What would you do any advice?!
Question: What would you do any advice!?
My 13 year old cousin and I have gotten close!.
My cousin always comes to me with any problems she has whatever it may be!.
She does not really go to her Mother or my Uncle with her problems!.
Since she has been coming to me with her problems and feels the need to trust me more then she does her own Mother or Grandfather I felt the need to help her in any way that I can!.
My uncle told me yesterday not to get involved any longer!.
I do not know what to do because my Cousin looks up to me more then her own Mother because her own Mother is not around, and she doesnt want to bother my Uncle with any problems but I do not want to cause any problems either but I do not want to hurt my cousin either!.
What would you do any advice!?!?!?
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My cousin always comes to me with any problems she has whatever it may be!.
She does not really go to her Mother or my Uncle with her problems!.
Since she has been coming to me with her problems and feels the need to trust me more then she does her own Mother or Grandfather I felt the need to help her in any way that I can!.
My uncle told me yesterday not to get involved any longer!.
I do not know what to do because my Cousin looks up to me more then her own Mother because her own Mother is not around, and she doesnt want to bother my Uncle with any problems but I do not want to cause any problems either but I do not want to hurt my cousin either!.
What would you do any advice!?!?!?
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Answers:
If he is the legal guardian, there may not be much you can do!. Which one is your blood relative, her mother (your aunt!?) or your uncle (who I guess is her father) - I got confused on who's who!. Anyway, she may need to work through the problem of why she can't go to her parents!. That's the first issue!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have the same situation!. My mom and my uncle don't get along but my cousin and I are really close!. She always comes to me for advice!.
This is between you and your cousin!. No one else!. Tell your uncle (in a respectful manner of course) that his issues with your mom have nothing to do with your relationship with your cousin and that you are both very close!. Dialogue is key!. Talk to him, preferably when your cousin is there, and let him know how you both feel!. He'll understand!. Best of luck to both of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This is between you and your cousin!. No one else!. Tell your uncle (in a respectful manner of course) that his issues with your mom have nothing to do with your relationship with your cousin and that you are both very close!. Dialogue is key!. Talk to him, preferably when your cousin is there, and let him know how you both feel!. He'll understand!. Best of luck to both of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com