Help i think i have a terrible life?!
Question: Help i think i have a terrible life!?
Ok I am 13 years old(almost 14) I have a terrible dad who treats me like a slave,thinks I'm stupid,treats my brother like a king(not joking)!.My brother (12 years old)hits me,blames everything on me,thinks he can do anything cause he is taller,brings me down,and he is dum! I am in a dance company I am always the one not talking to anybody cause well I don't know why,theres nothing wrong with me cause my church,acting class,baseball team thinks I'm the best person there so I am confused!.I also have a dream don't think I'm a brat but I want to be an actress famous,and I'm good!Anyway I have told my mom about my dad,brother,and friend situations she trys to help but shes not good at it!. If you want anymore info I'm sweet,silly,not really shy,talented(not bragging),and normal looking I guess!.I do pray everynight to make my life better! Oh I know that your supposed to love your life but how can i do that,I try to make my life better but it dosen't help!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Life is usually hard at that age!. You feel stuck between a rock and a hard place!. Dont worry, you're not alone, we've all been there!. I have an older brother and when we were at that age he would treat me like dirt, especially when his friends were around!. If your mother is around try confiding in her, if not, talk to your friends and perhaps their moms about it if you feel comfortable enough!. Is there someone at church who can help or you can talk to!?
The best advice I can give and looking back on what I went through is keep yourself occupied with your friends, sports/activities and study study study!. The only way you can help yourself is by getting good grades in school, then you'll be able to go away to college and be free from that!. It will get better as you guys get older but right now you need to focus on yourself and do what makes you happy!.
They do this kind of stuff because they need attention, good or bad, so try to ignore them!. They may act out worse because you are ignoring them but they will stop when they see they're not getting a reaction out of you!.
Good luck and keep your head high, all that matters is what you think of yourself so dont let anyone stop you from achieving your dreams!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The best advice I can give and looking back on what I went through is keep yourself occupied with your friends, sports/activities and study study study!. The only way you can help yourself is by getting good grades in school, then you'll be able to go away to college and be free from that!. It will get better as you guys get older but right now you need to focus on yourself and do what makes you happy!.
They do this kind of stuff because they need attention, good or bad, so try to ignore them!. They may act out worse because you are ignoring them but they will stop when they see they're not getting a reaction out of you!.
Good luck and keep your head high, all that matters is what you think of yourself so dont let anyone stop you from achieving your dreams!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well you have a better handle on things than I did at that age, just being able to look at yourself from outside gives you the power to change how you deal with everything in your life!. I am glad to hear of your prayer , and continue to ask in your prayer for the compassion and patience Www@Answer-Health@Com
Welcome to my life!. :D
Your making yourself think there's something wrong with you!.
Stop being so dramatic!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your making yourself think there's something wrong with you!.
Stop being so dramatic!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I DIDN'T READ ALL NO BODY WAS BORN TO HAVE TERRIBLE LIFE ONLY IF YOU ARE CURSEDWww@Answer-Health@Com
what the hell was your question!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Is there just your brother and you or are there other children!. It sounds like you have a full active pretty normal teen life!. I remember thinking my Dad was the biggest monster in the world!. I felt like he picked on me and never let up!. You know what!? I was wrong!. I'm betting you are too!. I know it seems like you're being picked on and you get all the blame at times but enjoy your father while you have him!. Maybe he feels your brother needs more attention, it sounds like you have a very active life with lots of friends!. Our parents sometimes treat us differently because we are after all, different!. I felt the same way about my Dad and my brothers and sisters!. I realized the day he died at only 47 what a truly wonderful man he was and everything he did that I thought of as being "picked on" was actually in my best interest and because he thought that I could be doing better than what I was!. It's a shame we don't usually realize just how lucky we are to have a parent that loves us enough to stand up and tell us things we don't want to hear!. Good Luck, I'm sure your father is doing what he thinks is best for you!. I'll bet there aren't many 13 or 14 year olds where you are that don't at times feel their life is terrible!. With all the things you do it cannot be a terrible life, it just feels like it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If your brother is abusing you, tell your preacher, teacher, coach, counselor, cop; somebody!. If all else fails "fight back" Instep, shins, knees from the side, testicles, just above the pelvic bone, stomach, adams apple!. You play sports so you must have some strength use it to your advantage!. All bullies, your brother included!. Will stay a bully, until somebody really gives him a good *** whooping!. Drop Dance class for a while and take Karate, Judo, or Brazilian Jujitsu!. Once he knows that you know how to induce pain on his body he will think twice about messing with you!. Nothing is more embarising than getting whiipped in front of a crowd by your sister!.Www@Answer-Health@Com