I think my g/f is trying to kill me. help!?!
Question: I think my g/f is trying to kill me!. help!!?
My girlfriend has always been controlling and a little unstable!. I've learned to deal with her mood swings and be supportive of her!. But lately, its like she's just gone crazy! She's definitely sadistic and dominating, but its past experimenting with whips or bondage!. She enjoys hitting me, scratching me, biting me!. The other night, a group of us were watching Glass House 2 and the mom was cutting her daughter!. A guy friend of our said he thought cutting someone might be interesting (more as a joke than anything) and she offered to cut him or let him butcher her! Then she threw herself on top of him right in front of me! I was in shock, the guy refused and said he wasn't serious and she got pissed! So, I said something about it being over, and she grabbed me hard and screamed "You love me and you will NEVER EVER leave me!" Then she slapped me!.
I know I need to get away from her, obviously she is psychotic, but deep down I do care for her and I want her to get help!. I'm afraid she might harm herself or others if I let her go on like this, but I really don't know how to bring up the subject without her going crazy again!. I don't want to stay in this relationship, but I really don't wanna die either!. What should I do!? We are all adults, its not like I can tell her parents or school counselor or anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know I need to get away from her, obviously she is psychotic, but deep down I do care for her and I want her to get help!. I'm afraid she might harm herself or others if I let her go on like this, but I really don't know how to bring up the subject without her going crazy again!. I don't want to stay in this relationship, but I really don't wanna die either!. What should I do!? We are all adults, its not like I can tell her parents or school counselor or anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
If you are living together just pack up and leave one day when she is out of the house and go somewhere far away ,if you possibly can!.!. If you cannot go far away be prepared for some stalking behavior!. So the farthest you can go the better!.You are in an abusive relationship and do not deserve to be in one!. You deserve to be treated with dignaty and respect!. Tell all of your friends to say they have not seen you or heard from you!. It will be tough for a while but not as hard as a life time of abuse and battery !. try to remember there is a light at the end of the tunnell!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
get her to a hospital or psychiatrist or something and get out of the relationship as soon as you can!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get help
go to a hospital or call a response hot line
ask for an intervention for you girl friend it sounds like she needs one
try www!.ResponseHotline!.org
there maybe different local one for you
good luck
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go to a hospital or call a response hot line
ask for an intervention for you girl friend it sounds like she needs one
try www!.ResponseHotline!.org
there maybe different local one for you
good luck
Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe shes just having her period but its just lasting a LOT longer than it should, girls are usually like that at that time of the month, or yearWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hide!.
Hide far, far away!.
Change your name!.!.!.
and your hair color!.!.!.
Seriously, I dunno, dude!. You really need to leave her and stop worrying about her!. Hiding might be your best choice!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hide far, far away!.
Change your name!.!.!.
and your hair color!.!.!.
Seriously, I dunno, dude!. You really need to leave her and stop worrying about her!. Hiding might be your best choice!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
LOL
Sounds like you're going to have to kill her before she kills you!.
Seriously though,, Don't be such a prude!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like you're going to have to kill her before she kills you!.
Seriously though,, Don't be such a prude!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do what's best for you get out!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
First, the internet is NOT a safe nor smart place to seek advice on an issue that is better left to professional, face to face, exploration!.
You may need to ask yourself what keeps you in this relationship, HONESTLY!? The answer may set you free!. Codependent relationships are frequently abusive, and we psychologically hook ourselves into them until we can realize that we deserve better than that which is familiar and comfortable, though painful and potentially dangerous!.
Remember, YOU said: "We are all adults"! It's time to act like a bright adult for your own well being regardless of her issues!. Otherwise aren't you just reenacting your adolescent, dependent, relationships!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
You may need to ask yourself what keeps you in this relationship, HONESTLY!? The answer may set you free!. Codependent relationships are frequently abusive, and we psychologically hook ourselves into them until we can realize that we deserve better than that which is familiar and comfortable, though painful and potentially dangerous!.
Remember, YOU said: "We are all adults"! It's time to act like a bright adult for your own well being regardless of her issues!. Otherwise aren't you just reenacting your adolescent, dependent, relationships!?Www@Answer-Health@Com