MEN I NEED YOUR HELP! What do I do about my man!?!
Question: MEN I NEED YOUR HELP! What do I do about my man!?
So me and my guy have been on and off for 2 years. Lately, he's been acting weird. He hardly ever wants to hang out with me and he's always with his best friend. I can't tell them not to be friends anymore because he's been friends with him since 5th grade. I know he loves me because he tells me all the time. When I do actually get time with him, he's the nicest guy ever and would do anything for me.
He told me the other day that it feels like I'm suffocating him. I don't think I do but apparently he does. I want to feel wanted and appreciated, not pushed aside. How do I not suffocate him anymore?
And- we text like all day. and I'm in two of his classes. but in class and lunch, i try not to talk to him.
and i try not to say that i love him alot either. (even before i knew this.!) And now I'm not sure weather to text him at all! :(
Answers:
By the sounds of it, you're both young. You both should have your own fun by yourselves without having to be together. Like, when he's hanging out with his buddy, you can go hang out with one of your friends. Then, you just make sure that you both meet up at the end of the day or something, then you'll both appreciate each other more and the time that you spend together will be 10x more special.
Concerning the texting, I guess you should text him but not obsessively. When his responses start becoming a word or two, that's an indication that he's trying to do something else and that you are indeed preventing him from doing it.
Goodluck, it sounds like what you both have is genuine so don't worry.
Look, you cant expect to be a guy's gf and be with him all the time. Everybody needs some space. It sounds like you guys need to go on a couple more dates. Guys don't really like to hang out with girls. That's what his best friend is for. You should keep texting him but don't crowd him as much at school. When I say crowd I mean don't try to talk to him every second of the day. You might find a little you time might be enjoyable.
just cut back on the daily texting and try to schedule a short phone call every day instead of numerous texts all through out the day
just text him saying could u please call me 2day wen you have five mins
and after that convo just give him space
try to only talk to him in person instead of texts