've been going out for 19 months! since he did that, i'd recommend telling somebody at school that he is a drug addict. for the reasons of 1. just to get back at him [i'm an vengeful kinda guy unfortunately] and 2. well, he needs help.
just wait it out, don't talk to "john" until he talks to you...
or just wait a few days and then tell him "hey...about the other day...." and see if he tells ya he likes you.
just wait it out
what a jerk. don't worry about it though just ignore it so he does not think he hurt you. how immature, just think how much better you are than bob.
you can make this work in your favor. tell john you dont know what bob is talking about, because obviously you didnt tell him to say that. but now if you dont talk to him he, and you, will feel akward whenever you see or talk to eachother. so make this an excuse to talk to this guy as a friend. trust me.
Well, now that it's out there, you should be relieved! If he goes for some other girl, then at least you won't have to wonder if you should've said something, because he knows now. Whatever he does, at this point, is with that knowledge, so if he goes for some other girl it means he thought about it and decided 'no,' but you at least don't have to worry about telling him later. Maybe "Bob" isn't such a jerk?
Piece of advice to add to what others are saying.
Don't tell Bob secrets.
I feel you bob is an @$$ hole but just tell john you don't like him and tell bob to go f*ck himself...what a b*stard he needs to die in a f*cking hole *I am crying right now the f*cking drug addict needs to die!!
Well, he's a jerk alright!! Bob is a jerk and John probably knows that. The best way to deal is to blow him off like its no big deal that it happened. Don't show Bob that you care about it or he'll feel like he's won that battle. Move on its not a big deal if he know you like him, it might even give him a little hint and he'll start noticing you too.
Sometimes people that have no life like to butt into people that do have a life hes a jerk but this is how you look at it forget him just smile when he looks at you when you go back to school dress nice and keep his eye you are young and there is nothing wrong with having a little fun. now he knows you like him so now you are on his mind, don't act mad about it just act like "oh well" and smile he will give you a thought now live life girl and forget the jerk he just did you a favor.
Since he did that, I'd recommend telling somebody at school that he is a drug addict. Try getting back at him.
Also, Just try waiting it out, don't talk to John until he talks to you or just wait a few days and then tell him "hey, about the other day.." and see if he tells you he likes you.
Don't worry about it though just ignore it so he does not think he hurt you. how immature, just think how much better you are than Bob. You can make this work in your favor. Tell John you don't know what Bob is talking about, because obviously you didn't tell him to say that. but now if you don't talk to him he, and you, will feel awkward whenever you see or talk to each other. So make this an excuse to talk to this guy as a friend.
If John goes for some other girl, then at least you won't have to wonder if you should of said something, because he knows now. Whatever he does, at this point, is with that knowledge, so if he goes for some other girl it means he thought about it and decided 'no,' but you at least don't have to worry about telling him later.