I feel really bad right now.?!


Question: I feel really bad right now!.!?
I felt great as a child, but I noticed that once I hit teenage years, I got more and more depressed as I keep getting older!. And the thought of what comes after 18 terrifies me!. Sometimes I get close to crying about it!. I really despise being a teenager!. I'm going through so many family problems and stressing out, and I just want it all to go away!. I'm just really depressed and need a plan to get over this horrible feeling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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when all else fails: PRAY it can move mountains and can split the sea!.

Sincerely, i wish you peace, and more love to give, then it will come back to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

What you need to do is get out of the house for a while, go to a park and inhale, exhale, inhale and exhale again!. Run across a sprinkle to get refreshed a little, and then if you come across an old couple, smile sweetly and ponders how do they overcome all those years even with problems greater than yours!. I'm so bad at advices, really!.

P!.S , im not indicating that you should run away from your problems and run away to a park! Just trying to get you feel much better for a while and go solve the problems heads on!Www@Answer-Health@Com

ima a teen too and i kno that there is things that come in our path that does out us down and gets us stressed!.depressed!. very moody i would say!. sometimes talking to my friends help cause theyve gone through these things but sometimes its like talking to a wall!. and if u have a good relationship with a family member that u trust and u believe that person can help u then u should talk to that person!. i dnt kno if u have school right now but if u do talking to a trust counselor can help i kno it has helped me alot in my days!. also family problems happen alot and very frequently and eventually some of them will pass!. but stick through it i wish u the best!. if u need anything email me!. and think about talking to some one if u please!. good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

I don't believe in medication if there is obvious self-healing to be done!. I went through, and I think most everyone goes through that time as a teenager where everything seems to go wrong!. My parents got divorced when I was in high school, what do you do in college!? What do you study!? Will I have enough money!? Will I lose my friends!? Why are their so many cliques in school!? It's all really stressful!. All I can say is find an outlet within you and attach yourself to it!. That outlet will not only allow you to distract yourself from things going on (like at home) but it will also give you a way to express what your'e feeling in a positive way!. Do you paint!? Do you write!? Do you play sports!? Do you create websites!? Do you write music!? Do you collect stones!? Do you people watch!? There's tons of things you can find!. My outlet is writing!. It's great because I can write down what I'm feeling, get it out of me, and distract myself from what's actually going on because I'm using that to be creative, or angry, or happy or what have you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

the reason you are depressed is because of hormones!.
and you are just starting your life so you really have no reason to cry!.
i would see a phsyciatrist but just know that everybody has to grow old eventually and they all have to die, so that more people can be born and the human population continues!.
but you are NOT even CLOSE to being old, DON'T WORRY! your life is just beginning you have NOT seen everything the world has to offer yet!Www@Answer-Health@Com

that happens a lot to teenagers, and i know that once i start hitting the 17 and 18 age, i'm gonna be so scared of life that comes up after that!. /= just spend a lot of time with your friends and live life to its fullest!. (: once you do that, then maybe you'll have a better feeling of moving on!. hope i helped! :DWww@Answer-Health@Com

Wow!. We're in similar situations! The last year of my life has been really tough, just like yours!. What's helped me is finding one or two things in my life that I enjoy so much!. For me it's writing, music, and sports!. I focus all of my energy on those things and when I'm involved in them it feels like nothing else is bothering me!. Finding a way to de-stress is a really good way to get through!. If you find those things that you're really passionate about will help a lot!.
Also, find really fun things to do!. Like a lot of times I just find myself so bored just sitting at home doing nothing, so I just take a walk or call a friend up, or even just go to a store you enjoy, like Barnes & Nobles!. Also, change your room! Redecorate or put some pictures up on your wall, just make it an enjoyable atmosphere!.

