What can i do?! Kind of long but please answer...10 points!?!
Question: What can i do!?! Kind of long but please answer!.!.!.10 points!!?
I've asked SO many questions in this section since i've joined!.!.!.all pretty much about the same thing so sorry about that!.
Almost two months ago i finally got to the point in my life where i needed to seek help for self harming, suicidal thoughts and feeling down all the time!. My alcohol intake was increasing dramatically and i was starting to take drugs (weed and MDMA)!. Basically i was messing up in every way and couldn't pull myself out this 'downward spiral'!. I
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Almost two months ago i finally got to the point in my life where i needed to seek help for self harming, suicidal thoughts and feeling down all the time!. My alcohol intake was increasing dramatically and i was starting to take drugs (weed and MDMA)!. Basically i was messing up in every way and couldn't pull myself out this 'downward spiral'!. I
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Woah whoah whoah, babe!. You don't have to wait another 6 months to improve!. That is a lie you are telling yourself!. Your doctor doesn't hold all of the answers to your problems!. God is!.!.!. but I won't force any religion down your throat right now!. Doing so would be rude!.
You are not stuck in any position!. At any time you could stop this horrible addiction!. There is a place called Alchoholics Anonymous for alchoholics, and there are also other group meeting near you for users, abusers, cutters, ect!.!.!. This group has helped me through so much that I can't even explain it!. They have helped me get out of this rutt that my life was in!. Basically, it a free meeting to go to and use the 12 steps to help you through realizing your addictions, consoling to your higher power to help you, and letting go of all of your problems to be a new you!. I promise you that if you go you will see a difference!. So, try it!. Go online and search for "Alchoholics Anonymous" for meetings near you, and go!. There are leaders who will explain everything to you so you feel comfortable!. I guarentee you will meet some great friends there!.
I hope this helps you!. this is your choice!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are not stuck in any position!. At any time you could stop this horrible addiction!. There is a place called Alchoholics Anonymous for alchoholics, and there are also other group meeting near you for users, abusers, cutters, ect!.!.!. This group has helped me through so much that I can't even explain it!. They have helped me get out of this rutt that my life was in!. Basically, it a free meeting to go to and use the 12 steps to help you through realizing your addictions, consoling to your higher power to help you, and letting go of all of your problems to be a new you!. I promise you that if you go you will see a difference!. So, try it!. Go online and search for "Alchoholics Anonymous" for meetings near you, and go!. There are leaders who will explain everything to you so you feel comfortable!. I guarentee you will meet some great friends there!.
I hope this helps you!. this is your choice!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You HAVE to find a new doctor!. In your condition, waiting 6 months to see these people is absurd!!!
I'm glad that you know that you need help, and you don't want to continue harming yourself any longer!. You can't beat this on your own, and your doctors obviously aren't helping!. Seek other help immediatly!.
Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm glad that you know that you need help, and you don't want to continue harming yourself any longer!. You can't beat this on your own, and your doctors obviously aren't helping!. Seek other help immediatly!.
Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
u r stuck!.!.accept it and looks like u know it and enjoy being stuck!.!.!.the only person who can help u is urself and god!.!.!.help others,,volunteer,,,,,when u help even the tiniest of others u r helping ME!.!.!.!.!.go out!.!.!.!.reach out!.!.!.this country needs u!.!.!.people out there with worse problems are screaming for a word of support !.!.!.help them!.!.help urself!.!.!.good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
why are you depressed and smoke nutmeg it is kind of an anti depressant it is legal i cant say it is exactly healthy but its not as addicting try that instead of weed and it will help you slow down on the alcohol!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
go to an alcholics a meeting
take up a hobby(somthing to do to take your mind off drinking etcc!.)
Go to friend/ family member for help
please dont kill yourself; for every one person dead about 30 are affected(ie!. family memeberWww@Answer-Health@Com
take up a hobby(somthing to do to take your mind off drinking etcc!.)
Go to friend/ family member for help
please dont kill yourself; for every one person dead about 30 are affected(ie!. family memeberWww@Answer-Health@Com
when you feel like drinking pinch yurself really really hard!!!Get some help!!don't take drugs!go to a diff doctor!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Its during these times you need family!. Go to your family and ask them for help!.
Good luck!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good luck!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
never go anywhere alone!.
bring a friend with you
tell that friend to keep you from drinkingWww@Answer-Health@Com
bring a friend with you
tell that friend to keep you from drinkingWww@Answer-Health@Com
you have to WANT to stop!. people dont stop cutting because someone told them they have to, or drinking because as you've told us ur not doing that!. you need someone to take every bit of alcohol outa your house!. if its gone then you wont drink it!. now the cutting!. you need a reason to stop not because its bad for you not because someone told you to quit a solid gold reason that you think is worth your life!. do you have family that you could potentially hurt with the cutting, mentally if not physically!. i stoped because of my family and my friends!. they are the reason i dont have any scars, i dont want to see their wounded hearts if they found out i was hurting myself on purpose, maybe thats what you need!. a reason to stop!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know is hard, but you need to start loving yourself!. Until that happens, you will be stuck in a rot!.
