My girlfriend sister just died and i do not know what to do i lost i do not know!
Question: she died in the hs
Answers: she died in the hs
Just be there for your girlfriend. Tell her you are sorry and you will be there to be her shoulder to lean or do whatever she needs you to do. Let her talk about her sister if she wants to. when people lose a loved one sometimes they just want to talk about her and have some one listen to them..there is nothing much you can say to comfort her, just be there for her. Hold her hand, get her drinks, listen to her talk, dry her tears, drive her where ever she wants to go, just love her and let her know you care. I am sorry to hear about it and I hope you both are okay.
The best thing for grieving friend is to listen and be there for them. Offer support to her in any way you can - it takes time to get over losses and it helps to have a caring person around.
The death of a family member is a terrible loss to get over. If you've never experienced anything of this nature in your own personal life...please....never try to trivialize or minimize the importance of things, the moments of grief, the torture that she may go through on her way to dealing with the death of her sister.
Be compassionate...even when you're tired.....understanding...even when you "don't get it"....be loving...every moment...and supportive.
She'll never forget you for it. She'll love you all the more for it.
Moments like this are truly times to 'step and be counted on'.
Be there for your girlfriend and her family...let them know how terribly sorry you are for their loss. Also, let them know you are available and willing to do /help in any way possible. Are you old enough/know how to cook? Bake a casserole and take it to the family, make a dessert of some sort..take to the family. Offer to do some of the chores that they would normally be doing but can't even consider doing at this time. Run errands for them, offer to drive them when they have to go someplace. And, above all else, be available to LISTEN. She or a member of her family may just need someone to listen while they talk/grieve/cry.....be that shoulder they need. So sorry for this loss you are all suffering through at this time.
Just be there and listen. Love on her. Don't make her talk about anything if she doesn't want and if she's in a mood to talk about it just sit there and listen.
Just hold her and tell her you love her and listen when she needs to talk
Just be their for her and hold her.