If I can make it through, so can you!
Just hang in there, I really do think that it'll get easier!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Make goals!. ex "i'm going to get a boyfriend, i'm going to make a really great best friend, i'm goign to get a job, i'm going to take a trip to six flags, i'm going to do great in school, i'm going to try to get closer to my family"!. When you have goals, it willl chop up your future into fun sections that will be amusing to work towards! trust me!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I really feel for you, I remember being a teenager, it's no picnic! Teenagers go through alot of changes ,emotionally and physically!. Try to concentrate on the things and people that make you happy!. Just think after you turn 18 you will be your own person and nobody can tell you what you can or cannot do!. You won't have to answer to anyone anymore once you turn 18!. Try to think about the things you want to do in life and set goals to achieve them!. Don't look at the negative in your life just look at the positive, count your blessings and remember, soon this phase of life will pass, I promise you! Don't listen to the negativity from people on here or anywhere else, life is what you make it, remember that!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I've been feeling really bad lately too!.

my brother has started on heroin now as well as canabis, my grandad has had an angina attack (he's ok, though) and now he's not talking to us, and my friends keep insisting that i'm turning into some one else!. They're not talking to me either!.

Don't know how to get over it, sorry!.

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I would like to show sympathy for you, I really would, but if you think your life is bad now, just wait until you approach middle age!. Your parents will be in declining health, and perhaps die when you least expect them to!.!.!.you'll have bills out the wazoo!.!.!.!.you might be on the verge of bankruptcy!.!.!.!.divorce spouse because of infidelity!.!.!.!.believe me, I would trade you places if I could!. A lot of people would!. Things at age 18 only SEEM bad, compared with what is to come!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Some phycologist call this SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder)!. every year 6 out of 100 (6%) teenagers feel like this!. (so do i) usally after school terms like summer and winter!.!. Its because of your hormone that causes you to think such of a thing!.!.!. If you do read this it will help!.!.!. cause knowing what causes you being sad will help you!.!.!. It helped me !.!.!.!.

one night i couldn't sleep cause i was too depressed thats why i search the web for some answers after that i felt happy to know that its normal!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

And look at how many of us care to take the time to answer because many of us have been there, got better, survived and life is wonderful!. Of course you want pain to go away, who wouldn't!. Talk to a counselor to evaluate and see what you need!. We all love you here!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think that you should go see a docter, there a meds out now that will help you feel better!. Trust me, i have been where you are, it sounds like you may have a chemical imbalance!. they can help you correct it and you will feel better, make an appt!. Shannon:)Www@Answer-Health@Com

i was the same way, just dont over think things anymore!. everyone goes through that point of depression!. find things
and people that really make you happy and forget all your problems!. dont be scared of what comes after 18!. your stronger than you think!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

weel i have the same prob but i am 12 i have depression and i have a lot of family probs when i feel like that i just talk to someone it makes it better really so call your friends or me i am bored and feel like **** crazyrockstar30@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com

well i got to say sometimes depression comes with age And as you said stress can cause alot of depression!.!.!.!.!.you need to look at the bright side of life!.!.your alive, your healthy, now go out and make yourself HAPPY!.!.U can do it!Www@Answer-Health@Com

GG mike seriously, she has a terible problem!. my answer is that you must relax, take it easy for a bit!. Go out and take a walk!. or talk to your family!.

srry i feel bad for you =(Www@Answer-Health@Com

Think about this when you are over 18 you are free you can do everything you like to and your parents can`t stop ya!. Get rid of all the worries you will be fineWww@Answer-Health@Com

i suggest you find something to do!. like a hobby!. if not!.!.!. taking a long walk through your local park, some light hiking can do wonders on clearing your mind!. always works for me!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, I'd first figure out if the condition is biological like "Depression" or just needing to do something like getting more sun, going out for fun more often!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Plan out a happy place, so that u can get ur fellings out and be relaxed!. Put a bunch of stuff that u like together while getting ur fellings out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

find a therapist or go to a school guidance counselor!. trust me, it'll help!.

but since school hasnt started yet, just hold on till then, k!?

good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

my early 20's were **** for me- really down not wanting to get out of bed- even when i had to work, you'll get there- won't be easy , but then life ain'tWww@Answer-Health@Com

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DAMN YOU, GURL! You're not alone!. Me!? I sometimes cry without any reason at all!. That's horrible!. LOL!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Go see a doctor!. Good Luck!!!


Have a great day!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think something that helped me was drugsWww@Answer-Health@Com





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