Men, if you're married...?!
Question: Ok, first I'm a male myself. Ok, if you're married, would you have a childless relationship? Whenever you have sex, do you always use a condom, regardless of your wife being on birth control, when perporming intercourse?
Or maybe, do you have non-penetrative sex and your wife is fine with it?
Answers: Ok, first I'm a male myself. Ok, if you're married, would you have a childless relationship? Whenever you have sex, do you always use a condom, regardless of your wife being on birth control, when perporming intercourse?
Or maybe, do you have non-penetrative sex and your wife is fine with it?
It really depends on the relationship of the couple. I am married and if we want another child I won't use a condom. If we are having sex for fun I use a condom
Best Regards,
Gordon
I'm married. We are not ready for kids. I'm not even sure if I ever want them. And NO. Neither of us would be happy with not having "penetrative" sex. We would also be very annoyed if we had to use condoms. I am not on birth control because we are Catholic and prefer not to. Anyway, the rhythm method works just fine. Been together 5 years and haven't gotten pregnant.
you should be aware of ur spouse periods. Do keep track. menstruation is a cycle of 28 days. the first 7 days, you can have without a condom. the next 14 days, use a condom when having sex. the next 7 days before she starts her period. you can have sex without a condom. That if she has her period on a regular basis.
If she is on the pill then don't worry about it.
I've been married for 15 years and have three children. Before my wife and I were ready to conceive, she was on the pill. I suggested that I also use a condom for double protection. She thought it was ridiculous so I went in without out.
Since sex is to be enjoyed by both, talk to her and see what she thinks. If you really don't want children - ever - go with a vasectomy. Then the condom and the pill are non-issues.