One for the guys....or maybe girls to!!??!

One for the guys....or maybe girls to!!??

ok yo may or may not be able to help me here but i thought it was maybe worth a try!

me and my bf gave up using condoms a while ago as we ran out but i had a pregnancy scare last month so we stocked up again! my only problem is that my bf REALLY hates them and if he has a hard on as soon as he puts a condom on hes not anymore! we have tried a few times and i feel bad because its me making him wear them as i don't want to try the pill again just yet as i had a few problems before. he understands that and he feels really bad becuase he is really turned on by me but he can't get hard!

ok...so my question is does anyone have any ideas for me so that i can help to turn him on a lot so he can maintain his hard on because it really fustrates him and ts not so good for me!! lol!! ANY ideas would be good! thanks guys in advance xxxxx

4 weeks ago
Art M --- mmmm not sure bout givin up on that!! lol!! but we are trying other things...he just doesn't like it as much as sex! lol...but thanks for the idea xxx

4 weeks ago
delicious --- im likin the idea of the tongue!! n he always is v hard wen we put it on but then its like "putting a sock on it" as he says!! xxxxx

4 weeks ago
Merrik N (i think that was ur name iv forgotten now! soz) --- thats the point. he just CANT get hard again and we have tried lots of thingd believe! thats why im hopin for some new ideas....

Like it or not....he needs to use a condom.
Even if you're on the pill, there's still the matter of STD's.

The problem may be in the "approach".
Perhaps you or he is killing the mood with the way y'all handle the situation.
Learn how to put the condom on him in a sensual way....
You can place the condom on your tongue, and put it on him by going down on him (practice makes perfect, try it on a banana til u get the hang of it).
I mean....he should be so excited and hard by the time you get to the point of condom application, that its all a part of the fun... perhaps you need to "turn up the heat".

Edit: So what if he loses his wood, there are a million ways you can bring it right back....if you need ideas....e-mail me.

ALSO.....in case youre thinking about taking any of the bad advice to just get tested for std's then go on the pill and not worry about it, or to simply use a non condom form of birth control.....THAT'S A FALSE SENCE OF SECURITY BUILT ON UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS WHICH OFTEN LEADS TO RESENTMENTS AND CONSEQUENSES.....though we never want to think our lover could cheat....be advised....sh!t happens....WRAP IT UP !!!!