If you mom is going in to sugery and thee is a posibility that she can die what !
Question: Say everything you want to say to her before she goes into surgery. Pray. Try not to worry because there is just as strong a possibility that she won't die. I had brain surgery almost 3 years ago and I obviously survived. Trust in the Lord and your mom's doctors. Good luck.
Answers: Say everything you want to say to her before she goes into surgery. Pray. Try not to worry because there is just as strong a possibility that she won't die. I had brain surgery almost 3 years ago and I obviously survived. Trust in the Lord and your mom's doctors. Good luck.
surgury for what?
there is little to no chance of her dying - i hope it all goes well for her and i hope she recovers soon
I used to work in surgery-it is the safest place a person can be. EVERYTHING is controlled and monitored, for someone to pass while on the table takes A LOT of things to go wrong. Just be there for her and comfort her-she will be fine!
I would be there for her and tell her I love her every day. And I would pray for her. I would make sure I knew her wishes should she pass. That way, in my head, I'd be at peace with her passing and I'd know we ended on a positive note.
pray and put my faith in God that things will be ok,what else can you do? hope all is well.
Pray for strength and peace
Talk to your mom about things you need to say and let her know how you are feeling
Make sure you have friends and family with you
Ask your mom if there is anything she wants you to know such as insurance papers, arrangements etch
Praying for you and your mom and those who are caring for her
Just be there for her,when she goes under and when she wakes up in recovery.Your support will do more than anything. Sneak her in some good treats afterward. I wish you and your mother well.
What kind of surgery she going to have??? I hope, she's not die during the surgery. Everything going be fine for your mom.
You are in a very sad situation...you should prepare yourself for the possibility that she might pass away....talk about this with other family members or friends. Decide what funeral arrangements mom would like...ask her if the worst happens what should I do.....But you must have hope too...medicine is very advanced nowadays and her chances for survival are good. Surround yourself with close friends and family..Take her hand tell her how much you love her...I wish you both well...take care.
From one Stella M to another...first, I do sympathise with you. I know how awful it is to see a loved one going for serious surgery, and to fear about the outcome.
First, I'd try to have a talk to your Mum's doctor, and find out what his thoughts are about it. I think you may find that he would not be doing the surgery unless he felt that your Mum had a good chance of survival - sometimes a good talk with the experts can put our fears into perspective.
Secondly I 'd have a good talk to your Mum - if you are feeling afraid I'm sure she is, too. Having a loving daughter like you will be a great strength to her in the time to come. Reassure her that you will be there when she goes into surgery, and when she comes out again - and do be there, its a wonderful thing to wake up from surgery and see a familiar face next to you.
There are risks in every surgery - I do hope that in your mother's case, her surgery is successful and that all is well. Bless you for caring, and do look after yourself, too. If the hospital has a counsellor, take advantage of them to talk about your fears. They can really help you to cope.
Best wishes, Stella.
If it is a real threat that she may die, then spend as much time with her as you can. Tell her how much you love and respect her.
When we knew my mom was dying and had a few months, I had her show me how to make a few of her recipes that I loved. We spent time playing cards, talking about the past-good and bad, and just breathing the same air.
When she died, I knew she loved me, she knew I loved her, and it helped.
Now, if your mom is having surgery and YOU are afraid she will die, then that's a different matter. Tell her your fears! If you still are scared, then do some of the things above...especially the one where you talk together. But don't hold it in, it will make you sick in heart, soul and body. She's your mom, let her try to make it better for you.
Oh, if it is she that is scared...then step up to the plate! Tell her what a great job she has done raising you, and how you will remember her advice the rest of your life. (As long as it's the truth)
Tell her that if all it takes is determination to keep her safe, then she has no worries, because you will be waiting for her after surgery.
But address the possibility, don't just brush it under a smile and "you'll be fine" attitude. Before she goes to surgery, think ahead of what you wished you had said to your mom before she died and didn't say. And then say it.
first of all, good luck. I'm sure she will be fine. but if you are worried, pray for your mum, and God will look after her. stay positive, and make sure your mum is positive too. it will help more than you can imagine.
my thoughts are with you
peace
xo
my mom had to go in for a mesectomy..i think thats right..where they take out a breast, and she not in very good health and it was serious but i just prayed and spent time with her before she went in and dont stress or make her stress just makes it harder for you both.