school psychologist wants to talk with me? Help please?!
Question: School psychologist wants to talk with me? Help please?
The school psychologist was in our class today and talked about some things it was like discussion. After the class she come to me & told me want to talk to me i got very nervous and said ok. She told me to go on Wednesday. She had once asked me before but i didn't go. Im 16 y.o girl and in a new school. I have so many big problems i always had but now it is really hard for me because my psychic is really breaking. And im always very worried and stressed, i don't have anyone to talk to.I once though about talking to her about a problem of mine but forgot where her room was and i thought i wont search her.
And in school is hard it stresses me very much and waking up early. I can't relax and its hard for me to comunicate with someone that is not close or a serious person. And it becomes really hard when im at school and stressed but my classmates are always like very unserious and all the time jokeing. But they are nice it's just that im like wrong and can't like socialize with them. Even a boy from the class likes me. Im always thinking about very different things from them.
I have to go to the psychologist because it will be so stupid if i don't i said yes i'll go i had to say something to get away but i got very nervous. And the problem is that i'm really afraid to go and i have problems talking so it will be so awkward i won't know what to say and will get nervous and shy. I don't want to tell her about me. And also when she tolkes to me she talks really calm and slowly but when someone talks to me like this i can't control myself and start to cry it will look like apparently without a reason and i dont know what feelings i will have. She will think me for crazy i might be but i hope you understand what i mean. I hate it there have been some adult people that talk to me like this trying to calm me when i was very upset but i start to cry.
And if some psychologist reads this or someone who know what'd she want to talk with me about? Probbably about school and the class...what else? And also my father is very unserious and probably less brain from drinking but recently i got something like a habbit from him that he often laughts about things that are not to laught about like he is making fun and sometimes i sometimes laught at some things like i think of something from the funny side but its not funny. My reaction sometimes is to look at it as a funny even if it serious, its like otherwise i will start to feel bad while laughing( morelike smiling) won't. But if i go to her and start feeling like this if i can't take seriously and can't concentrate when we talk? i'll be a big retard. What should i do? Today when she asked meto go to her it was radnom and i felt like this :( i knowim such a big idiot but
Please would you sugest me something about all this i know it is really weird and im probbably really not with my mind but my life is not like a normal person's.
I wonder should i go to her ? I have to go on this Wednesday.
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It's not suprising that schools are now becoming "headhunters" for the mental health system.
Often, "headhunters" collect a fee for "labeling" their victims and directing the victim to a corporate barbarian quack psychiatrist.
In a weak depressed ecomony, the corporate mercenary quacks are always looking for new customers, or "victims." to experiment on with their toxic, poisonous, mind altering, brain damaging chemical prescription drugs.
Don't let 'em intimidate you, you have rights.
Most school systems must get written permission from parents before you can be subjected to a psychiatric evaluation.
If you find yourself in that situation, politely advise them that they can't pick your brain without permission from your family.
don't be afraid to go. She can really help you and give you the support you need to be less stressed and more relaxed. If she asks you if you have any problems don't be afraid to tell her because thats her job, to sit there and just listen. Every thing you tell her is confidential. No other student, teacher, or faculty member will know about anything you say unless you give her permission to. Your not an idiot , it just seems like you have kept things bottled up for so long and got used to not sharing your feelings and problems that it just became a normal thing for you to do. It just affects your personality and who you really are. You will eventually build a relationship with her and feel comfortable sharing things. You will feel much better. even if you don't have a lot of problems, Just have a normal conversation with her and you may feel comfortable to open up and tell her things when you don't realize. She understands this and behaviors of people, thats why she choose this as her job. Just go and you may feel a lot better. Good luck:)
Personal experience
print this question you have written off and take it with you it explains alot you will not have to worry about how to start talking or write it all down would you be able to give it to them before your appointment it would help them alot to help you and know a bit about what is happening they will know how to make you feel at ease it will be fine i bet once you come out of there you will surprise yourself at how well you coped with it if you can let them know how concerned you are im sure it will all be fine.xx