Small school blaming me for smoking..?!
Question: Small school blaming me for smoking!.!.!?
ok so this past year i have gone through alot of crap at my school iv lost many of my friends and there parents are saying things about me and how they wont let there children hang out with me!. teachers are talking about me behind my back!.!. it has gotten all out of hand!. everyone is saying i am smoking!. and im NOT!. i even took a drug test to prove it!. but they dont belive me!. my mother is extreamly upset!. and i dont know how much longer i can deal with it!. my mind it going crazy!. uhhhh please help!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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You can't stop whispering among students, but I think it would be absolutely right for your mother to talk to the principal and tell him that it is unacceptable for the staff to take part in spreading rumors and that if the school required a drug test without cause and this caused harm to your reputaton they damn well put things right or you will contact a lawyer!. Furthermore, if any mother tells her child that she cannot spend time with you, she should tell them that she would hate to think what would happen if a mother less scrupulous than she were to spread false rumors that *their* kids were using drugs!. I think they'll get the message!. And if your Mom won't believe you!? Tell her that if she's going to insist that you're smoking no matter what you do, you have no incentive not to do it -- and that with each toke you take, you will be thinking of *her!.*
Or just ignore the whole thing and let it blow over!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Or just ignore the whole thing and let it blow over!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Be rational with them!. Make sure you don't behave what they consider 'odd'!. Yeah, sometimes it does matter what people think of you if it can affect your future!. Don't lose control of your temper!. That won't help!. Offer to take daily/weekly drug tests to prove it!.
I dunno, really!. I've never had a situation like that!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I dunno, really!. I've never had a situation like that!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com