A question about a man and his masturbating?!
Question: A question about a man and his masturbating!?
Okay yeah I feel really stupid coming on here and asking this, but truth is I'm not going to go out in and just ask one of my guy friends!.
I have a boyfriend who masturbates basically every day, is this normal!? Let me go more into detail!. He says he does it because he just gets bored!.!.!. he comes home from work and has nothing to do!.!. I guess - so he masturbates!. I mean I have a lot of mixed emotions about this because on one I know masturbating is completely healthy for a man, and normal, but on the other spectrum when I masturbate it's simply because I'm not getting what i need!. Not quite sure if that may be it, because trust me we do plenty!. I just want some opinions here, do you just masturbate because your bored!?!?!?
Cause seriously he watches it everyday! wouldn't that desensitize a man!? He's been planning on started to go to the gym!.!.!. but he gets lazy and doesn't and just stays at home and gets bored and!.!. well it's a cycle!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have a boyfriend who masturbates basically every day, is this normal!? Let me go more into detail!. He says he does it because he just gets bored!.!.!. he comes home from work and has nothing to do!.!. I guess - so he masturbates!. I mean I have a lot of mixed emotions about this because on one I know masturbating is completely healthy for a man, and normal, but on the other spectrum when I masturbate it's simply because I'm not getting what i need!. Not quite sure if that may be it, because trust me we do plenty!. I just want some opinions here, do you just masturbate because your bored!?!?!?
Cause seriously he watches it everyday! wouldn't that desensitize a man!? He's been planning on started to go to the gym!.!.!. but he gets lazy and doesn't and just stays at home and gets bored and!.!. well it's a cycle!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
you'd b suprised at how often some guys masturbate! it doesnt always have to do with him NOT being satisfied, in fact it could mean the exact oposite!. in some cases i find my self (and im sure other guys do it too) masturbatiing and visualising something that i enjoyed, for instance the new position you just tried out etc!.
i find that if im bored, i can easily be turned on by a random thought or something like that so maybe its the same!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i find that if im bored, i can easily be turned on by a random thought or something like that so maybe its the same!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I masturbate because I like it and so does he!. It has nothing to do with you, he simply likes it!. The fact is you cannot do him like he can do himself, no criticism just fact!. He can love you and all the emo stuff that goes with love, but he will always have his hand!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is completly normal!.!.!.!.
99!.2% of the UK (men only) masturbate on a regular basis!.!.!.
It is completly natural and healthy!Www@Answer-Health@Com
99!.2% of the UK (men only) masturbate on a regular basis!.!.!.
It is completly natural and healthy!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I masturbate because I have too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Babe, i do all the time when i am bored!. Its good thing!. Makes him better in bed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i sometimes masturbate when im bored not all the time though
it just so happens im going to nowWww@Answer-Health@Com
it just so happens im going to nowWww@Answer-Health@Com
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I do cause it feels goodWww@Answer-Health@Com
yes it is normallWww@Answer-Health@Com
i j/o coz i have toWww@Answer-Health@Com
I think your bf has a real issue, especially if as you say you're giving it up to him!. Granted masturbation is something to do when you're bored but its not that exciting of thing to help move the day along!.
If you two are indeed having sex on usual bases (2-5 times per weekly) and he continues to masturbate even on days that you have sex, he should perhaps see a psychiatrist and get his thoughts more aligned to the way you feel!.
Obviously him watching p0#n everyday plays a roll on you, I would bring that into a perspective view with him as well!. If your relationship is in fact a sexually healthy one, he should not need to masturbate daily!. Because also if does do it everyday, what does say about you and if its not you then he has distance himself from you already and you need to move on in your life of love!. Take care best of lovin' to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you two are indeed having sex on usual bases (2-5 times per weekly) and he continues to masturbate even on days that you have sex, he should perhaps see a psychiatrist and get his thoughts more aligned to the way you feel!.
Obviously him watching p0#n everyday plays a roll on you, I would bring that into a perspective view with him as well!. If your relationship is in fact a sexually healthy one, he should not need to masturbate daily!. Because also if does do it everyday, what does say about you and if its not you then he has distance himself from you already and you need to move on in your life of love!. Take care best of lovin' to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Here's the deal, hun!. He likes to masturbate, great!. The issue is the motivation!. If he is doing it in front of you, he may be doing it for several reasons:
1> coerce you into a performing for each other
2> he is just an exhibitionist
3> he has no tact in letting you know that he would like more or different types of sexual experiences
4> he has an ego (or attention) issue and just needs you to gawk at him
5> he may have a serious addiction to porn (you mentioned something about him watching it daily) and/or the act itself and the feeling of release!.
If you two don't have the type of relationship where you can talk about this kind of thing!.!.!.that is another category of "answers"!. I would talk to him about it!. Explain, to him, what you explained to us!. It shouldn't offend him that you would be curious!. If it does, refer to the other category again!. If it is serious to you, it should be serious to him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
1> coerce you into a performing for each other
2> he is just an exhibitionist
3> he has no tact in letting you know that he would like more or different types of sexual experiences
4> he has an ego (or attention) issue and just needs you to gawk at him
5> he may have a serious addiction to porn (you mentioned something about him watching it daily) and/or the act itself and the feeling of release!.
If you two don't have the type of relationship where you can talk about this kind of thing!.!.!.that is another category of "answers"!. I would talk to him about it!. Explain, to him, what you explained to us!. It shouldn't offend him that you would be curious!. If it does, refer to the other category again!. If it is serious to you, it should be serious to him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com