How to not be jealous when I'm sick and run down all the time and other girl!
Question: How to not be jealous when I'm sick and run down all the time and other girls are healthy!?
I've been struggling with a bad immune system after I had mono so I get sick ALL the time!. I am rarely healthy!. My sex drive isn't high like it used to be because I'm sick and tired all the time!. I feel less attractive when I'm sick and run down all the time!. It seems to me like healthy women rather than sick women are viewed as more attractive!. My appearance isn't as attractive when I'm sick all the time!. I get so jealous of healthy women!. I want to feel healthy and have my sex drive back again!. I seem to have developed chronic fatigue syndrome after mono!. I have lost all my confidence being sick all the time as far as dating is concerned!. I don't know if I can even successfully date, get married or have kids being this sick all the time!. How can I feel good about myself being so sick and not get jealous of healthy girls!? I just wonder why would a man want to date a sick girl when he could date a healthy girl!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I am in the same boat as you are!.
I am 29, have had migraines since I was 12, and chronic fatigue/figromialgia since I was 17!.
You have to worry about yourself, and your health, instead of how you look to others right now!.
I know this is frustrating, I have a sex drive but not enough energy to date, and I don't want to make a bad dating decision because I am too tired to think!.
I don't know how old you are, and if you are in school or work, but you have to concentrate on yourself and getting back to your life, not on dating!. A romantic relationship takes a lot of energy, energy you don't have to give right now!.
I know, I realy didn't answer your question, just wanted you to know you aren't alone!.
Edit: to the response above from "toni", she obviously doesn't have any health problems!. People can't live a "normal" life with Chronic fatigue!. It isn't all in your head, it can't be ignored, and just thinking differently won't help you get better!.
Do get all the tests run possible!. Look into thyroid issues, Cushings, and other imbalances that can be fixed!. Also, I am currently looking into the possibility that I am allergic to titanium and other metals, which can cause chronic fatigue!. Titanium is in many makeups and other personal items, read lables!. Also, an allergy to alluminum can have the same results!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am 29, have had migraines since I was 12, and chronic fatigue/figromialgia since I was 17!.
You have to worry about yourself, and your health, instead of how you look to others right now!.
I know this is frustrating, I have a sex drive but not enough energy to date, and I don't want to make a bad dating decision because I am too tired to think!.
I don't know how old you are, and if you are in school or work, but you have to concentrate on yourself and getting back to your life, not on dating!. A romantic relationship takes a lot of energy, energy you don't have to give right now!.
I know, I realy didn't answer your question, just wanted you to know you aren't alone!.
Edit: to the response above from "toni", she obviously doesn't have any health problems!. People can't live a "normal" life with Chronic fatigue!. It isn't all in your head, it can't be ignored, and just thinking differently won't help you get better!.
Do get all the tests run possible!. Look into thyroid issues, Cushings, and other imbalances that can be fixed!. Also, I am currently looking into the possibility that I am allergic to titanium and other metals, which can cause chronic fatigue!. Titanium is in many makeups and other personal items, read lables!. Also, an allergy to alluminum can have the same results!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know how you feel!!
I suggest that you go to your doctor and get a series of blood tests done!. Be sure to check your immune system, your vitamins, etc!.!. get em all checked!.
I was anemic, had a thyroid problem AND B12 deficiency!. It has taken several months to start feeling good again!.
What your body is lacking can really take a toll on your overall health!.
It sounds like you are depressed because you are sick!. Get that blood work done ASAP!!
Good luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I suggest that you go to your doctor and get a series of blood tests done!. Be sure to check your immune system, your vitamins, etc!.!. get em all checked!.
I was anemic, had a thyroid problem AND B12 deficiency!. It has taken several months to start feeling good again!.
What your body is lacking can really take a toll on your overall health!.
It sounds like you are depressed because you are sick!. Get that blood work done ASAP!!
Good luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had a very bad case of mono myself and also the chronic fatigue afterwards!. Take good care of yourself and don't worry about the others!. Just do whatever you need to do for yourself!. I like Dr!. Don Colbert's books!.!.!.he's written at least 30 I believe!. Also, Dr!. Jordan Rubin & The Maker's Diet!. You don't have to go on a real diet!.!.!.!.just gradually change your habits to eat more healthy!. Reading the book helps to know what is healthy beyond what any regular doctor would tell you!. He has done a great deal of research!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Not to be rude, but your mentality had a lot to do with the way you feel physically!. You don't seem to have much self confidence!. Do not constantly compare your self to those that you think are better than you!. Instead, you may find it helpful to count your blessing in that you still (presumably) are able to carry out a normal life!. In comparison to a quadriplegic you would have a great life!.!.!.not to say that you don't have legitimate problems, just try to focus on the positive not the negative!. Life is what you make of it!. Carpe Diem!.!.!.!.get out there and enjoy life again, don't hold yourself back!. Once your mental state is getting better your body is soon to follow!Www@Answer-Health@Com