Can i get hiv this way ?!
Question: Hello there
Last night i had my first sexual intercourse with a girl and as you may have already guessed, went badly.I had oral and vaginal sex.after 20 mins i changed condom for a new try but i didnt have enough sexual arousal due to tension.then she weared off the condom and started doing oral for 3 mins.there was still no ejaculation and we called the night off.If the woman was hiv positive how much chance do you think that i can get the hiv ?I have no sores at my penis .I am very worried right now and 3 months at least for the test seems so long.I would really appreciate it if you can help me
Answers: Hello there
Last night i had my first sexual intercourse with a girl and as you may have already guessed, went badly.I had oral and vaginal sex.after 20 mins i changed condom for a new try but i didnt have enough sexual arousal due to tension.then she weared off the condom and started doing oral for 3 mins.there was still no ejaculation and we called the night off.If the woman was hiv positive how much chance do you think that i can get the hiv ?I have no sores at my penis .I am very worried right now and 3 months at least for the test seems so long.I would really appreciate it if you can help me
Altan T, if I understand, you had vaginal sex with a condom and then there was oral sex without a condom. Son, nothing is 100%, but I would say your chances are close to zero.
The condom should have protected you during vaginal sex and HIV is not easily transmitted via oral sex. It would be a rare case if you became infected.
Nonetheless, go on and get tested.
Next time, just relax a little and don't rush it. You'll do better.
u can...if she is a carrier of it
As long as it was just oral sex when you took off the condom, i dont think you can't get the std. im pretty sure You can only get an std with vaginal sex if you're not wearing a condom... you can't get an std with just her saliva... you have to DRINK a gallon of her saliva to even have a chance of getting an std... you should also talk to her about it...
hope this helps! good luck.
There is always a risk from intercourse even with a condom that is why they say abstinence is the only way to make sure. That is not alot of fun but the only way to make sure you don't get it. Don't go from woman to woman either. We all take risk so don't worry to much about just get your test done and then you will feel better. But question to you is why would you sleep with a woman you felt might have HIV?
if it was oral and u have no open wounds u cant get it. Do u even know she has HIV
It sounds like you are completely paranoid. You are not ready for sex if you are thinking irriationally like this. Are you 13 years old or something. You need to take a few steps back. Way back.
Why would you have sex with someone you didn't ask the status of? From what you said you are at very low risk for HIV, you would have to get her body fluids inside your body. And even if you did oral, oral is so very low risk.
If you are worried test in 30 days, there retest in 90 days-BUT if you do this and you are still sexually active you need to wear a condom.
Get tested!!!