What's wrong with my twin brother?!
Question: What's wrong with my twin brother!?
Altho we r twins;we r nothin alike!.I was born healthy&he was born not breathin w/a hole in his heart!.As he grew up,yes he was slow but it got worse after he almost died from drownin!.Then brain damage added2his problems!.Hes on 3-4 grade level as Im on my 11th!.But thas not wat Im concerned bout b/c bak then I knew y he was slow&I accepted it!.Bak then he was jus like a normal but LiTTLE kid!.As we got in2 highschool:he started gettin worse&my parents wont take him2the doc!.They say theres nothin docs can do bout it b/c its jus how he was born!.But i kno this isnt normal4him!.He started comin home cussin&talkin bout how he hates this&that!.We cant take him out nomore cuz he starts screamin uncontrolably out of nowhere!.He eats all the time&doesnt seem2stop!.He starts cussin&talkin bout random things that he 'hates' when he dont get his way&sumtime even scratches himself!.He goes outside&yell/cusses&says 'sum random name' made him mad!.He talks almost lik a robot;takes4ever 2respond!.WHATS HAPPENING!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Hi Lily
I am sorry to hear about your bro and wish I had the answer to your question but in your brothers case it would be very hard to say because of the other issues that have gone on with his health!. I think your right in him needing to see a doctor again!. I understand as a mother what your parents are going through and maybe they was told this would happen as he gets old and that is why they say there is no need for him to go back or they have had so much to deal with that having to go through all of that again seems to much to bare!. And there is the fact that even if they go to the doctor and he says something else is going on the chances are that they will not be able to change it, so you see sometimes there isn't a point in taking him to the doctor because he is still going to be this way and it will not change what is going on!. I really do wish I could be of more help to you but I am just not a doctor and your bother has a lot of stuff going on far more then I could even begin to get my head around!. take care good luck to you all!.
edit: please don't feel bad about everything, I know this is hard and even more so when your a twin but just except that this is part of him now and until your parents do take him to the doctor it will just be like this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am sorry to hear about your bro and wish I had the answer to your question but in your brothers case it would be very hard to say because of the other issues that have gone on with his health!. I think your right in him needing to see a doctor again!. I understand as a mother what your parents are going through and maybe they was told this would happen as he gets old and that is why they say there is no need for him to go back or they have had so much to deal with that having to go through all of that again seems to much to bare!. And there is the fact that even if they go to the doctor and he says something else is going on the chances are that they will not be able to change it, so you see sometimes there isn't a point in taking him to the doctor because he is still going to be this way and it will not change what is going on!. I really do wish I could be of more help to you but I am just not a doctor and your bother has a lot of stuff going on far more then I could even begin to get my head around!. take care good luck to you all!.
edit: please don't feel bad about everything, I know this is hard and even more so when your a twin but just except that this is part of him now and until your parents do take him to the doctor it will just be like this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I can feel your brother's feeling!.
he's sick of seeing so many normal people around him n starts comparin himself with them!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.thus come anger!.!.!.then hate!.!.!.then madness!.!.!.!.!.
you really gotta talk to your brother about this!. go easy tho!. he's temper is not very controllable!.
anyway good luck to your brother!. tell him he's not the only one suffering in this world!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
he's sick of seeing so many normal people around him n starts comparin himself with them!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.thus come anger!.!.!.then hate!.!.!.then madness!.!.!.!.!.
you really gotta talk to your brother about this!. go easy tho!. he's temper is not very controllable!.
anyway good luck to your brother!. tell him he's not the only one suffering in this world!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hes probably very frustrated and doesnt know how to deal with it!. You say hes was normal like a little kid!? How would a little kid deal with being completely different from everyone, and being completely aware of it!.!.!.!.!.most little kids throw tantrums when they are upset!. So if he is in one part like a little kid, and in another part like he is older, how hes acting seems to make some sense!.!.!.!.!.!.part throwing a tantrum, part being very frustrated and trying to cope with it (the scratching and over eating)!.
Seeing a thererapist would probably do him a lot of good!. It may not be something that can be fixed, but is something he could learn to cope with betterWww@Answer-Health@Com
Seeing a thererapist would probably do him a lot of good!. It may not be something that can be fixed, but is something he could learn to cope with betterWww@Answer-Health@Com
um girl ur twin brother is emo u don't get it if he scratch him self , does he has an diary because all emo have an diary and does your brother gave hugs to your mom a lot well if he doesn't he's emo !!!
i'm telling u this because theirs a girl in my school she is emo and she does the same that your bother do!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i'm telling u this because theirs a girl in my school she is emo and she does the same that your bother do!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com