Need opinions on rape?!
Question: Need opinions on rape?
If you could please just give me some pointers on dealing with situations similar to these, or have any other advice, would be greatly appreciated.
Answers:
Here is the truth:
You were the victim of a crime.
There is no difference if you were robbed or car jacked....it was a crime and you are not at fault at all. The fact that you were intoxicated at a public bar is not an excuse to victimize you, kidnap you, dose you, rape you and assault you.
And so, I'm urging you to return to the sexual health clinic and ask again for the counseling. The women who do sexual assault counseling don't take this as a joke...no, far from it. What happened to you was a serious crime perpetrated by a criminal who is still out there doing this to other women. The counselors are total professionals and they will get you off your self blame and guilt trip and will support you as you recover and learn new assertiveness skills. They will teach you how to protect yourself. They will help you to resolve this episode in your life and have courage to go on.
I'm not kidding.
You desperately need to talk to these people because they are deadly serious about putting guys like the creep who assaulted you behind bars and empowering women, bringing them from victim status to fully confident and functional human beings again.
Don't wait.
Help yourself.
I wish you al the best.
I have a question for you.
Has he ruined you for other men?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mongoloid_race
forget about it......never ever talk about it again with ur friends and tell them strictly once and forever never to discuss it again!!!!
Nothing can be remedied at this stage. One should be very careful, alert and vigilant in future at least. Once bitten twice shy.
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Seeing a professional is the only way to get better.
You need to get counseling you're traumatized and the simple fact that your asking sympathy from strangers is proof. I don't even know if I should feel sorry for you or if you are on here trolling for attention either way you need to talk to someone no ones 4 sentence answer is going to fix this.
If you are pretty and hot guys are going to follow you because they want girls like that and have sex with them. First of all I know you like to drink but do not get drunk in the first place or guys will follow you. Good luck. My local bar is pretty safe.
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