How to forget something that is not pleasant?!
Question:
How to forget something that is not pleasant?
Last weekend I went out with a group of friends (let's say acquaintances), they were not really nice, I didn't enjoy the night and they made me put $ 30 to buy wine or other stuff that I really did not want. Now I realize that I shouldn't have gone out with them, I just went because there was one girl that I knew and I had nothing else to do at home. Now, I regret to have spent those $ 30 in something I didn't really enjoyed. I feel guilty now because I contantly restrain myself from spending money in things that I like just to save for school. Now those damned $ 30 are hammering my head. What do you think I should do to block those strange feelings of stupidity and fault? What can I do to feel better? How can I forgive myself and feel normal again?
This is very weird I think I need a shrink. Has anyone been in the same situation as me. I cannot talk to my family because I feel guilty for not spending my money for good reasons and not even enjoying it.
THANKS!!!
Answers:
Everyone does things that they regret. All you can do is learn from it. You probably won't get your $30 back, sad to say. In the future, you should avoid hanging out with these people, and don't give in to pressure to spend your money again.