Brains or looks? Help please.?!


Question: Brains or looks!? Help please!.!?
I have the brains!. Not necessarily the looks!. This worries me and I procrastinate about it!. Even though only a shallow person would be said to choose looks I have low self-esteem!. Sometimes I wonder if being dumb and handsome would make for a better life!. I also am not sure about how to be around women!. I'm quite shy but I'm very good at hiding it!. Usually I play it off like I'm ignoring someone!. In pressure situations I'll either back out completely or be persistent but when faced with a situation I know involves looks I fail it seems!. I did have a case of acne a year or so ago!. My skin is Alto better now and it could be I'm just suffering from the past scars of ugliness!. I'm not sure!. What should I do!? Would you (any female) prefer brains over looks or is that another lie!? Also what kind of brain (e!.g wittiness,crudeness, or just nerdy!.)Www@Answer-Health@Com


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When I was young and naive, I married a guy who was great-looking but average in intelligence!. Although our marriage lasted 17 years, it was a terrible mistake!. If I had my life to live over again, I'd have chosen a less-than-gorgeous guy with brains and a good heart!.

It may take a long time to find the woman of your dreams!. You may have to wait for her (whoever she is now) to grow up and realize what's really important!. Foster your sense of humor; it's attractive and it'll keep you smiling when times seem tough!.

Brains are way, way, way more important than looks!. Being an honest, caring person is just as important as intelligence!.

Hang in there; you are a prize!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Strange as it seems , females each seek different things !.

In the teen years , the new surge of hormones often has each of them getting entranced by other "cute" people ,
But without the right personality , the relationship is very short lived !.

Actually it is NOT brains and NOT looks but Heart that wins the day !.

Brains win engineering contests and Looks win modeling contracts but
A good true Heart wins a sweetheart !.

Brainiacs can be just as self absorbed and shallow as the 'looks' people !.

Be a person of good heart and character if you are seriously interested in a real girlfriend !.
( or are you just after an arm piece / eye candy !? )

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