I am guessing you are your worse critic!. Things are not as bad as you imagine them;my suggestion: everytime you think something is bad, think it could be worst and how lucky you are!. Life would not be enjoyable w/o the bad things that happen to us!.
Stop drinking and taking drugs, I know is hard, but like I said before you need to love yourself as you are body and mind!. drugs are not doing any good to you!.
also, whatever happens to you is your responsibility!. If you stop blaming everyone else (mom, dad, aunt, friends) and you realize that what you do has consequences, you'll learn to be happy with what you have!.
Hope everything gets better, and I wish you the best!. Life is beautiful so enjoy it!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am guessing you are your worse critic!. Things are not as bad as you imagine them;my suggestion: everytime you think something is bad, think it could be worst and how lucky you are!. Life would not be enjoyable w/o the bad things that happen to us!.
Stop drinking and taking drugs, I know is hard, but like I said before you need to love yourself as you are body and mind!. drugs are not doing any good to you!.
also, whatever happens to you is your responsibility!. If you stop blaming everyone else (mom, dad, aunt, friends) and you realize that what you do has consequences, you'll learn to be happy with what you have!.
Hope everything gets better, and I wish you the best!. Life is beautiful so enjoy it!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, for the self-harming part the best thing I can think of is just try to have fun, go swimming or something!. It's not big but it should take your mind off of things like alcohol and suicide!. Just say this to yourself, would u want to die!? Think of all the good things that happened and those things will happen again!. Basically do anything to keep your mind off self-harming, alcohol, and suicide thoughts!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
find someone else who has time to see and be with you!. i see a NET (neuro emotional technique) doctor who helps me!. see if you have one in your area!. i have to travel two hours one way every week or two!. for me it is worth it!. look it up and read up on it!. it is truely amazingWww@Answer-Health@Com
well if you are very serious about quiting and you want to get better you should be very proud of your self!. to reduce your drinking habits try to shorten it to one glass of the drink you like a day!.
now next i really want you to make an appointment to see your doctor and demand but in the most polite way to see her more so your habits can decrease!. now don't feel bad atleast your trying to quit!.
if your doctor can't help you try to go to a rehabillitation clinic!. they are perfesional people who can help you
lastly i say good luck
don't give upWww@Answer-Health@Com
now next i really want you to make an appointment to see your doctor and demand but in the most polite way to see her more so your habits can decrease!. now don't feel bad atleast your trying to quit!.
if your doctor can't help you try to go to a rehabillitation clinic!. they are perfesional people who can help you
lastly i say good luck
don't give upWww@Answer-Health@Com
I was a drinker, a cutter, a pain pill addict, and no psych!. could help me!. I had to help me!. A higher power helped me, along with myself to quit drinking!. After I quit drinking, I began to work on the cutting(diagnosed Boarderline Personality-most psy!. will give up on you with this diagnosis)!. It took a while, and from time to time when hurt, I want to cut-yet I always find something else to do to stop my pattern of thinking this way-a more positive approach-if just going to the ballpark or riding to a friends house!. Find something about you that you like, and not dislike-I know its hard-but there is something good about you!. Remember this-you cannot get out of the glass house unless you run head on into the glass-and one day you will find that exit and not be stuck in it anymore!.!.!.find that way!.!.!.!.please-It will not always be like it is now-at this moment!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had a friend who was in this exact position and she turned to me for help!. You really need to confide in someone close to you, someone you know will not tell anyone and that will support you all the way!.
You need to identify the reasons that have made you this way, and begin to sort them out!. For example, it its a boy problem, get rid of any boys in your life who are causing you hassle!.
Another way to survive the next months are by seeking new friends and trying to find a hobby!. I know it sounds stupid but keeping yourself occupied helps alot in this sort of situation!.
Try something new everyday and always remember that there are SO many people who care about you in the world, and you dying will make so many other people sad as well!. xxx
hope this helped you xWww@Answer-Health@Com
You need to identify the reasons that have made you this way, and begin to sort them out!. For example, it its a boy problem, get rid of any boys in your life who are causing you hassle!.
Another way to survive the next months are by seeking new friends and trying to find a hobby!. I know it sounds stupid but keeping yourself occupied helps alot in this sort of situation!.
Try something new everyday and always remember that there are SO many people who care about you in the world, and you dying will make so many other people sad as well!. xxx
hope this helped you xWww@Answer-Health@Com
I Understand how you feel i was basically in the same situation!.I cut ,i did drugs !.You should search for moral support from people around you if you truly believe your an alcoholic seek help try AA and the people there are not there to judge you they're there to get through it together maybe you need to look back in your life and forget everything bad that ever happened to you and realize its in the past !.if you drowning you sorrows in alcohol you need to step up and become sober if there is something the can do about the wont be able to if you keep drinking i hope i've helped good luck and to try and pervent cutting put a rubber band on your rist and snap when eve you have the urgh to cutWww@Answer-Health@Com
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