Is it being insensitive of me if i ask my girlfriend to have sex after high scho!
Question: Is it being insensitive of me if i ask my girlfriend to have sex after high school graduation!?
were both 17 and both are still virgins, we've been steady since were 14 and we'll be graduating high school next month!. we thought and agreed that were not ready to have sex just yet and its corresponding responsibilities!. but we're going to separate school in college and i don't know what will happened then!. she's going to Mary Hopkins to take up pre-med, she likes to be a doctor and i'm going to Indiana U to take up Aviation as i want to be a commercial pilot someday!. if we're not going to have sex now maybe we're going to have sex with different person in college!.!.i dont know, maybe i'm jealous or my mind is just too advance to what will happened to us in college!. any piece of advice!? we'll i had practice using condom or anything that my older bro teached me what to do during first sex!. am i very insensitive or insecure about my gf!.!.your thoughts pleaseWww@Answer-Health@Com
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So far, you have been thinking with your BIG Head !.!.!.!. and showing maturity that many teens do not show !.!.!.!.
Now; suppose that you and your girlfriend DO have sexual intercourse after the prom !.!.!.!. AND !.!.!.!. the condom rips or tears or Comes Off !.!.!.!. 18% of all condoms are defective !!
I was wondering IF you are both ready to become PARENTS in case that condom would be defective and rip / tear or come off ; and YOU would become pregnant !?
What would happen to your College Educations !?
Who would pay for the pre and post natal care !.!.!.!. !?
Who would pay for the birth of the child and YOUR hospital care !?
Where would the two of you and the child live !? Have you talked to YOUR parents about this !? Talked to HIS parents to see IF you could live therre IF you become Pregnant and have a child !?
Are you all ready to Buy diapers, formula, baby food, baby clothes, high chair, basinet, crib , vitamens etc !.!.!.!.
Are you both ready to get up in the middle of the night to change dirty and smelly diapers !.!.!. and fix baby bottles !.!.!. and feed the baby the bottle !?
Just a few of the questions that you and your Girlfriend should consider BEFORE having sexual intercurse at ANY age !.!.!.!.
I'm NOT tying to beat you up ; BUT you sound like a really intelligent guy with a future !.!.!.!. IF she got pregnant ; that future would go down the crapper , Right !? So, is it worth THE chance !?!?
Good Luck to You !.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Now; suppose that you and your girlfriend DO have sexual intercourse after the prom !.!.!.!. AND !.!.!.!. the condom rips or tears or Comes Off !.!.!.!. 18% of all condoms are defective !!
I was wondering IF you are both ready to become PARENTS in case that condom would be defective and rip / tear or come off ; and YOU would become pregnant !?
What would happen to your College Educations !?
Who would pay for the pre and post natal care !.!.!.!. !?
Who would pay for the birth of the child and YOUR hospital care !?
Where would the two of you and the child live !? Have you talked to YOUR parents about this !? Talked to HIS parents to see IF you could live therre IF you become Pregnant and have a child !?
Are you all ready to Buy diapers, formula, baby food, baby clothes, high chair, basinet, crib , vitamens etc !.!.!.!.
Are you both ready to get up in the middle of the night to change dirty and smelly diapers !.!.!. and fix baby bottles !.!.!. and feed the baby the bottle !?
Just a few of the questions that you and your Girlfriend should consider BEFORE having sexual intercurse at ANY age !.!.!.!.
I'm NOT tying to beat you up ; BUT you sound like a really intelligent guy with a future !.!.!.!. IF she got pregnant ; that future would go down the crapper , Right !? So, is it worth THE chance !?!?
Good Luck to You !.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell her just how you feel and see if she is open to the idea; sure you will not be together forever so think and go from there; the possibility of knowing (have sex with others is very true) and will happen but if you are Christian think before you act for once you go there well there is not turning back!. Is it insensitive no you are just being a guy so ask and see what happens she might feel the same way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all, you're going to be nervous as hell if you do both decide to do it!. You just have to let it happen naturally and not try to pre-plan it!. If you do, things won't go as expected and it may be disappointing for both of you!. Just remember that your first time, it'll only take you about 30 seconds to reach climax, since it's such a new sensation!. It takes a while to get accustomed to it and gain stamina and long-lasting sexual prowess!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yeah, what the first guy said!. Just tell her all of this that you said, but make it sound more 'caring' if that made sense!. Don't make it seem like your a sex-craving monster (if you are or not)!.
