My man can't ***?!
Question:
My man can't ***?
is this something i should worry about? he is on meds and he is 58, and says it is nothing i am doing wrong but it is soooo important for me that he enjoys things when we have sex. he doesnt want to penetrate me either because he fears i will get pregnant; i cant go on the pill but i have other methods of contraception.
he seems fine with things as they are but he has made jokes about me always having an orgasm and he hasnt had one for awhile.
i have dated him for a month or so and it is a concern for me. is there anything i can do to improve things or should i just let it go?
part of me thinks i am over analyzing but the again if there are any tips to make it better for him, then i will be happier.
Answers:
That is quite common with men on medication.
You can take him to the doctor and find out if anything can be done. Sometimes things can be done, sometimes not. There's Viagra and similar medications, but not all men on medications (such as high blood pressure meds) can take them.
My husband is the same way. He is 57 and has been on medications for chronic pain and high blood pressure for ten years of our twelve year marriage. He can't take Viagra or anything like it. We haven't had sex for ten years.
Consider yourself lucky and treasure what you have. It could be worse.
Good luck. :)