How do you get happy?!
Question: How do you get happy!?
I am a married mother of two lovely boys, have a house, job working form home, nothing is bad in my life, but everyday is so mundane, I can't seem to find happiness inside my heart!. It's all work, work, work, and it all has to be paid out, it seems the more you earn, the more you have to pay out!. My youngest son is 11, the only memories he is going to have of me is going to be sat at the computer working, but I can't work less becasue of bills to pay!. The news is full of people killing each other, volence, crime, nastiness!. Every day is such a drag!. I am 37 and there is so much I could have and should have done with my life, and i feel it's all too late!. I hope we get to have another go!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
One thing is to remember that even with your troubles, you are better off than most of people on this planet!. Get out and join a club, or go to the library, or go out for lunch with some friends!. Your children will be happier if their mother is happy!. You know the saying, "If mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy"!. And, remember, with your beautiful family, it isn't all about you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I wish I had an answer but you sound exactly like me! I am also a work from home mom with 2 boys and a wonderful husband and I also am earning a degree from home!. I wish there was more time for fun and happiness!. I try to focus on the good in my life but it doesn't help much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
smile, laugh and just have funWww@Answer-Health@Com
I know how you feel!. You are writing about bills and money matters, something I deal with on a regular basis too!. I work also, but that doesn`t seem to make it go away!. Especially now with gas or petrol prices going up every day!. I have grown kids at home not working full time yet!. So expenses are high!. I worked on family cars yesterday and spent $1,200 on credit of course!. Very depressing indeed!. Pay raises only help to make up for the increased prices to everything!.
I look for the day I can retire, draw a pension and get a fun job, pay all my bills off and live it up!. I keep the dream alive it`s what keeps me going!. I only get depressed when I feel I`m wishing my life away and getting closer to final eternity!.
I try and break this monotony by planning a vacation to somewhere interesting every two or three years!. I have a separate savings account for this purpose!. This keeps me busy and adds a little excitement to my life, sort of a little recess along the journey through life!. My family gets annoyed with me on this, except when they are actually on vacation with me!. Perhaps you might try this too, it will give you something to look forward to!. Life should not be all about just maintaining!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I look for the day I can retire, draw a pension and get a fun job, pay all my bills off and live it up!. I keep the dream alive it`s what keeps me going!. I only get depressed when I feel I`m wishing my life away and getting closer to final eternity!.
I try and break this monotony by planning a vacation to somewhere interesting every two or three years!. I have a separate savings account for this purpose!. This keeps me busy and adds a little excitement to my life, sort of a little recess along the journey through life!. My family gets annoyed with me on this, except when they are actually on vacation with me!. Perhaps you might try this too, it will give you something to look forward to!. Life should not be all about just maintaining!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are some people around us who want to scare us and by doing so they meet their goals!. TV is controlled by large companies and the news is targeted to scare you!. So you install burglar alarms , Tv monitors and cameras!. Get insurance for blah blah blah!. All you need is a one comprehensive insurance so do not pay extra on your policy!.
Best thing stop watching the TV news and stop reading the paper spend that time with your lovely kids and you will be happier!.
Dont buy computer games and video games for you kids take them out to the park and you all will be happy!.
Dont buy fast food, dont buy excess toys make them play with each other like hide and seek!.
Remember do look deeper into the news someone is manipulating everything, learn to look deeper and you will be happy!.
Its never too late! You can do it!.
Yes you will get another go tomorrow!.
Life does not end on earth your soul is transferred , soul does not die!. Life on earth is a test and full of problems which we have to solve and move ahead!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Best thing stop watching the TV news and stop reading the paper spend that time with your lovely kids and you will be happier!.
Dont buy computer games and video games for you kids take them out to the park and you all will be happy!.
Dont buy fast food, dont buy excess toys make them play with each other like hide and seek!.
Remember do look deeper into the news someone is manipulating everything, learn to look deeper and you will be happy!.
Its never too late! You can do it!.
Yes you will get another go tomorrow!.
Life does not end on earth your soul is transferred , soul does not die!. Life on earth is a test and full of problems which we have to solve and move ahead!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
One thing, maybe try getting a job, even just part time while the boys are in school, outside the home!. Even if just something in retail a few days a week!. To get out of the house and around people would help a lot!. I used to work night baking at a resturant when my son was a baby(and that was only with one other baker in the store)!. then would always be home!. Never see anyone outside of family!. It can really bring you down and make things mundane!.
Was so much happier when I switched to working day and dealing with customers and other staff!.
Or try to do something for you one night a week with people!.
If you are in your house all the time, and never interact with people, it will be depressingWww@Answer-Health@Com
Was so much happier when I switched to working day and dealing with customers and other staff!.
Or try to do something for you one night a week with people!.
If you are in your house all the time, and never interact with people, it will be depressingWww@Answer-Health@Com