How to get over someone's death?!
Question: My fish died and I'm really down in the dumps.....I feel like life sucks and that nothing good's going on in my life anymore. Friends also have problems and mom and dad are ALWAYS yelling at each other..I'm falling behind in school cuz I'm not doing my homework and....a bunch of other things
but the my fish dying is the WORST ever!!
Answers: My fish died and I'm really down in the dumps.....I feel like life sucks and that nothing good's going on in my life anymore. Friends also have problems and mom and dad are ALWAYS yelling at each other..I'm falling behind in school cuz I'm not doing my homework and....a bunch of other things
but the my fish dying is the WORST ever!!
Well, I know how it feels. For example, my dog has to be put to sleep very soon. Like next week soon. Listen to me please. No matter what you may think, someone always has it worse, so you must accept what you cannot change.
Example:
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You Me
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Fish died Dog dieing
Friend problems In fight with my BEST friend right now
Parents fighting Parents getting divorced
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Not to try and make your problems seem like nothing, but it might make you feel good to know you are not alone.
Now I know that you REALLY don't want to hear this, but I'm sure you know fish aren't very great pets anyway. While you might love them, their brains cannot contain any affection or anything other than instinct. Now unless this fish was a dolphin (Well, technically dolphins are mammals...) you shouldn't be sad because it wasn't as loving as you thought it was.
Buy another fish if you must (I had plenty of fish die when I was little, and even a cat which was hit by a car and killed on my birthday) or convince your parents to get you a dog or cat to replace it :) Try and see the best in things.
If your friends have problems try and help them, but I recommend getting friends without problems, so you don't only here negative things all the time.
See a psychiatrist. It's normal and even most doctors and fellow psychiatrists have their own psychiatrists! They really do help, and it can't do you any harm.
But do not throw your life away because of a fish.
The loss of a pet can be really hard to get over. Do you have other fish? If not, can you get another fish? Sometimes replacing a pet with another of its kind will bring back the joy you had with the first fish.
For all of the tensions at home -- can you talk to a school counselor or a trusted adult? Sometimes it makes you feel better just to talk to someone so that you aren't keeping all of those feelings bottled up inside.
losing a pet really sucks but think about all tha ppl who have lost brothers or someone really really close to them (like me). ive lost pets to and it sucks, but time goes on and tha pain just slowly starts to go away
In time, the pain of your loss will diminish.
You ever hear about the straw that broke the camels back? The camel was loaded with such much straw that when one more straw was added it broke his back (just a story). The fish was the last straw for you, right? A lot of people live in the same circumstances or worse. You are personally responsible for yourself, no one else, I don't care how old you are. Pray for your parents and don't be a drag to them or cause them any more trouble Be kind to them and try to help as much as you can but do it because you love them not because you are expecting a good result. Not doing your homework is going to cause YOU problems and cause you to feel guilty and ashamed of yourself. Attack this with a vengeance. Do your homework, study harder for tests and do the best you can. This will remove that problem for your parents. Find some things that make you feel good about yourself and build up your own self esteem by yourself. Life is full of ups and downs. I will bet you that tomorrow will be better than now and then the next day will suck, and so on an so on. Life is just that way. Enjoy the good and laugh off the rest. Keep your chin up kid.
When someone close to me died awhile back I asked the same question on yahoo answers. They all said the same thing "only time will make it better". And it's true. Nothing else will really make it better. Maybe the only thing is support, but it doesnt help that much. You just have to wait it out, but keep him in your memories.
It is sad when a pet dies. It will take a little time, but in a bit you will start to feel better.
The organism which had came to earth will definetly die one day. This is a rule made by god and no one could change it. Every organism has its aim which it will do during his life time. Like your fish it had given so much happiness to you that you feel very sad when it had died. Many peoples dies every day but seeing this we could not stop living.
death is uncertain - one have to die at last - nothing you assume as wrong happened,due to death of a fish,is going to be true - only you have bad feelings as you love them and played with them,till they are with you - so buy new fish and take care of them - it will give you pleasure and may you forget the past with good memories of that fish you have before