I never get to "finish" ..?!
Question: I never get to "finish" !.!.!?
me and my man have been having sex almost daily for 7 months now and he's loving it ! !.!.!. well !.!. at least one of us is
i just never get to "finish" !.!. i get either one of these two feelings :
- i want more
- ok it's starting to hurt !.!. i wish he would stop now
what even sux is that i always fake it as if im as satisfied as he is and i cant imagine how crushed he's gonna be if i tell him that i never got to finish !!
i need ur help ladies !.!. what to do in this situation !?
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i just never get to "finish" !.!. i get either one of these two feelings :
- i want more
- ok it's starting to hurt !.!. i wish he would stop now
what even sux is that i always fake it as if im as satisfied as he is and i cant imagine how crushed he's gonna be if i tell him that i never got to finish !!
i need ur help ladies !.!. what to do in this situation !?
he's the man i lost my virginity to and he's my husband and i love him so muchWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Very common problem!. Next time let him know that it's his turn to be lazy and not have to do the work!.!.!.and get on top (girl-on-top)!. Move how you like, have him keep still (or let him move you, that can also feel good sometimes)!. He'll last longer and enjoy the view and you'll enjoy being able to finish!. Once you guys get good at this, you can work on makes changes to other positions that help you orgasm!. Ideally you get stimulation outside and inside same time!.!.!.this is what will help you finish!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
instead of telling him that u've been faking this whole time!.!.!.u should read about new sex positions and ask him to try them!.!.!.if u like the feeling say things like "dont stop!.!.!.i'm almost there" that way he knows that he needs to keep going!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try more foreplay, have him get you close to finishing, and then have sex!. If that doesn't work, finish the job yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell him!. be like i need to finish!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
do what logical 1 says, it worksWww@Answer-Health@Com
One thing I have learned in the past is to never fake it!. For one, they think they're doing a good job and every session will somewhat alike!. Two, if you tell him that you've been faking the whole time, he will be crushed and may become self conscious during sex, thinking he can't please you!.
Why not start guiding him little by little now!. Tell him you read about "this" or "that" and ask him to give it a go!.
I believe most women can only climax by clitoral stimulation!. Some of the lucky ones during sex itself!. Personally speaking, I have found inside and outside penetration the best!. If you know what works for you, ask him to "try" it!. When he does something you really like, make a big deal about it, so he'll do it again and again!.
And just let him know if it's hurting!. It happens to all of us sometimes!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why not start guiding him little by little now!. Tell him you read about "this" or "that" and ask him to give it a go!.
I believe most women can only climax by clitoral stimulation!. Some of the lucky ones during sex itself!. Personally speaking, I have found inside and outside penetration the best!. If you know what works for you, ask him to "try" it!. When he does something you really like, make a big deal about it, so he'll do it again and again!.
And just let him know if it's hurting!. It happens to all of us sometimes!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you should try using lube, because if it is starting to hurt, you may not be wet enough!. You may be so worried about actually being able to orgasm, that you can't, and your body can't naturally lubricate itself enough!. Gently tell him that although sex feels really good for you, sometimes it's hard for you to get off!. Make it seem like it's you and not him, like, I've been stressed lately, maybe thats why, so maybe we can try so and so things/positions to help out!.
He doesn't know he isn't doing a "good job", and he wants to pleasure you!. Trust me, if you tell him to try something different, he will do it, because he wants it to be good for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He doesn't know he isn't doing a "good job", and he wants to pleasure you!. Trust me, if you tell him to try something different, he will do it, because he wants it to be good for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com