A tight vagina ? maturity, please.?!
Question: A tight vagina !? maturity, please!.!?
yeah, so!. i'd like to say no rude remarks alright!. but anyway, yeah, so many questions on here saying, "how to stay tight!?" yeah well how about the opposite of that !? i'm TOO tight!. its odd and i feel weird!. me and my boyfriend have tried but like seriously, i am the smallest hole in the golf course!. it's SO WEIRD!. i will say i'm a teen, dont criticize me for doing what i do please, and i'm not a stupid one either so don't go there!. all i'm asking is is this gonna change !? is it gonna expand somehow !? because me and my boyfriend are always sighing at the fact that we just cant (we've tried) because my tight vagina is just seriously, tight tight TIGHT!. once again, please no immaturity, i'm really being serious!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It depends on your age!. If you're a younger teen, it may just be that your body's not developed properly yet!. Obviously, if you're a virgin, it may feel as though you're too tight to be 'entered' as it probably hurts a lot, but your body needs to adjust with practice as it is not used to having something so big inside of there!.
There is a thing called vaginitis, which you may have!. I think your best bet is just to get checked out by a doc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is a thing called vaginitis, which you may have!. I think your best bet is just to get checked out by a doc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It may or may not change as you get older!. What you can do is start by using fingers to insert in there, use lots of lubrication then slowly have him go in!. It may just be your hymen is still intact and thick, no problem with going to the doctor and having them take a look!. If it is a thick hymen they can take care of it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Honestly it has a lot to do with relaxation!. You might think you are relaxed but chances are your body is picking up on what is going on in your head!. If you are worried about being too tight!.!.!. you will be!. The same happens to guys if they worry about losing their erections!.!.!. they do!. R E L A X
No lecture about being too young for sex from me!. If you are mature enough to make the decision to have sex I am sure you are mature enough to take the proper precautions and deal with the consequences!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No lecture about being too young for sex from me!. If you are mature enough to make the decision to have sex I am sure you are mature enough to take the proper precautions and deal with the consequences!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like you have vaginismus!. This is an involuntary clenching of the muscles down there, so he can't put it in!. It requires some work to cure yourself of vaginismus!. Go to vaginismus!.com !. There's a lot of good info there!. Technically, you'll need a doctor to diagnose you, but it seems likely because there's plenty of room down there so being so tight that you can't get it in isn't really an option!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You may be having difficulties due to your body not being ready for the act!. The vagina will expand when needed, but your body may not be fully aroused or not matured enough!. Depending on your age, you might want to talk to your OB/GYN!.
And to keep it tight, kegal exercises!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And to keep it tight, kegal exercises!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I will say you need to grow up a little before you make that decision and it may just be God telling you to wait a while!. Pay attention to your body and don't make a mistake with someone you may not be with later!. If commonsense fails, though, use tampons!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Nope, you are not "too tight!." You need to learn about how female anatomy works!. Look up some info online!.
You're probably having trouble because you're not psychologically ready for sex!. Maybe you're not as "ready" as you think you are at your young age!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're probably having trouble because you're not psychologically ready for sex!. Maybe you're not as "ready" as you think you are at your young age!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Once you have a baby or two!.!.!. you'll wish you could go back to that!.!.!. tight tight, TIGHT!.!.!.again!. LOL!Www@Answer-Health@Com
your vagina isnt whats tight, its the muscles, try relaxing the muscles, so he can get it in!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have the same problem!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Possibilities:
1!. You're not turned on enough!. Your vagina will be ready to accommodate a penis only when you are very turned on and well lubricated!.
2!. You need lube!. Many women can't comfortably have sex without added lubrication!. You can buy it in a drugstore or get it at a free health clinic!. Lubed condoms also help!.
3!. Very rarely, a girl can be born with too much skin over the vaginal opening, which can be corrected by surgery!. Your doctor would be able to tell you if this is the case!. If you can use tampons comfortably, it's not an issue!. If you can't use tampons and all else fails, see your doctor!. If you've never tried using tampons, do!. It will help stretch you out!.
4!. Girls have hymens, a small piece of skin over the vaginal opening!. Most girls break theirs by using tampons, playing sports, fingering, etc!. You may still have yours!.
5!. Is he trying to insert his penis or are you!? Because many guys have trouble finding the exact opening!. Guide his penis into you when you are ready!.
6!. You need to relax your muscles!.
My advice: Try to stretch out the opening yourself with your fingers, or if need be, another object!. Not to sound gross, but a carrot or cucumber would work!. Be gentle and only do what is comfortable until you can insert several fingers at time or so!. Then when you are fooling around with your boyfriend, use lube and wait until you are actually really turned on to attempt anything!. You might even want to wait until after you have an orgasm or at least until after he's been going down on you for a bit before you try!.
Hope this helps and best of luck to you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
1!. You're not turned on enough!. Your vagina will be ready to accommodate a penis only when you are very turned on and well lubricated!.
2!. You need lube!. Many women can't comfortably have sex without added lubrication!. You can buy it in a drugstore or get it at a free health clinic!. Lubed condoms also help!.
3!. Very rarely, a girl can be born with too much skin over the vaginal opening, which can be corrected by surgery!. Your doctor would be able to tell you if this is the case!. If you can use tampons comfortably, it's not an issue!. If you can't use tampons and all else fails, see your doctor!. If you've never tried using tampons, do!. It will help stretch you out!.
4!. Girls have hymens, a small piece of skin over the vaginal opening!. Most girls break theirs by using tampons, playing sports, fingering, etc!. You may still have yours!.
5!. Is he trying to insert his penis or are you!? Because many guys have trouble finding the exact opening!. Guide his penis into you when you are ready!.
6!. You need to relax your muscles!.
My advice: Try to stretch out the opening yourself with your fingers, or if need be, another object!. Not to sound gross, but a carrot or cucumber would work!. Be gentle and only do what is comfortable until you can insert several fingers at time or so!. Then when you are fooling around with your boyfriend, use lube and wait until you are actually really turned on to attempt anything!. You might even want to wait until after you have an orgasm or at least until after he's been going down on you for a bit before you try!.
Hope this helps and best of luck to you!Www@Answer-Health@Com