I just had sex for the first time:(?!


Question: I just had sex for the first time:(!?
Am I going to Hell!? I'm 18!. I was raised Catholic so I feel realy really guilty right now!.!.!. I just want soembody to reassure me that I'm not a terrible person!. I even feel guilty about the fact that I don't feel like it was a big deal!. Is that normal!? My first time having sex and it didn't seem like a big deal!? Everyone who answers!.!.!. could you tell me what you thought after you had sex the first time!? Thanks!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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You're not going to hell! But i would say that because i don't believe in heaven or hell, being an atheist!. If you are no longer religious, then you just need to be rational about this - no need to feel guilty, sex is perfectly natural! And it's also natural to feel a bit freaked out after your first time since our society places so much importance on it!. After my first time i felt kind of weird, but i didn't think it was any big deal either, i just kind of shrugged it off and thought "well, that's that milestone out of the way!" Try not to feel so guilty, you haven't done anything nature did not intend for you to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I may not be catholic but i am a very religious girl in the same group of Christianity and what you did can not be taken back!. I had sex for the first time when i was 14 and i felt very bad and regretted it ALL but if you feel like you have to, ask god for forgiveness and he will!. If you do follow your religion like it seems you do, then you will know that he will forgive you!. don't keep killing yourself about it!. Whats done, is done!. you can't control it!. You aren't going to hell and you a fabulous person, i am sure!. Just move on with life, it is full of experiences!. just take it as a lesson and not a regret!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wow, that says a lot!!! lol!. But anyways, the first time I had sex, a million thoughts went through my mind!!! One of my thoughts were,"Omg!!! That hurt!" lol!. I was also thinking, if i was going to go to hell too!. Because felt soooo sinful!. I also thought about being pregnant and having kids and stuff!. Because I didnt use protection the 1st time i had sex!. But i took a pregnacy test and stuff like that, so im good!. (lol)
Well, I know i said a lot, i hoped that helped a little!.
But don't feel sooooo bad cuz i lost my virginity when i was 14!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I was raised Catholic too and trust me, I'm no virgin!. If you follow your religion just ask god for forgiveness, confess to it, get a few hail marys!.!.!.blah blah blah!.

Personally I don't believe there is anything after life(but I have respect for those who do) so premarital sex has never bothered me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Youre not going to hell!. No offence, but the Catholic religion is insane!. Sex is a natural part of life!. After my first time, I didnt regret it at first!. But I did later!. The reason I regretted it was because I was only 16 and I wasnt sure how I felt about my boyfriend!. But, anywho, when youre ready youre ready!. Dont let threats from your religion scare you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well, i havent had sex yet!.!. (im only 14) but here is what i think!. Sex is a natural behavior!. If you are 18, then technically you are already a young adult, which makes it legal for you to make your own desicions!.if you feel really guilty, pray to God, he will forgive you!. But personally, i think that there is nothing wrong, UNLESS you regret it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're not going to Hell, and you're not a terrible person!.

Don't worry about sex feeling like it's not a big deal!. When you're @ss over elbows in love with someone, sex can be very emotional, passionate, fulfilling, and mind-blowing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

at this point sex isnt what you need to worry about going to hell for you need to worry about the fact you dont fallow Torah, if you start to faloow Torah, every thing else will fall in place, and you wont have to worry about going to hell!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you are not going to hell,bc if you were then there would be no heaven bc just bc people don't say they didn't have prmaridal sex most do!. just pray and ask for forgivness god forgives all you will be okWww@Answer-Health@Com

No!. Sex is natural!. There is no HellWww@Answer-Health@Com

You will not be going to hell over this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're not going to hell if regret what you did and ask God for forgiveness!. He is a forgiving God!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well Dont Feel Bad Doing That Is Very Naturel !!
For Any Person And culture its Ok Dont Feel Gulity !Www@Answer-Health@Com





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