I called my girlfriend the c word and now she wont talk to me?!
Question: I called my girlfriend the c word and now she wont talk to me!?
i cant take it she wont answer her phone or anything we where arguing and she kept hitting me and she was yelling so i called her a crazy c wors after i did it i said i was sorry wat can i do to make it up to herWww@Answer-Health@Com
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I'm sorry about your problem!. We all say and do things which we regret, so you're in good company!.
In my humble opinion, any man or woman that strikes their girlfriend or boyfriend in anger IS a "crazy C" (at least until they calm down), and from a moral perspective, deserves to be called that by somebody!. HOWEVER, that does not mean that it was a good idea for you to be that somebody!.
Have you heard of pragmatism!? If you haven't (perhaps you have), it's a philosophy that leads us to base our actions on their logical consequences!. Calling her a "crazy C" didn't exactly bring about the state of affairs you wanted, did it!? When you took it on yourself to be the person that called her what she was behaving like, that was morally justifiable, but pragmatically dumb!.
So this is what you do!. Wait a day or two for her to calm down!. Write her a letter of apology ("being humble and apologetic doesn't come easily to me!.!.!.unfortunately being stupid does"), spelling out exactly what she thinks you did wrong!. Use the word "sorry" at least twice!. Then show up with a bunch of flowers and a humble expression on your face!.
Make your peace with her, but DO NOT engage in physical relations!. That's right, NO MAKE-UP SEX!. However, be VERY nice to her!. Give her a few days for her to tell all her girlfriends that you are not so bad after all!. Then, dump her!. Tell her it's over, and tell her why: you deserve to be with someone who will bring out the best in you, and inspire you to act like the kind of man you want to be!. Or at the very least, someone who refrains from striking you in a moment of anger!.
P!.S!. by the way, no2censors gave some pretty good advice there!. Conduct the breakup like a gentleman in the way I described above, and then be grateful that the spouse-abuser is out of your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
In my humble opinion, any man or woman that strikes their girlfriend or boyfriend in anger IS a "crazy C" (at least until they calm down), and from a moral perspective, deserves to be called that by somebody!. HOWEVER, that does not mean that it was a good idea for you to be that somebody!.
Have you heard of pragmatism!? If you haven't (perhaps you have), it's a philosophy that leads us to base our actions on their logical consequences!. Calling her a "crazy C" didn't exactly bring about the state of affairs you wanted, did it!? When you took it on yourself to be the person that called her what she was behaving like, that was morally justifiable, but pragmatically dumb!.
So this is what you do!. Wait a day or two for her to calm down!. Write her a letter of apology ("being humble and apologetic doesn't come easily to me!.!.!.unfortunately being stupid does"), spelling out exactly what she thinks you did wrong!. Use the word "sorry" at least twice!. Then show up with a bunch of flowers and a humble expression on your face!.
Make your peace with her, but DO NOT engage in physical relations!. That's right, NO MAKE-UP SEX!. However, be VERY nice to her!. Give her a few days for her to tell all her girlfriends that you are not so bad after all!. Then, dump her!. Tell her it's over, and tell her why: you deserve to be with someone who will bring out the best in you, and inspire you to act like the kind of man you want to be!. Or at the very least, someone who refrains from striking you in a moment of anger!.
P!.S!. by the way, no2censors gave some pretty good advice there!. Conduct the breakup like a gentleman in the way I described above, and then be grateful that the spouse-abuser is out of your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That is bad indeed!.
I called a gf a c just like you did and that was pretty much it!.
she was Gone!.
and
it was Over!.
I learned a very hard lesson!.
If I were you, I would go to her and say something like, "Listen, I f-ed up real bad!. I know!. I don't deserve to be forgiven for it, and if ultimatley you won't, I understand!.!.!.!."
You gotta get it dude: The C word is Real Bad!.
That's like calling a black person an N!.
It is the most vile word I can think of - and to say it to someone you like (love!?)!?
That is wrong!.
If I were you, I would tell her you don't blame her if she never wants to be with you after that, then back the f off, wait and see!.
You really screwed up, you gotta get that!.
Please do not ever call any woman a C again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I called a gf a c just like you did and that was pretty much it!.
she was Gone!.
and
it was Over!.
I learned a very hard lesson!.
