Your opinion on what age people should have sex, and other things.?!
Question: Your opinion on what age people should have sex, and other things!.!?
Just curious, how old do you think people should be to do the following!. This isnt about what age are you capable, what age do you think people should!. For the following:
-Have sex for the first time
-Get drunk for the first time
-Have oral sex for the first time(Or another form of sex, not including vaginal or anal)!.
By the way, as a side note, I'm 14!. I saw in a few posts people couldn't understand why early teenagers were thinking about this kinda stuff!. Well, I'm not like most of the idiot boys who just constantly think about sex!. But, I do want opinions on this kinda stuff!.!.!. Thanks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
-Have sex for the first time
-Get drunk for the first time
-Have oral sex for the first time(Or another form of sex, not including vaginal or anal)!.
By the way, as a side note, I'm 14!. I saw in a few posts people couldn't understand why early teenagers were thinking about this kinda stuff!. Well, I'm not like most of the idiot boys who just constantly think about sex!. But, I do want opinions on this kinda stuff!.!.!. Thanks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I say wait til you're 16!. I think that's when you begin looking at life a different way!. I feel like you'll be more ready to handle thing mentally and physicallyWww@Answer-Health@Com
19 i think is an age where your young enough to try these things but make it with somoeone special!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
-Have sex for the first time
I would say when you get married!.
-Get drunk for the first time
When your 21!.
-Have oral sex for the first time
When you find the girl your going to marry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would say when you get married!.
-Get drunk for the first time
When your 21!.
-Have oral sex for the first time
When you find the girl your going to marry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
18 is the legal age of consent in most states!. That is the appropriate age, from a legal standpoint!.
Any child who insists on either having sex, or getting drunk, before the age of 18, is showing gross inconsideration for his/her parents, who are legally responsible!.
However, most young people are not emotionally mature enough to handle these things, even at 18!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Any child who insists on either having sex, or getting drunk, before the age of 18, is showing gross inconsideration for his/her parents, who are legally responsible!.
However, most young people are not emotionally mature enough to handle these things, even at 18!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
s*x oral or vaginal- after marriage
drunk- whenever you wantWww@Answer-Health@Com
drunk- whenever you wantWww@Answer-Health@Com
sex - the first time you truly fall in love!. prob about 18/19
drunk-16 (lets be realistic, its not going to be 21)
oral - prob around 16/17Www@Answer-Health@Com
drunk-16 (lets be realistic, its not going to be 21)
oral - prob around 16/17Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think that you should have sex for the first time when you are ready and know that you love someone!.
Get drunk probably around 18 because then your body is pretty much done growing and will be mature
oral sex when you know you really like someone but are not ready to move onto actual sex
hope this helps youWww@Answer-Health@Com
Get drunk probably around 18 because then your body is pretty much done growing and will be mature
oral sex when you know you really like someone but are not ready to move onto actual sex
hope this helps youWww@Answer-Health@Com
Sex - 15/16 :)
Drunk - like 14!.
Oral sex - 14/15/16
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Drunk - like 14!.
Oral sex - 14/15/16
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i guess it all depends on the person and when they think they are ready because it their decision in the end so putting a age limit on sex doesnt workWww@Answer-Health@Com
When you understand that every action has consequences, and you understand whether or not you are ready to deal with those consequences!.
For example: Realize that the consequences for having sex, even with protection, include life altering STDs (not just HIV, but also Herpes, HPV, etc!.) and/or pregnancy!. These consequences stay with you for the rest of your life!. There are full grown adults, who don't even realize the significance of these consequences!.
If you decide to get drunk, realize that there are consequences!. There is the possibility that you lose control of your judgement, and consent to sex without knowing your partner, or using protection, which result in the consequences listed above!. There is the chance that you lose consciousness, and are raped (with the possibility that you cannot identify or prosecute the rapist), again with the dire consequences above!. And further, if you are "underage", you face the possibility of arrest, prosecution, and ridicule from family and friends!.
As for the 3rd item, this is something that people just don't get!. They believe that oral sex, or fooling around is not sex, simply because there's no penetration!. But, the consequences are quite the same (minus the pregnancy)!.
Let us add into all of this, the psyche of an adolescent!. Despite what anyone tells you, there are emotions involved with fooling around, sex, and/or rape!. Bad experiences can seriously damage the psyche of a teenager, who hasn't learned to deal with their feelings!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
For example: Realize that the consequences for having sex, even with protection, include life altering STDs (not just HIV, but also Herpes, HPV, etc!.) and/or pregnancy!. These consequences stay with you for the rest of your life!. There are full grown adults, who don't even realize the significance of these consequences!.
If you decide to get drunk, realize that there are consequences!. There is the possibility that you lose control of your judgement, and consent to sex without knowing your partner, or using protection, which result in the consequences listed above!. There is the chance that you lose consciousness, and are raped (with the possibility that you cannot identify or prosecute the rapist), again with the dire consequences above!. And further, if you are "underage", you face the possibility of arrest, prosecution, and ridicule from family and friends!.
