I dont know anymore...?!
Question: i feel like i dont belong anywhere anymore. I am 14 years old, im overweight, never had a true boyfriend, dont have cute cloths becuase i feel self concious about how i look in cloths so i always wear sweatshirts. I dont have a talent, i like singing but i dont do it well, i suck at sports, and i cant dance or anything. I've had a step father since 7 years old and he is an alcholic. i dont get to buy things that i want. I cant get a cell phone, and i compare my life to other girls. I feel like i shouldnt even bother going through how i feel. I have been suicidal b4 and i have been on and off for the past 5 yrs. I do have braces but thats the only thing thats going for me. I cant die my hair(my mom wont let me) I hate being a girl and having a period with extremely painful cramps. I know everyone has it but i hate it so much, also knowing that we have to have babies as well. I am scared i will never have sex or ever meet my soul mate. i feel like no man would ever like me for the way i
Answers: i feel like i dont belong anywhere anymore. I am 14 years old, im overweight, never had a true boyfriend, dont have cute cloths becuase i feel self concious about how i look in cloths so i always wear sweatshirts. I dont have a talent, i like singing but i dont do it well, i suck at sports, and i cant dance or anything. I've had a step father since 7 years old and he is an alcholic. i dont get to buy things that i want. I cant get a cell phone, and i compare my life to other girls. I feel like i shouldnt even bother going through how i feel. I have been suicidal b4 and i have been on and off for the past 5 yrs. I do have braces but thats the only thing thats going for me. I cant die my hair(my mom wont let me) I hate being a girl and having a period with extremely painful cramps. I know everyone has it but i hate it so much, also knowing that we have to have babies as well. I am scared i will never have sex or ever meet my soul mate. i feel like no man would ever like me for the way i
dont think like that sweetie, if someone doesnt like you for who you are, you're already better than them.
by you expiriencing this, it makes you so much better of a person, and someday when someon comes along and feels the same way as you, you'll see them for who they are and love them unconditionally.
dont think low of yourself, and dont settle for anyone.
good luck with everything, dont stop trying. :)
THE WAY U WHAT?!?!?!?
WE WILL NEVER NO!
Ok, I was in the exact same position you are in 12 years ago. I was overweight, didn't have a lot of friends, self conscious, strict parents, etc. The one thing that pulled me out of it was finding the one that I really enjoyed. For me that turned out to be theater. I joined the drama club. Most of the kids in theater see themselves as outcasts anyway and tend to band together. That opened up so many things for me like friends, scholarships, talents I never knew I had, boyfriends, etc. I still do theater to this day professionally now. Keep the hope. Being a girl isn't so bad. Cramps suck I'll agree but its part of being a woman and as you'll find out, being a woman is a wonderful thing.
1. Use additional details to complete your question.
2. Talk to your mom and tell her how you feel. She will definitely help you, and don't hesitate in taking help from her. She is there for you.
3. Everyone is liked by someone. God made everybody to be loved by someone, you will sure find your soul mate. You are too young to lose hope.
All the best!
I know it seems impossible to you right now, but this will pass..I have been where you are, way back when I was in my teens..l'm still a loner, altho I have a few friends--I still am not happy with the way I look--I recently lost my job & I can't find another one--I don't have any skills or talents that are worth $ in the marketplace--I have no living relatives, just my cats--what I DO have is the maturity to realise that while I have no control over some things in my life, I AM in control of how I react to these things..I have made a life for myself that is quite satisfactory, & overall I am content..
Don't despair--time heals a lot..& don't give up hope--I met my husband when I had given up, at age 33, & we had a wonderful life together. You never know what tomorrow is going to bring--keep your head up, a smile on your face & a song in your heart--there are people in this world who would be happy to be your friend.. My advice includes finding a way to help someone else--volunteer, at a nursing home, a day care, whatever. Doing something to help someone will lift your spirits more than just about anything else. When you focus is on how you can help someone instead of how awful your life is, things have a way of improving.. Go for it--you can do this!!!
"i hate it so much, also knowing that we have to have babies as well"
Who ever told you that? You are NOT a baby-making machine, you're a person. If you decide (when you're older - you're not old enough to make such a decision now) that you don't want to have children, please don't have any. Having kids you don't want isn't doing them (or you) any favors.
You DO NOT "have to" have children. You can dig ditches, become a bank president - or have 10 kids and love being a mom. It's your choice. Look who's running for President. Slim, gorgeous and sexy?
As far as finding someone - you're too young to really worry about that yet, but remember - there's a key for every lock. Just don't cut yourself off from possibilities - that gawky guy with thick glasses may be just the one who'll make you happy for the rest of your life, and he may consider himself the luckiest guy alive for finding you.
Don't feel sad. The world was make like this. I don't know what to say because I have never been in this situation. SSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOO, Just feel good about yourself. I don't care what other people think about me it doesn't bother me and shouldn't bother you as well.