Alright...i have a serious question...please answer (HELP!!!)?!
Question: Alright!.!.!.i have a serious question!.!.!.please answer (HELP!!!)!?
so if any of u have read any of my other questions, u will kno that i had a bf!.!.!.i lost my virginity 2 him 2 & i thought i loved him, but recently he cheated on me (a week ago) so i broke it off w!. him!. anyways, he told me that he had only had sex w!. me & his xgf jackie!. But the girl that he cheated on me w!., he is now datin her, & she made him write down a list of all the ppl that he had sex w!. & it ended up takin up bein 7 lines long completely full on a sheet of normal notebook paper!.!.!.& that is so gross!. cuz he's the only person ive had sex w!. & he had 2 have had sex w!. like 30 or more girls, right!?! so!.!.!.honestly idk who he could have had sex w!. & also idk if he had any std's cuz he could have been lyin bout that 2!!.!.!.so does anyone kno where i could go to get checked out for all std's where they dont charge anything!? cuz i just wana make sure & be safe that i didnt get anythin from him, im 15 yrs old & my mom doesnt kno that ive had sex b4!. im guna have my best friend take me!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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OMG!. LEAVE THIS DUDE!.!. don't even consider of being with this guy!.!. sweetheart, you are young and don't play with sex if you are not going to be responsible!.!. You got to get tested along with your partner so you won't even be wasting your time writing posts like this!. Go to your nearest planned parenthood, get tested for most STDS/STI's and don't you forget about HIV testing, if you are going to continue with sex, always wear condoms (although they don't fully protect, but they can help) and leave that guy alone!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try the local health department get your self checked out by a doctor and make sure you don't have any STD's!. Maybe if you call a hospital and ask them for help in finding free testing they could tell you where to go, they might even do it there!. Just make sure you do it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like planned parent hood would be your best bet!. The do more than abotions nowadays!. They also will give free counciling for birth control and how to use a condom and set you up for a few months!. You can find the closest one to you online!. Just google planned parenthood!. Hope that helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
planned parenthood!.!.they charge a little but not much!. only what you can afford!. It would be worth it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well where I live, we have a FREE STD clinic!. Just search the web for STD clinics in your area!.
Hope all comes out negative for you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hope all comes out negative for you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
sorry to hear! isnt a good feeling but a reality call - to use extra precautions even though you might think you trust someone!. you can go to a VCT clinic (voluntary testing and counselling clinic) for a HIV test, they usually do it free of charge!. i'm not quite sure if they test the spectrum of std's!. your local family planning clinic should provide that free of charge or for a minimum fee!. even though you are too young to engage in sexual activity i will give it to you that you show great responsibiliy for going for testing! good luck hun! good health!Www@Answer-Health@Com