For guys who are slightly bigger..?!
Question: My boyfriend is 9inches soft.. I'm so scared about having sex with him.
Were any of your girls you had sex like this? How did you make it easier on her?
Answers: My boyfriend is 9inches soft.. I'm so scared about having sex with him.
Were any of your girls you had sex like this? How did you make it easier on her?
Bein Gentle and not forcing it. And Kind of letting her control the pace at the beginning. Alot of foreplay to start with and not pressuring her and letting her get really comfortable.
The Guy really has to have a sense of how the girl is feeling and hear the difference of when she moans out of satisfaction and when shes in pain. And at the same time you as the girl has to let him know that too....If he cares about you he will listen to you and do it exactly how you want it......
But Really its about taking your time and letting the girl get relaxed. And females you'll be surprised how much can fit when you relax......lol
Dont let him intimidate you its not that big a deal lol.....really its all the same when its all said and done..........
By taking lots of time, using plenty of fore play, and stretch using my fingers and use plenty of water based lube. The womans vagina is made so a babies head can pass through it, so a mans penis should be no problem given time and preparation.
Im not a guy but my husband is, and yes we did have that problem. Scary!
Just have him only put himself in partway. or... You can be on top you know.
The guy just has to take it slow, use lots of lube and not put it all in at first.
9 inches soft -- I highly doubt it!
9 inches soft?!?!?!?! you better have him stick it up your butt first! i dont think he could stic it all the way in!! dont deep thoat!!!
u seem to be 14.
dang.
yes be very careful!!
you can really hurt yourself
be worried about girth not length. As long as he does not root you out like a randy pig then you both should get a feel for what is comfortable. Carefull though he might become a porn star.....
Well, I'm big - but not that big.
Some women have said, "Oh my gosh" - at first - but then relax. Only had one woman who seemed actually terrified.
It's not going to be as bad as you think. If your vagina will stretch enough to let a kid's head out - it will stretch enough for a 9 inch penis. If you use lube, lube, lube, that may help.
The one thing to watch - is that he may hit the bottom end. I've done that to a couple women - and it can be painful if you hit it too hard or unexpectedly. If that's a problem - he will just have to avoid plunging all of the way in.
A different position, like doggie, may help avoid this problem.
First of all, it's NOT 9 inches flaccid. You are either lying through your teeth, or using the wrong method to measure.
Men who are well-endowed (I'm only 6 inches, so I don't apply) shouldn't have a problem with sex. That is, of course, unless they penetrate as far as they possibly can and end up hitting the cervix. But under normal circumstances, it's not going to feel any different than someone who is 5 or 6 inches.
Sex evolved to feel comfortable and pleasurable, so I doubt it's going to hurt you.
9 inches soft doesn't mean anything.
If that's even true, it's definitely because he's a "Show'er" as we call'em.
There are "growers" and "Show'ers."
Most men have small penises that grow large when erect. Some men have penises that always look really big but don't really grow that much when they become erect.
im 8inch... wen big. it stil hurts my gf and its beena yr so yeh jstget reely turnd on. lubs n all lol xx
say whaa?! ur having sex n ur 14?! damn::::::::
9 inches soft, u mean to say flaccid, out of question...u r lying...Well but when it's hard..there must be no problem. I'm also big but not this kinda, a bit less than this....lol....I make it easier on her by taking lots of time for of foreplay, and stretch using my fingers and use plenty of water based lube. The woman's genital is made so a babies head can pass through it, it's so elastic....so a mans genital size should be no problem if it is used properly, because using it for the pleasure of woman is an art....lol...
If you're really 14, I doubt this kid is 14 so be careful. If he really is then props to him. I'm over 9" hard and its a struggle for me and my girlfriend but she manages. Foreplay is key.
You must be measuring in mm's
well if it is big and you are scared explain and talk to him about it and make sure he gets that he cant use it all during sex until you are ready
9 inches soft???!!! Your so full of ****! Hes lying to you or your guessing how big it is. The largest flaccid penis in the world is 9.5 ". So you're lying.