Im 16 and want to have sex?!
Question: Im 16 and want to have sex!?
i really want to have sex with my boyfriend!.i am about to tell my mom to put me on the pill but i dont want my mom to worry or be disapointed!.
any advice!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
any advice!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Don't have sex!. I understand that you want to and you really "love" your boyfriend and you're probably getting some pressure from him, but it's not worth it! I was a teenager once and I didn't have sex until I got married (last year) and I have never regretted that decision!. BUT I have friends who had sex in high school and got pregnant (even WITH birth control-- it's not 100%) and others got STD's and every one of them got a broken heart!. Besides, guys like to share their sexual escapades with their school friends!. You don't want people going around talking about you having sex do you!? Didn't think so!.!.!.
And of course your mom will worry if she knows you're having sex!. It adds a whole extra layer of emotions and confusion to relationships!. And you're about to start making big decisions about school and college and!.!.!. life!.!.!. and I'm sure you don't want to make the wrong ones because you're caught up in a flood of raging hormones and emotions!.
And if your boyfriend really loves you, he can wait (and so can you)!. I know I'm going to get thumbs down for this (probably from teenagers who think they know everything at 15), but I'm just trying to give you some honest advice!.
Just remember no birth control (not even condoms and the pill combined) are 100% effective!.!.!. ever!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And of course your mom will worry if she knows you're having sex!. It adds a whole extra layer of emotions and confusion to relationships!. And you're about to start making big decisions about school and college and!.!.!. life!.!.!. and I'm sure you don't want to make the wrong ones because you're caught up in a flood of raging hormones and emotions!.
And if your boyfriend really loves you, he can wait (and so can you)!. I know I'm going to get thumbs down for this (probably from teenagers who think they know everything at 15), but I'm just trying to give you some honest advice!.
Just remember no birth control (not even condoms and the pill combined) are 100% effective!.!.!. ever!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are actually two issues here, one whether to have sex and two the best method of contraception!.
First with regards to your sexual activity you can certainly involve your mother in your thought process, but first you must be honest with yourself and with your boyfriend regarding your expectations!. It is all too common with young girls as well as women who've been married for years to have very unsatisfying sex lives due to lack of communication!.
I don't know your mother nor do I know what kind of relationship you have with her, but I would certainly recommend discussing your feelings with her if she is the rational sort, and will be willing to listen to what you have to say!.
The big thing to keep in mind is that having sex with someone at any age is a mature decision that can't be taken lightly!. The method of contraception you use truely depends on what you need!. The pill, depo, etc are great methods for individuals who are only trying to avoid pregnancy and are in a manogomist relationship!. The change in hormones from these methods however can change the environment of your vagina making it easier to get sexually transmitted diseases!. Also with these you have to be sure to take them on time, or the won't be effective!.
For an individual beginning their sexual exploration I would recommend using condoms as a away to protect yourself regardless of if you use the pill or not!. I'm sure you trust your boyfriend, but it is better to be safe than sorry!.
Just keep in mind that if you aren't ready to face a checkout guy to purchase condoms with confidence, then you probably aren't ready to be having sex!.
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
First with regards to your sexual activity you can certainly involve your mother in your thought process, but first you must be honest with yourself and with your boyfriend regarding your expectations!. It is all too common with young girls as well as women who've been married for years to have very unsatisfying sex lives due to lack of communication!.
I don't know your mother nor do I know what kind of relationship you have with her, but I would certainly recommend discussing your feelings with her if she is the rational sort, and will be willing to listen to what you have to say!.
The big thing to keep in mind is that having sex with someone at any age is a mature decision that can't be taken lightly!. The method of contraception you use truely depends on what you need!. The pill, depo, etc are great methods for individuals who are only trying to avoid pregnancy and are in a manogomist relationship!. The change in hormones from these methods however can change the environment of your vagina making it easier to get sexually transmitted diseases!. Also with these you have to be sure to take them on time, or the won't be effective!.
For an individual beginning their sexual exploration I would recommend using condoms as a away to protect yourself regardless of if you use the pill or not!. I'm sure you trust your boyfriend, but it is better to be safe than sorry!.
Just keep in mind that if you aren't ready to face a checkout guy to purchase condoms with confidence, then you probably aren't ready to be having sex!.
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It depends on the relationship with your mom!. Talk to her and see what she says!. Hopefully she'll take you to the doctor to keep you from getting pregnant!.
If she's won't, use a condom!.
As you grow up there are times in your life when you have to grown up and these instances will show them that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If she's won't, use a condom!.
As you grow up there are times in your life when you have to grown up and these instances will show them that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well ask ur mom but she will most likely freak!.!.
but she will come around eventually!.
n u can always just use a condom n then u can fuxk all u want
just be sex smart!. learn eveything u need to no about sex the pill doesnt not protect u from diseases but the condom does n it protects u from a baby!. n the pill doesnt start immedietly *** u pop it in ur month PLEASEEE LEARN EVERYTHING U NEED TO NOO PLEASE!!
good luck
--DimeWww@Answer-Health@Com
but she will come around eventually!.
n u can always just use a condom n then u can fuxk all u want
just be sex smart!. learn eveything u need to no about sex the pill doesnt not protect u from diseases but the condom does n it protects u from a baby!. n the pill doesnt start immedietly *** u pop it in ur month PLEASEEE LEARN EVERYTHING U NEED TO NOO PLEASE!!
good luck
--DimeWww@Answer-Health@Com
be abstinence,but if u realy want to think before you let it go cause its a big deal but just talk to ur mom tell her u think u r ready and u need some advice and would like to try the pill!.!.!.!.oh yea the pill makes u gain alot of wait so does the shot but go to ur gino and see which peel works bestWww@Answer-Health@Com
Whoa, you are way too young!. You have your whole life ahead of you for that!. I am not saying that you should wait until you get married, but wait until you're older!. Most girls end up regretting that they had sex so young!. In case you don't take this advice, please, please, use protection!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You could visit a docter by yourself to recie the pill and tell your mom when you feel comfortable enough to tell her!. Or just break it to her gentally and explain you think it is for the best, just make sure you are safe and protected though! Hope that can help you out!. xWww@Answer-Health@Com
Why not talk to your mom about it and let her know that you want to get on the pill because you think you might be ready to go a step further!.
But!.!.!.!. make sure you have sex for all the right reasons and not just because everyone else is!Www@Answer-Health@Com
But!.!.!.!. make sure you have sex for all the right reasons and not just because everyone else is!Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont ask her
she might ban you from seeing him, depending on the kind of mother she is
and use a condom
the pill doesnt protect from STIs & condoms dont have side effects apart from if your allergic to the lube on itWww@Answer-Health@Com
she might ban you from seeing him, depending on the kind of mother she is
and use a condom
the pill doesnt protect from STIs & condoms dont have side effects apart from if your allergic to the lube on itWww@Answer-Health@Com
your mom will never have to know just explain to her you want to go on birth control to control your period and make it shorter and hopefully she will understand plus you are at the age where it is reasonably good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
when you ask your mom to put you on the pill, talk to her about sex, she may have some insightful things to say to you that may help you with your decision, no matter what you decideWww@Answer-Health@Com
really think about this first and if you decide yes ask Mom to help get you on the pill plus use protection!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Always use protectionWww@Answer-Health@Com
youre way too young!.!.!.if hes the right person hell be there years from now when youre old enough to make that decision!. I didnt say marriage but olderWww@Answer-Health@Com
WAIT!. dont have sex yet!. serisouyl just wait hun!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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wait till ur marriedWww@Answer-Health@Com