How do I politely tell her I care?!
Question: I'm kind of buddy-buddy with my crush and her bf recently broke up w/ her w/o giving her a reason
Anyways when I asked if she was ok in the next period after she came into class misty eyed she just plainly nodded
Then she was still upset the next day so in 6th period I asked her what was wrong she glanced at me and ignored my question
If she is still upset monday (tomorro) how do I tell her I care so I can comfort her (if she is not annoyed by it)
I jsut don't want to see her hurt
It is bothering someone so perfect can be so hurt
Answers: I'm kind of buddy-buddy with my crush and her bf recently broke up w/ her w/o giving her a reason
Anyways when I asked if she was ok in the next period after she came into class misty eyed she just plainly nodded
Then she was still upset the next day so in 6th period I asked her what was wrong she glanced at me and ignored my question
If she is still upset monday (tomorro) how do I tell her I care so I can comfort her (if she is not annoyed by it)
I jsut don't want to see her hurt
It is bothering someone so perfect can be so hurt
Tell her this, "Are you okay? What's wrong? Please tell me because it might not seem like it, but I really care." She might tell you. But it takes a girl time to let it out about her personal life. Tell her that you understand if she doesn't want to talk about it. But if she tells you, don't talk about your past expereinces or anything. Listen to her. If you like her and maybe want to date her, listen. Listening is the key to showing someone that you care about their problems. Good luck! Hope I helped!
it's so sweet that you care about her like that.
i would say, discretly leave a note in her locker saying, i like you and if you want to know who i am meet me at (insert location here). don't sign it and if she feels like meeting anyone interested in her she'll show up. if not, try again at another time, when the wound isn't so fresh.
best to leave her alone for a bit > dont get caught in rebound thing . She may use you
You sound like a really sweet guy. Your friend needs time to get over her boyfriend. You are not doing her, or yourself a favor by telling her you like her right now. Give her some time to get over him, and just let her know you are there for her if she needs to talk, but leave it at that now!
sometimes just bringing the subject up to a girl will annoy her
just tell her that you care for her
but dont bring the subject up
just ask her how her weekend was and like ask her how shes doing and then be all like "come on! cheer up! i dont want to see you like that. none of us do." just like try to get her in a happy mood. make her laugh