What do i do about this problem, Need advice please?!?!
Question: What do i do about this problem, Need advice please?!?
why is this? and whats wrong with me?
Yes i do sometimes hurt myself sometimes, not just cutting and no one seems to notice, well.. maybe that's because i hide it but wouldn't someone notice this strange behaviour?
Yes i do sometimes get bullied to, kids new personal favourite's- Freak, Weirdo, Goth, Emo and various others, for some strange reason it gets to me aswell.. im scared its soon gonna turn to hitting instead of name calling.
This bullying is not just kids at school, its outside of school by randoms or people i haven't seen for ages.
I cant talk to anyone, not teachers, parents or the odd friends i have, no doctors either like i said im underage, and my parents would notice.
when i did tell someone they told me to stop being silly so i carried on with self harm and stuff.
What do i do:( I feel like im going to do something stupid if i don't get help soon!
im just not sure what i can do anymore or what advice you can give me, but any's better than none and i just feel like i cant stand up for myself because of the nervousness and stuff.
I know i sound crazy and believe ive been told it, but that's whats going down, and no one seems to notice or maybe they do? and ignore it.
i need serious help because i cant stop hurting myself, i cant! i really did try, the only thing that properly gives me comfort is music, the only thing i use to get away from it all.
Please... i need Advice?
Answers:
You need to speak to someone about this because its seems you could need someone to talk to about how you are feeling. I suggest you talk to either your parents, closest friends or ring people that would be able to advice you over the phone.
You need to be able to express your feelings because its all building up in your head and you are nto able to cope thats why you are hurting yourself. My advice is to try and book an appointment with your GP ketting your parents know. They will be able to advice you or forward you to the right people for help. Don't feel embarassed remember mental issues are just as serious as physical ones. People need to know whats going on, your shutting the world out and keeping it inside thats the worst thing you can do.
The more you hide the more alone you will feel, no-one wants to be alone everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. You will feel a lot less anxious if you speak to someone that knows you most/closest to or even a psychologist (professional advice), they would especially help you cope with some of the issues you have described about bullying, anxiety and insomnia.
http://www.samaritans.org/
very serious stuff. i had alot of the same problems if you add me on fb feel free to talk with me. i quit cutting the weirdest possible way and it was more of supplementing one addiction for another. i turned 18 and started smoking XD. and yeah as i personally found out most adults turn the other way thinking its all for attention rather than a serious problem.