Is it now a "cool" thing to be lacking confidence?!

For me, lacking confidence is the least cool part of my personality!. Really, if I had more confidence my life would be better for me!. There's things I want to do but lack of confidence is stopping me!.

What annoys me is people who have confidence but feign this insecurity and meekness and wear a 'who, me!?' type expression when you know deep down they love themselves!.

I know I haven't touched on the same confidence issues you were discussing, but to me they're all similar!. And to the outsider the person next to them's insecurities may seem silly and pointless!. I know for a fact that my genuine lack of confidence is not a cool thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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It isn't a "cool" thing, girls have always been like this!. It's just more out in the open now because of the internet!. The problem is that many women think they have to look like an air brushed model in a magazine to be accepted, it's really sad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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idkk!. its our media!. it really does messss with ur brain!. and the fact that girls let that bother them!. it makes us feel like were not good enough, because the people we see in magazines are considered good enough(even tho almost all are being sent to rehab, gettin arrested and many other bad things that is something i would hope wouldnt happen to other normal people )!. I agree with you, i feel bad that ppl feel this way!. i wont lie, i have my times of when i wish my legs were smaller, or my butt!. or when i wish my face was different than it is, but uk wut!? this is how im made, this is how im SUPPOSED to be!. illwork with what i got, but for the most part, this is it!. so im gunna enjoy myself, and please MYSELF!. not please ppl i dont no, or care about, just to fit in!. i wish other people felt this way too, and didnt care so much!. they will learn, with time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Its the media!. They give girls an image of the "perfect girl"!. and what's worse, the guys see the image of the "perfect girl" and think there are real girls like that!. then the real girls, who want the guys, try to be "perfect"Www@Answer-Health@Com

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wow, that's sooooooooooo cool!. I oughtta jump rignt on that!.

Oh, but maybe I'm not cool enough for that!.!.!.wot to do, wot to do!.!.!.!?

I'm so confused, maybe I'll post a question and just wait to be ridiculed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Preach on sister, we need more people in the world like you, good on you girl, someone had to say something, im glad you did!.!.!. $;>Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Yes i agree, these types of questions are becoming dull!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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that's a very good question
The worlds self confidence has gone to hellWww@Answer-Health@Com

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No idea, there seems to be a generation of girls with no self confidence!.

How that happened i have no clue!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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