How can I fly away from my problems without killing myself?!
Question: How can I fly away from my problems without killing myself?
I always got bullied in school for my surname, as I am foreign in the country I was not able to tell the teacher as others would step up for the particular person. And now i still get bullied for same reasons. It started from when i was 10 and now im 16. My dad angers me, once when I was 11 my dad said he would always bring me to my drum lessons, his phone was turned off one day as i was already late and than he rings me later on and tell me I am a retard and shouts at me for his own fault. My mam annoys me all the time if I wake up late on a saturday morning. My perants do alot for me but they dont understand that i actually have a lot of problems. Teachers in school could say "what is wrong with you?".
A lot of people call me a retard but they dont understand anything about me and that I also have a problem with learning something fast. I am aslo tired of walking all the time. I dont have a lot of friends and I lost 2 people who where like brothers to because they moved houses. How can I improve my life i am 16 and I have a few grey hairs on my head from stress help
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Hi.Well hitting the 'weed' pipe solves nothing it only makes matter worse.Your at the age where everything is going wrong in your life,and almost no one understand what's going on in your life.And,believe it or not? Almost every teenager goes through this stage,and how you deal with it is up to you.You have options ya know....you can try speaking with your school counselor,a close family member..there must be someone you know,and are close enough to that you can speak openly with.Your at a really tough age right now,and times are tough...Why not involve yourself in some school activities? Try some volunteer work in your area,this can be in a school program or outside of school.Like I said,you do have some options available for you,but it's up to you on if your willing to reach out and take action,and do something constructive....something that will give you self esteem,self confidence.I'm 40 years old,and even I get to the point where I feel the same way as you..But,I've taken it upon myself to reach out and take some action...by volunteering at my local hospital,and soon I'll be starting college classes.But,if I were to do nothing..and just sit at home feeling even more sorry for myself,then my life would go nowhere,and I'd feel even worse.Just try some options check out some information in your area,and see what might be available for you.And,most importantly? Please...find someone close to talk to openly about your feelings,thoughts and emotions.Ok? You'll feel so much better about everything...trust me.I wish you all the best.And,keep in mind that your not alone,and there are so many other teens going through the same thing as you.Try checking for an online teen support group..or you might even find one in your area that you can attend on a weekly basis.I hope things work out for you.
Talk to a school counselor. Their are services for you! Just reach out for help.