Just remember to use protection!. Don't try holding it in and then putting it somewhere else!. One little night could ruin your whole future!. D:!. Or you can use those inside out female shield condom things or those birth control pills!.
Condoms is the best bet though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just remember to use protection!. Don't try holding it in and then putting it somewhere else!. One little night could ruin your whole future!. D:!. Or you can use those inside out female shield condom things or those birth control pills!.
Condoms is the best bet though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It depends if your girlfriend has expressed desires to remain a virgin!. If you have talked about it and you both know that you want to do it, go ahead!. Whatever you decide do NOT force her to do anything she doesn't feel comfortable with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i agree!. tell her exactly what you told us, and then say that if she doesn't feel comfortable with it then that's okay, and you don't want to come across as insensitive!.
good luck with the pilot thing!. that's awesome!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
good luck with the pilot thing!. that's awesome!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it takes two to tango!.!.so if she say yes to your propositions then so be it!.!.!.just do the right thing!. be careful and enjoy and have a very,very good time!.!.!.make it memorable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your kinda both insensitive and insecure!. mostly insecure!. Talk to your gf about it!. Tell her about what you have been thinking and feeling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You practiced having sex, using a condom, with your older brother!?
Well at least you were safe, and kept it in the family!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well at least you were safe, and kept it in the family!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Dude ******* do it, if she really loves you then she'll do it, take you're relationship to the next level!. do her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you said you had sex with your brother!. I'm seeing that as a way bigger problem than the graduation night sex with your girlfriend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.you don't ask her bro!.!.!.!.you make sure she's feeling you has that gut level feeling of attraction then you just go ahead and let the magic work out on it's own!.!.!.!.heheWww@Answer-Health@Com
tell her exacly what you said in your quesion explaination and let her think about itWww@Answer-Health@Com
I had this same problem when I left for college!. I told my longtime girlfriend that I wanted to have sex, and we ended up breaking up because of it!. If your relationship is coming to an end, then you really should just wait!. You'll have plenty of chances to get laid during college, considering that's the age when most people become very sexually active and experimental!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You sound like you are thinking it through , which is not really being insensitive, but you dont just plan sex!. It has to just happen, and maybe planning to do it after grad is to much pressure for her!? If you are going to have sex just to have sex then i dont think that its a good idea!. And if you are both not ready right now, then maybe grad is to soon!. If you are planning this because you want to have intercourse specifically with her then maybe it should be considered but i still do not think planning anything sexual is any good, it has to be wanted by both of you and has to be!.!.!.!. spur of the moment kind o thing!. you cant just sit tehre and be like okay lets have sex now, because thats lame for one, and for two whats the next thing after that!? just start stripping down!? No, it doesnt work that way!. Maybe wait until its all in the moment, with someone you really do care about, and you will enjoy it more, gauranteed, and dont ask her for sex, because that wont make her want it, believe me!. PLus with planning there is more anticipation, which can lead to stress and also to thinking about it to much!.!.!.and that leads to a bad experience!.
go with the flow, let things happen, dont plan it out!! To much preparation will wreck it!!
xxDylanWww@Answer-Health@Com
go with the flow, let things happen, dont plan it out!! To much preparation will wreck it!!
xxDylanWww@Answer-Health@Com
Graduation day is going to be very busy for the two of you!. You're going to have family visiting and coming in to see you, as well as so many pictures taken you'll see white spots all day!. I don't think planning sex on this day is going to ease the stress of the ceremony!. Why not plan it for the day after or something!? You have all summer before you transfer to a college!. Take things easy and if it's not meant to be then it won't happen!. Maybe you're not supposed to take each others virginity, maybe neither are ready!. You clearly don't plan on staying together in college because you're assuming this is the last chance to sleep with her!. It should be something special, not just a fling so you can say you know how to do it now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com