Sex advice?!
Question: So I have been having sex with my boyfriend for about a year now, and its been great and I really enjoy it, but I only orgasm about half the time. He feels like he is not pleasing me and the such. I feel like I have a problem, and like I can't orgasm during sex. I come close sometimes, but i don't always ***. Do I have a problem? Do I need to concentrate more or what? I am worried and need advice
Answers: So I have been having sex with my boyfriend for about a year now, and its been great and I really enjoy it, but I only orgasm about half the time. He feels like he is not pleasing me and the such. I feel like I have a problem, and like I can't orgasm during sex. I come close sometimes, but i don't always ***. Do I have a problem? Do I need to concentrate more or what? I am worried and need advice
No, there is nothing wrong with you.
Most women can only orgasm when the clitoris is stimulated which can be difficult to do during intercourse unless you work to stimulate that area.
there are so many things you can do, either with your hand, his hand or a vibrator.
Since you feel the sex is great, then there really isn't a problem, right?
It's been stated that men need to orgasm more than women do....I would be more worried if he wasn't getting off ...
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You need to relax and just enjoy the sex.
that's pretty normal especially of you are very young. Some women it takes until their 20-30's to fully orgasm.
You learn more about you body as you get older. Not all women have orgasms with only sex. Most need clitorial stimulation, so maybe if you can stimulate yourself or have him to during sex you will have a better chance of orgasming. Also dont stress, that will definately keep it from happening. You do not have a problem, you sound very normal.
Your bf need to be clued into what your clitoris is and does. Most women can't orgasm JUST from vaginal stimulation. Clitoral stimulation is much more effect!!
You also need to take some time and explore your own body. Once you know what pleases you and causes your orgasms, you can help guide him to what you like. Don't be afraid of your body or showing your bf what you like. If he refuses...toss him to the curb!!!
Not all women can climax from sex (vaginal penetration) alone. Usually some form of clitoral stimulation is needed. Be thankful that you can have an orgasm half the time.
Try a different position, such as doggy-style and do some clitoral stimulation either with your hand or a vibrator.
Good luck to you.
I think you are being to intellectual about orgasm. It is a feeling, not a wish. Relax and let it happen. Some things are less likely to happen if you think about it too much.
Are you trying to do it only through coitus? For some women, it helps if your partner stimulates your clitoris simultaneously. He could spend time--if he's interested--fingering you or performing oral sex, since both can be better at producing an orgasm. There's nothing wrong with you, you just have to find what works! Keep experimenting, and don't stress. Have fun with new positions and techniques.
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Very few women really get orgasms by vaginal sex-some do, but those are the unusual ones and questionable if being taken is more exciting than than the physical act itself.
You and your boyfriend need to play around with clitoral fingering (meet the dude in the Mexican sombrero) and perhaps a few toys, most women prefer the rabbit models for that specific reason.
Find out what works for you. Do you have the same problem if you masterbate? Do certain positions or moves make it work better for you. Self exploration into this will help you find what works for you then share it with him and let him know where youre hot spots are and let him know hes hitting them! Also dont try to orgasm just let it happen you could be stressing yourself out to much and making it go away or not come at all. If you have any concerns over it being a health related issue share it with your doctor but it sounds more like your trying to pressure yourself into having an orgasm. Relax enjoy yourself.
Most women only come to orgasm through clitoral stimulation so give the guy some direction.
Not all women orgasm during sex (intercourse) or during foreplay. Some guys judge their lovemaking skills based on if their partner has an orgasm. If you need more time, then let your BF know.
This is really going to depend upon the type of orgasms you have. Believe it or not women have 2 kinds, and not all women can achieve one or the other....some are lucky and achieve both!!
Clitoral orgasms (most women have) are concentration and/or stimulation to the clitoral area of the vagina (man in the boat syndrome LOL...sry JK). Vaginal...are just that, vaginal orgasms that are achieved by penetration. Some women have both, some one or the other. Experiment and see what happens.
Good Luck!!
Look this always works with me i used to have that problem but have him work u up first girl that really works and try different things.
Normal. No big deal. Just because you don't every time doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. Just relax and if you don't it's no big deal. Just let him know you enjoyed it none the less.
Most girls do NOT have an orgasm through sexual intercourse. It requires direct manual/oral/toy stimulation to your clitoris. You are normal.
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