I dont want child all my life but how can i reject explaining to every one?!
Question: I dont want child all my life but how can i reject explaining to every one!?
i 44,husband 57,married 4 years without child!. He is very mad but I dont know how to explain!. every word I said got a mad angry response all the time!. I am scared of expressing myself any more!. He constantly asks me to call his friends who are doctors to talk to them abou how good it is to bear a child!. I hate to do it!. How can i reject without being yelling at!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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this again!?
you asked this like a week ago and i gave a very good answer with a lot of information and good advice
if you didn't read it or decided not to take it that's your problem
my answer was so much better then the one you chose for best answer
but let me summarize my other answer for you here
dangerous at your age, he's too old, mentally challenged child, you don't need that, he's an ***, divorce divorce DIVORCEWww@Answer-Health@Com
you asked this like a week ago and i gave a very good answer with a lot of information and good advice
if you didn't read it or decided not to take it that's your problem
my answer was so much better then the one you chose for best answer
but let me summarize my other answer for you here
dangerous at your age, he's too old, mentally challenged child, you don't need that, he's an ***, divorce divorce DIVORCEWww@Answer-Health@Com
divorce!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have to just come out with it, if he is gonna yell then let him!.
And in the end if he really doesnt understand u, maybe he isnt ment for you,
You should be able to tell your husband everything and not be afraid, and he seems to be the opposite!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And in the end if he really doesnt understand u, maybe he isnt ment for you,
You should be able to tell your husband everything and not be afraid, and he seems to be the opposite!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your husband is trying to manipulate you into doing something you are not comfortable with!. That's not loving behavior - it's emotional abuse!. It's perfectly normal and okay to not want to have/bear children, and it is NOT okay for your partner to try to force you into it!. I hate to say this because I know it's difficult to hear, but please consider that you might be better off without this man in your life!. You deserve better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if you cannot express your feeling to him then it is probably time for a divorce!.!. especially since the fact that you are 44 years of age and he is almost 60!. even though its not bad that he wants a child but you are both getting older and if you dont want a child then he needs to accept that !.!. besides it is harder for a woman to get pregnant after the age of 38!.!.due to menopause and lack of hormones!.!.just talk to him and tell him how you feel and hopefully he will understand it!.!. if not then i dont know what to tell youWww@Answer-Health@Com
i was exactly like you!. but I made it very clear before marriage!. you have a right NOT to have a kid, he has a right TO have one!. so if you cant resolve the issue, you must go seperate ways!. here is a site for people like us - vhemt!.orgWww@Answer-Health@Com
A baren woman is blessed!. If you don't want a child, don't have one!. You're too old to start having one anyway!. Ask your husband why is it so important he have a child now!? If he does, divorce him so he can marry a younger woman!. I'm childless and we're both fine with it!. I know I'm blessed by being baren!. He just may be in a crisis, but really, if having a child is that important to him, give him his freedom before he cheats on you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you are 44 the chances of you concieving a child are slim to none!. i wouldnt worry about it!. just act like you are tryingif it makes him happyWww@Answer-Health@Com
Sometimes people just don't want children!. Just say that you don't want the responsibility of having a child!. Plus with all respect, your 44 years old, it would be a high risk pregnancy!. If your not comfortable with anything you shouldn't do it, you might just regret it later!. Tell him to stop bothering you about having a child, you don't want one, its your body!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hi ,surely you both discussed if you both wanted kids in youre life together !?an if so i presume that you told him that you did not want kids for what ever reason ,be it medically or just the fact that you dont want any which is fine as long as you made this clear to him ,now that he is demanding that you have kids together he must be thinking he can pressurise you into having kids ,and you have no other option from the way he is acting is tell him straight that it going to happen in any way shape or form ,or are you going to go on living with this being thrown in youre face,for the next how ever long he wants kids which could be years !.!.!.!.!.!.i know i couldnt handle that on a daily basis and i know that cause i lived with a husband that was just as demanding about other thinfgs in that marriage ,an im sure it would be inmpossible to live with !.!.!.!.!.!.!.dont be a doormat an let him walk all over you ! take care xxWww@Answer-Health@Com