I need help in making a woman orgasm : |?!
Question: so this girl and i kinda fooled around and i came obviously but i feel like it has to be a mutual thing. we both have to be satisfied in the end and i wanted to make her come also. i need some tips.
Answers: so this girl and i kinda fooled around and i came obviously but i feel like it has to be a mutual thing. we both have to be satisfied in the end and i wanted to make her come also. i need some tips.
Clitoral stimulation - perhaps change the sexual position, or use your hands down there while you're at it. Try different things with her; you'll find out what she likes.
Also, if she says she's going to orgasm, DON'T change your technique!!!!!! Oh dear lordy how disappointing it is when that happens. "Ooohh I'm going to orgasm!" "Oh, she's going to orgasm. I had better change what I'm doing to make it work!"
It DOESN'T work like that! If something's working, keep doing it!
Focus your attention on her clit.
Women are most likely to have an orgasm during oral sex. Try gently stroking her with your fingers, then licking her. Touching her breasts may help, too. Ask her what she likes best and if she knows what gets her going. Find out what she doesn't like before you try again, too. You also should know that it may take ten minutes or so for her to reach climax. It's worth it, though.
Some couples can have orgasms at the same time during sex, but that's unusual. You might try concentrating on your partner first, then letting her concentrate her attention on you.
Get your hands on a book called She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. My husband learned a lot from it. Some public libraries carry it, and Amazon.com sells it. (Ian Kerner also wrote He Comes Second, btw.)
Good luck! You're off to a good start because you care about her pleasure as well as your own.
many people report having difficulty in achieving orgasm and when they do, it is sometimes disappointing. Others say that it is not always possible for them to achieve orgasm. An orgasm does not have to be an elusive thing. There are ways to experience a powerful orgasm - it just takes a little practice .....If a woman is not relaxed or comfortable she will not give the sexual encounter her all