As for the 3rd item, this is something that people just don't get!. They believe that oral sex, or fooling around is not sex, simply because there's no penetration!. But, the consequences are quite the same (minus the pregnancy)!.
Let us add into all of this, the psyche of an adolescent!. Despite what anyone tells you, there are emotions involved with fooling around, sex, and/or rape!. Bad experiences can seriously damage the psyche of a teenager, who hasn't learned to deal with their feelings!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think it's different for different people!. It should be when you are ready to handle the responsibility that goes along with it!. If you're not prepared for parenthood, abstinence is still the best way to avoid it!.
I can tell you that sex with someone you love is much better than sex with someone you don't!. I think it's fine to wait till you're married, but I wonder what happens if you find that the person you married isn't sexually compatible with you!. The important thing there is to talk about it!. For instance, what if you're not circumcised and then get married and find out your wife doesn't like that!. I wouldn't get circumcised for anyone!. Sorry!. I wouldn't!.
But I think waiting can make the sex really really good when it does happen!.
Oral sex, I think, is a good alternative to intercourse!. It is a way to explore each other's bodies and see each other and achieve orgasm without having intercourse!. But everyone's different!.
When I was young, I never dated any girl that I didn't think was marrying material!. When I finally stopped doing that, I fell in love with a girl that I never would have dated otherwise!. I would not have considered her to be "marrying material!." We've been married almost 20 years now!.
Incidentally, I'm a normal male, and I was 21 when I first had sex and first drank beer!. You don't have to do those things in your teen years if you don't want to!.
As for getting drunk, I think it partly depends on why you're getting drunk!. If you want to get drunk for the fun of it and act silly and so forth, then I'd wait till it's legal and do it in a safe environment, where you're not going to be driving and don't have to get up early the next day!. Start off with a sweet drink like a fuzzy navel at age 21!.
If you want to do it to experience it in a way that would make you want to abstain from drinking, then I think younger is OK under the supervision of a responsible adult!. Two or three whiskey and Cokes should be enough to knock you on your butt enough to know that you don't want to do that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I can tell you that sex with someone you love is much better than sex with someone you don't!. I think it's fine to wait till you're married, but I wonder what happens if you find that the person you married isn't sexually compatible with you!. The important thing there is to talk about it!. For instance, what if you're not circumcised and then get married and find out your wife doesn't like that!. I wouldn't get circumcised for anyone!. Sorry!. I wouldn't!.
But I think waiting can make the sex really really good when it does happen!.
Oral sex, I think, is a good alternative to intercourse!. It is a way to explore each other's bodies and see each other and achieve orgasm without having intercourse!. But everyone's different!.
When I was young, I never dated any girl that I didn't think was marrying material!. When I finally stopped doing that, I fell in love with a girl that I never would have dated otherwise!. I would not have considered her to be "marrying material!." We've been married almost 20 years now!.
Incidentally, I'm a normal male, and I was 21 when I first had sex and first drank beer!. You don't have to do those things in your teen years if you don't want to!.
As for getting drunk, I think it partly depends on why you're getting drunk!. If you want to get drunk for the fun of it and act silly and so forth, then I'd wait till it's legal and do it in a safe environment, where you're not going to be driving and don't have to get up early the next day!. Start off with a sweet drink like a fuzzy navel at age 21!.
If you want to do it to experience it in a way that would make you want to abstain from drinking, then I think younger is OK under the supervision of a responsible adult!. Two or three whiskey and Cokes should be enough to knock you on your butt enough to know that you don't want to do that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't think about none of those as something you have to do to fit in!. Do it when u feel the urge to, as for sex you don't have to plan when to do it, when the opportunity presents you'll do it because you feel to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well in my opinion !.!.!. there's no set age cuz it's about maturity and people all mature at different rates!.
But I won't duck your question that way, so a rough estimate !.!.!.
1!. Sex for the first time (I assume you mean intercourse) !.!.!. Definitely no earlier than 16 and preferably 18 or so!. With a bunch of caveats !.!.!. including practicing safe sex and being in a real relationship!.
2!. Drunk !.!.!. 18 !.!.!. if you're old enough to be sent off to war and die for your country, you're old enough to have a drink!. Sometimes getting drunk is the only way you can deal with fighting a war !.!.!.
3!. Oral sex !.!.!. again I'd have to say 16 is about the youngest I would advocate engaging in something as adult as sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But I won't duck your question that way, so a rough estimate !.!.!.
1!. Sex for the first time (I assume you mean intercourse) !.!.!. Definitely no earlier than 16 and preferably 18 or so!. With a bunch of caveats !.!.!. including practicing safe sex and being in a real relationship!.
2!. Drunk !.!.!. 18 !.!.!. if you're old enough to be sent off to war and die for your country, you're old enough to have a drink!. Sometimes getting drunk is the only way you can deal with fighting a war !.!.!.
3!. Oral sex !.!.!. again I'd have to say 16 is about the youngest I would advocate engaging in something as adult as sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com