How can I improve on my happiness...?!
Question: How can I improve on my happiness!.!.!.!?
I don't even care about anyone in my school anymore!. They're all fake friends!. I do know my main issue for not fitting in and being so uncomfortable but, it has nothing to do with friendship!.
I usually have a downed face on!. Unhappy!. I rarely notice but, uh smiling!.!. :l
I really started to question my happiness after today when I was walking from school and I guess I had my sad/strange face look on and this guy says "Hey kid, you all right!?" I was like uh yeah!.!.!. I felt like I was in some movie when that's just the start and then everything starts to fall apart later on!.
Even this girl that liked me in my class completely lost interest now cause of one of my girl cousins making me look like a complete idiot due to past issues over a girl I loved!. Now I'm messing up every time a teacher call my name!. Can't even give a straight answer because so much is going through my mind!.
Put it this way, I've messed up so much trying to be what I wasn't that everyone has thought bad about me!. All I do is stay home now!.!.!.!. I get happy when I go to the store or something cause it's something to do other than be home!.!.!. man I really would like to have some good friends!. I'm jealous of some of my current friends and their bonds with others!.
Anyways I usually prefer to stay alone now!. No one seems to care or ask why!. It's usual!.!.!. what else to expect from them!. Lame!.
If any of you would like, it would be cool to email chat via yahoo!.
What do you recommend guys!. I need to kick start my life again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I usually have a downed face on!. Unhappy!. I rarely notice but, uh smiling!.!. :l
I really started to question my happiness after today when I was walking from school and I guess I had my sad/strange face look on and this guy says "Hey kid, you all right!?" I was like uh yeah!.!.!. I felt like I was in some movie when that's just the start and then everything starts to fall apart later on!.
Even this girl that liked me in my class completely lost interest now cause of one of my girl cousins making me look like a complete idiot due to past issues over a girl I loved!. Now I'm messing up every time a teacher call my name!. Can't even give a straight answer because so much is going through my mind!.
Put it this way, I've messed up so much trying to be what I wasn't that everyone has thought bad about me!. All I do is stay home now!.!.!.!. I get happy when I go to the store or something cause it's something to do other than be home!.!.!. man I really would like to have some good friends!. I'm jealous of some of my current friends and their bonds with others!.
Anyways I usually prefer to stay alone now!. No one seems to care or ask why!. It's usual!.!.!. what else to expect from them!. Lame!.
If any of you would like, it would be cool to email chat via yahoo!.
What do you recommend guys!. I need to kick start my life again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
hey im the same way well a little i guess, try going out as much as possible it can help u relax and change ur mood!. im more than welcome to talk to u cuz i also need someone to talk to and about ur friends true friends are the friends that are always there for you if those friends arent then they dont deserve u and its not worth it ull find friends who care, im sure theres someone out there who cares u just dont know it i will email if to talk, we might be internet friends i hope so, hope i can helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
Wow!. I felt just like you did in high school and even a little bit like that now!. I don't know how exactly to overcome it though and I wish I did!. Like everyone else is going to say though it sounds like you have depression!. You can email me if you want to!. k_price15@yahoo!.com
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Everyone has a different threshold of confidence!. A creative way of "not caring" is probably a good first step!. Much of today's society centers too much around approval from peers!.
A good second step would be to screen who you choose to be your friends!. People who try to have fun at your expense should be marked off your list!. In today's shallow society, it is a good accomplishment to have 2 or 3 real friends!.
It's up to you to be yourself and not settle for compromise when the pressure is on!. It's usually a good idea to be relatively positive in conversation even when you detect someone who is less than sincere!.
Do not reward people who practice inappropriate behavior toward you!. Simply ignore them and move on!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
A good second step would be to screen who you choose to be your friends!. People who try to have fun at your expense should be marked off your list!. In today's shallow society, it is a good accomplishment to have 2 or 3 real friends!.
It's up to you to be yourself and not settle for compromise when the pressure is on!. It's usually a good idea to be relatively positive in conversation even when you detect someone who is less than sincere!.
Do not reward people who practice inappropriate behavior toward you!. Simply ignore them and move on!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is 3 types of health!. Physical, mental, and social!. Since you want social mostly, then just walk up to random people on your street and say 'Hi' or 'Good morning' a bit and start conversations!. That way you can have more friends quicker!. Also join clubs at your school, even if its something you never do, try it out!. You get to meet new people, learn something new, and have a good experience!. The best club you can join is sports teams!. They grow the best friendly relationships!. Ask anyone they probably would say that sports is a better way to be social then a chess club or something!.
Also never think there is something wrong with you!. You we're born the way you are for a reason and to have a chance to have success and make the world better for the future!. Even if your not interested in helping the future, your still a mark of success in the world!. What are you good at in life!? You might be better or worse then me but you got something better then me!. You probably have bravery to have the guts enough to write this without thinking of getting made fun of!.
Make goals for yourself!. Try to make a list every month like "Meet 3 new friends every week and go somewhere with them"!. You get what I mean!?
Hope you have a nice day, and message me if you want more advice!. yungbeast876@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com
Also never think there is something wrong with you!. You we're born the way you are for a reason and to have a chance to have success and make the world better for the future!. Even if your not interested in helping the future, your still a mark of success in the world!. What are you good at in life!? You might be better or worse then me but you got something better then me!. You probably have bravery to have the guts enough to write this without thinking of getting made fun of!.
Make goals for yourself!. Try to make a list every month like "Meet 3 new friends every week and go somewhere with them"!. You get what I mean!?
Hope you have a nice day, and message me if you want more advice!. yungbeast876@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well dude it seems like you need God!. I was the same way untill i found true happiness from God!. Hes the only happiness I could ever find!. Were in this world searching , searching for something and we may think we find it in chicks or people or fancy stuff!. No even the guy who sings dont worrie be happy commited suicide!. They truly did not have happiness!. Once you accept JEsus in your heart so say i sin which means i do stuff wrong that i no is bad then we ask for forgivness and say i cant do anything on my own and that you need God and you belive that Jesus came to earth to die for every little white lie!. Can you belive someone died for our sake so we dont burn in hell!.Www@Answer-Health@Com