If I were you, I would go to her and say something like, "Listen, I f-ed up real bad!. I know!. I don't deserve to be forgiven for it, and if ultimatley you won't, I understand!.!.!.!."
You gotta get it dude: The C word is Real Bad!.
That's like calling a black person an N!.
It is the most vile word I can think of - and to say it to someone you like (love!?)!?
That is wrong!.
If I were you, I would tell her you don't blame her if she never wants to be with you after that, then back the f off, wait and see!.
You really screwed up, you gotta get that!.
Please do not ever call any woman a C again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Aw!. That was a big mistake, buddy!.
The best you can do is just apologize again to her!. It was your fault and she had a right to get her feelings hurt, so you need to go up to her and say you're sorry for calling her that name!. And give her a big hug and tell her you love her and you didn't mean it!. Don't bribe her with gifts because that makes it worse!. You need to say it from the heart, and you definately need to mean what you say!.
~AvrielWww@Answer-Health@Com
The best you can do is just apologize again to her!. It was your fault and she had a right to get her feelings hurt, so you need to go up to her and say you're sorry for calling her that name!. And give her a big hug and tell her you love her and you didn't mean it!. Don't bribe her with gifts because that makes it worse!. You need to say it from the heart, and you definately need to mean what you say!.
~AvrielWww@Answer-Health@Com
so this broads is beating on you, and you used a naughty word!?bad you! get over it and be glad the psycho spouse abuser is out of your life!if your religious say 3 hail mary's on the way to pick up the restraining order, and ask out the court clerk, but just to coffee, it's gonna just be a rebound after all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ridiculous, maybe she was being a ****!.
maybe you should have kept it to yourself!.
maybe now you should move on and learn from your mistakes!.
if shes worth it, persue it!.
if shes not, get over it!.
flowers!?
candy!?
how ******* out of touch are you people!?
have you ever dated anyone!?
flowers and candy doesnt fix a problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe you should have kept it to yourself!.
maybe now you should move on and learn from your mistakes!.
if shes worth it, persue it!.
if shes not, get over it!.
flowers!?
candy!?
how ******* out of touch are you people!?
have you ever dated anyone!?
flowers and candy doesnt fix a problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If she was hitting you, she has no respect for you!. I would say the same of you if you hit her!. The c word--Can you blame her!? Would you talk to someone who called you that!? However--I think that it sounds like what is good for the goose just won't do for the gander!. Perhaps you should continue fishing!. There are lots of fish in the sea!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If I were your girlfriend, I wouldn't talk to you either!.
It will take a lot more than an apology and phone calls!. Do something really sweet like get some flowers, a teddy bear or something she'll find cute and write a note!. Curse to yourself in the note, it might work!. Like "I'm such an idiot but this idiot loves you"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It will take a lot more than an apology and phone calls!. Do something really sweet like get some flowers, a teddy bear or something she'll find cute and write a note!. Curse to yourself in the note, it might work!. Like "I'm such an idiot but this idiot loves you"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hmmm using the C word can be unforgivable!. Especially if she was so mad she was hitting and yelling before hand what ever you did to piss her off probably has something to do with the not talking to you part also!. Let it go she deserves someone better than you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell her if use are to have a succesfull relationship that u have to be forgiving and tell her how sorry u are and that u no it was a slap dick thing to say!. make her laugh and give her a day of fun by taking her out after she chills outWww@Answer-Health@Com
Its a very delicate matter if I must say because your relationship may crash down but i can advise you to see your girlfriend, appologise,give her a gift and furthermore take her for an out and prove the deep love you have for her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you guys should get over it
Just a lil arguement
Maybe buy her flowers chocolates and other stuff
Its old fashined but girls like that stuff =)
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Just a lil arguement
Maybe buy her flowers chocolates and other stuff
Its old fashined but girls like that stuff =)
Email Me If You Wanna Talk = )Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hope you learned youre lesson not to do it again go get her a big box of choclets and flowers and a teddy bearWww@Answer-Health@Com
Woooooow!.
What a dick move!. Sorry buddy, it'll take a lot to make up for that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
What a dick move!. Sorry buddy, it'll take a lot to make up for that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You ****** up!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Give her time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
why would she talk to you!?, after all you called her a name!Www@Answer-Health@Com
LOL i'm sorry!.!.!.!.that's funny!. give her time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
wait till she gets over her angerWww@Answer-Health@Com