I need help please.?!
Question: I am 20 years old. I am attending full time college, and I have a full time job. The only reason that I am writting about this on here because no one knows me. I am scared to let my family and friends know what is going on with me.
2 1/2 months ago I was raped and I reported it. They found the guy who did it. I am going through therapy and I know what happened wasn't my fault. It is a hard thing to go through, but I just found out that I was pregnant. There is no way that I am going to have this baby. I am not going to go through with the pregnancy. I pay for my college with the money that I work with. There is no one to help me with anything. I have enough money to get through college and thats it. What can I do myself to stop this pregnancy. I don't care about anything besides stopping it. This is going to happen no matter what anyone says to me. I have a life and I am trying to stop forgetting what happened, and carry on with my life as it was before the rape.
Thanks
Answers: I am 20 years old. I am attending full time college, and I have a full time job. The only reason that I am writting about this on here because no one knows me. I am scared to let my family and friends know what is going on with me.
2 1/2 months ago I was raped and I reported it. They found the guy who did it. I am going through therapy and I know what happened wasn't my fault. It is a hard thing to go through, but I just found out that I was pregnant. There is no way that I am going to have this baby. I am not going to go through with the pregnancy. I pay for my college with the money that I work with. There is no one to help me with anything. I have enough money to get through college and thats it. What can I do myself to stop this pregnancy. I don't care about anything besides stopping it. This is going to happen no matter what anyone says to me. I have a life and I am trying to stop forgetting what happened, and carry on with my life as it was before the rape.
Thanks
I am sorry for what you are going through.. Please do not do anything that may be a risk to yourself. Contact your local planned parenthood they may have some options to help pay for an abortion..
be safe..............
Rapes do suck. I have been there. I know how you feel. All the councling in the world can't take that feeling of shame and disgust away. I have been through something kind of like this. If you need to talk, add my to yahoo messenger. tena_koch. I don't know how to stop the preg yourself, but there is always abortion... Just add me. I can give you more details there.
Awww, hon I'm so sorry you had to go through that. My heart really goes out to you.
I'm typically not one for abortions, but it seems that's what you want. If so, go to your doctor or look into your local Planned Parenthood. They will have all the info needed.
This was difficult to even read nevermind go through. The only thing I can suggest for you at this point is to talk to someone who has been in a similar situation. I was severely abused by my ex-boyfriend and I posted on here for people to e-mail me and tell me what they've been through. Honestly it really helped just to know there were other girls out there my age experiencing something close to what I was experiencing. As for making the decision on keeping the baby or not keeping the baby (which you seemed to have already made) you just need to look at your options. I won't give you my opinion and I suggest you don't listen to anyone else's... this is your decision. There are plenty of doctors or people who work in clinics that are trained to talk to you specifically about this. I would talk to someone as soon as possible to see what your options are and what you can do to help yourself. Good luck with all of this and stay strong.
im so sorrry for what happend the same thing happend to my sister but she had hers. but i heared drink green tea i hope every thing gets better for you if you need more help pease contact us at advicebyteens@yahoo.com
Good Luck
Sarah
Depending on what state you are in you can get the abortion paid for. In Washington state you can go thru DSHS and get emergency help to pay for it. Do NOT try to do ANY home remedies to stop the pregnancy. They can harm or kill you.......please.