Any ideas for more confidence?!
Question: Any ideas for more confidence!?
I am a quiet kind of guy, not very popular and have almost no luck with girls!. I thought maybe if I had more confidence, then i could know what to say and do!. It'd be great if any methods given have a low ridicule potential!. I am already the target of a lot of jokes and insults (mainly because I'm in band and I am a "ginger!." Society thinks it's cool to mock people with red hair now)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
The best confidence comes when you don't try! Have you ever been eating in public and tell yourself "don't spill, don't spill, don't spill"-- and that's exactly what happens!
It's the same with trying to be "cool" with the ladies- the harder you try, the less success you find!.
The best place to start is where you feel most comfortable, like in band- be friendly with the people around you- girls and guys!. Remember nobody really feels totally comfortable in high school!. You're in good company!. If you are ready to help someone else feel at ease- you'll find that you're more at ease too!. Real confidence shines best when we totally forget ourselves and are involved in that moment!. Good luck!
Hey- red hair is great! Enjoy it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's the same with trying to be "cool" with the ladies- the harder you try, the less success you find!.
The best place to start is where you feel most comfortable, like in band- be friendly with the people around you- girls and guys!. Remember nobody really feels totally comfortable in high school!. You're in good company!. If you are ready to help someone else feel at ease- you'll find that you're more at ease too!. Real confidence shines best when we totally forget ourselves and are involved in that moment!. Good luck!
Hey- red hair is great! Enjoy it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do what Carrot Top did, lift some weights!. It'll make em think twice!.
Also as for confidence, it's all you really!. Try talking to your school Councilor for help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also as for confidence, it's all you really!. Try talking to your school Councilor for help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
O!.k well just be yourselfd and dont let people get to you then you will make girlfriends oh yeah and always be nice to the ladies and be sensitive 2 their feelings!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
just be yourself and dont mind what others think of you!. ride on their jokes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com