Does a gyno know whether youre a virgin or not?!


Question: Does a gyno know whether youre a virgin or not!?
Im 18 years old and my dad doesnt trust me!. Ive always wanted my parents to see me as an innocent girl but my dad has his doubts about me!. His friend is a gyno and he wants me to go see her so she can tell him whether or not Im a virgin!. Im not a virgin but i dont want him knowing that!. What do i do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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If your dad's friend is going to do that, that is highly unprofessional!. You have a right to patient doctor confidentiality!. You do not have to submit to this exam, and they cannot force you!.

No, your doctor cannot tell for sure whether or not you are a virgin!. Even some virgins do not have intact hymens, and some girls are born without them!. The answer to your question is a resounding NO!Www@Answer-Health@Com

At 18, you can't be compelled to visit any doctor for any reason!. And the doctor can't tell your dad a single thing unless she wants to end up in prison!. It's a federal offense to violate patient confidentiality, involving a nice prison term, a large fine, and probably loss of her liscense!. Your virginity is not your dad's business anymore!. And that's exactly what I'd tell him, too!. A hymen is not a tamper proof seal anyway, and even if the doctor fails to see one, it's still not proof of anything one way or the other!. You dad will just have to decide for himself what he wants to believe about you, without you having to prove anything!. Just tell him no!. And tell him, if you saw his "friend", and she did say a blessed word to him you would have her license and she knows it!. I doubt she would want to hang her tush in the wind just to satisfy his curiosity!. If she's a decent doctor, that's what she would tell him as well!. So if all else fails, speak to them together- point out that fact, and put it in her court!. That should let you off the hook!. It won't make him any happier, but he won't have much choice but to accept whatever he wants to think!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

She is not allowed to tell him anything - Patient/Doctor confidentiality!. It may not be a bad idea to go to a gyno to be checked out --- esp if you are sexually active!.
Yes, the dr!. can tell!.
Since you are 18, even if you are living at home, she can not break her confidentiality to you!.
I'd come clean with your dad!.!.!.!. it's not good to try to act like something you are not - esp when it's your own actions that is making you not be the 'innocent girl'!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well friend or not she is NOT allowed to tell him and if she does, that is against dr!. patient confidentiality and she can lose her license!. I highly doubt she will tell your dad if she values her job!. P!.S they can assume you are not a virgin if your hymen is no longer in tact but dr's know that sex is NOT the only way it breaks!. Mine broke in a bike accident!.

Also, what is up with your dad!?!?!?!? You are 18 and he needs to mind his own and its a bit weird he is THAT obsessive about whether or not you are a virginWww@Answer-Health@Com

Parents can be soooo untrusting!. I know what you mean about wanting them to percieve you as a certain person, its hard!. If you're 18, you're technically an adult so you should have a talk with your dad and tell him you are a responsible individual who doesnot need to see a gyno, and that you hope that he can have a little more faith in you!.

Hope this all works out for you!!*Www@Answer-Health@Com

Are you in some situation where the revelation of your non-virginity could cause major problems!? If not, it might be best to come clean, especially if you've just been sleeping with a serious boyfriend rather than walking the streets or something!. While there are many other ways besides intercourse for a hymen to break (I tore mine a little a couple of months ago trying my new menstrual cup out), if your Dad's doctor friend is really enough of a dinosaur to do a virginity check for him, she might not acknowledge that as a possibility!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

All a gyno can tell is if your hymen is intact or not!. If you've lot your virginity, you won't have an intact hymen!. However, there's plenty of ways to break a hymen WITHOUT having sex!.

Secondly, if you're in the US, if you are over 18, no doctor can give your parents any information without your consent!. You're an adult! It's none of your dad's business!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

your 18!.!.!.!.you really dont have to see the doctor if you dont want to!. and yes i think they can tell!. sorry!. its something with the hymen, which a piece of skin in the vagina!. if its fully intact, they know you have not had sex, if its torn, they know youve had sex before!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

u r silly !.!.!.
they cant check u either u r virgin or not!.!.!.!.!.
be diplomat lol!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
when ur dad would like to take her to check ur virginity then dont hesitate go with confedence!.!.
and ask her !.!.!.!.!.tell me what is virginity and how i can lost it lol
then she wd know yes she is innocent and still virgin and didnt taste a dick yet lol !.!.!.!.!.
i m not joking !.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes a gyno can tell if you are a virgin or not!. i know it is not easy but i always say honesty is the best policy and maybe your parents will be more understanding than you think!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

nah, you can just say your hymen broke from a tampon!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well actually gyno's are specified under law to keep it a secret and not tell your parents if you dont want them to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you go and they examine you they will know right off the bat!. Yes they can tell at a glance!
Diana HWww@Answer-Health@Com





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