Is this weird???? (read more)!
Question: Is this weird!?!?!?!? (read more)
I am 12, and im a 34D, and my body is slim, and my dad notices, not stares, but looks!. its kinda weird!. is this normal!?!?!? i shot up from a 32B to this in 2 months!.!.!.!.!. uh help!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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he's probably surprised at what's happened!. He's not a woman and doesn't have the experience of having them growing the way they will!. Basically, it's probably more shock than awe!. You're his daughter and you're pretty young to be that large!. He's probably worried what others are seeing!.
If it really bothers you,ask for advice, not about your father specifically, just attention in general from your mother (you probably got them from her) Mother's are great sources for advice on that stuff even though it might be hard to bring up, or another trusted adult with a larger chest who might know what you're going through!.
If your father EVER does more than just notice what's going on there, Tell him firmly you feel uncomfortable and it's not appropriate (hard to do, but really neccessary) and/or immediately contact someone who can help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If it really bothers you,ask for advice, not about your father specifically, just attention in general from your mother (you probably got them from her) Mother's are great sources for advice on that stuff even though it might be hard to bring up, or another trusted adult with a larger chest who might know what you're going through!.
If your father EVER does more than just notice what's going on there, Tell him firmly you feel uncomfortable and it's not appropriate (hard to do, but really neccessary) and/or immediately contact someone who can help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe he is just surprised or something and it really depends on the person!. My father always notices that sort of thing and is very vocal about it!. Whenever my sister comes to visit, one of the first things he tells her is whether she has lost or gained any weight and he noticed when she started birth control because her breasts got a bit larger!. He is probably the safest guy I've ever met, but he is just weird like that!.
It might also be that you are imagining it!. (How do you feel about such a big change in such a short about of time!? Does it make you uncomfortable or scared!?)
Whatever the case, though, if he is making you uncomfortable, then ask him to stop!. No one should make you feel uncomfortable because of the way your body looks and no one should make you feel sexually harassed!.
Ever!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It might also be that you are imagining it!. (How do you feel about such a big change in such a short about of time!? Does it make you uncomfortable or scared!?)
Whatever the case, though, if he is making you uncomfortable, then ask him to stop!. No one should make you feel uncomfortable because of the way your body looks and no one should make you feel sexually harassed!.
Ever!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know you're addressing the ladies, but (even though I'm a guy) I do have some good advice for you if you're willing to read it!.You are going to attract guys' attention, but there are things you can do to make your breast less noticeable!.
-First is obvious, don't show off your cleavage!. This will draw in attention from guys and girls!. It's natural for people to check out the other people they're around!. Simple put, watch out for low necked tops!.
-Second, wear black or some other dark color of your taste!. Black is a very slimming color because of the way light doesn't reflect of as well!. Dark colors hide shadows as well, making large breasts (and even larger people) appear smaller!.
Now, about your dad!. He's a guy just like any other and they have the same impulses!. Fathers will usually catch and correct themselves, some slower than others!. Simply ignore him, I'm sure he means nothing by it and he'll start getting use to another woman in the house soon enough and become less attentive towards your breasts!.
Hope I've been helpful!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
-First is obvious, don't show off your cleavage!. This will draw in attention from guys and girls!. It's natural for people to check out the other people they're around!. Simple put, watch out for low necked tops!.
-Second, wear black or some other dark color of your taste!. Black is a very slimming color because of the way light doesn't reflect of as well!. Dark colors hide shadows as well, making large breasts (and even larger people) appear smaller!.
Now, about your dad!. He's a guy just like any other and they have the same impulses!. Fathers will usually catch and correct themselves, some slower than others!. Simply ignore him, I'm sure he means nothing by it and he'll start getting use to another woman in the house soon enough and become less attentive towards your breasts!.
Hope I've been helpful!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your dad is probably feeling a little weird since his little girl is developing so quickly!. Just find a way to talk to him about it, even though that should be his responsibility and not yours!. After it's out in the open it won't feel so awkward!. And he might still notice from time to time!. That's probably normal!. It doesn't mean he's looking at you as anything other than a dad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i 13!. i have the same problem!. I'm either the same size as you or one up idk i haven't been measured in a while but my dad does the same thing!. I'm not slim but i definitely am skinny compared to everybody else in my family!. but yeah like a month ago i got this low cut shirt and when i walked downstairs to show my dad he looked down at my boobs and then looked up at me and said "are you wearing a bra!?" it was awkward but yeah you get the point!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It can be normal!. Your dad staring is wrong, seriously you should slap him for it!. And any other guy for that matter!. You just unfortunately developed way too early!. Conduct yourself with pride and dignity, and take no less than the utmost respect from everyone around you, and you'll be alright!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Mmmm It's iffy!.
On one hand 34D is huge!.!. people are gonna notice them it doesn't necessarily eman there looking at them in a sexual manner!.
You could also be imagining it because that sort of thing makes a girl a bit self conscious, they make you feel as if everyone is staring and perhaps there not!.
If your dad starts to make you uncomfortable, make comments, or touches you however you should tell an adult, a trustworthy one right away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
On one hand 34D is huge!.!. people are gonna notice them it doesn't necessarily eman there looking at them in a sexual manner!.
You could also be imagining it because that sort of thing makes a girl a bit self conscious, they make you feel as if everyone is staring and perhaps there not!.
If your dad starts to make you uncomfortable, make comments, or touches you however you should tell an adult, a trustworthy one right away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ya dads problaby thinking, ok how do i take those off of her and give them back when she is older!. My duaghter is twelve, im sure shes not that big but i catch myself lookin at times in amazement and despair!.
It gets really weird when our duaghters start to show and lose some of that kiddie look we loved so much!. :: sigh ::
he is noticing that you are growing up, if he is looking a few times, its problably becuase there is a huuge difference from what he remembers about his little girl and what he sees now, again i catch myself looking at my duaghter from time to time, and im not getting aroused by it, in fact, it pretty much pisses me off at the thought of everyone else noticing this!. i keep looking becuase i cant believe what i am seeing!.
please be responsible and dress appropriately, be modest, respect your body or no one else ever will!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It gets really weird when our duaghters start to show and lose some of that kiddie look we loved so much!. :: sigh ::
he is noticing that you are growing up, if he is looking a few times, its problably becuase there is a huuge difference from what he remembers about his little girl and what he sees now, again i catch myself looking at my duaghter from time to time, and im not getting aroused by it, in fact, it pretty much pisses me off at the thought of everyone else noticing this!. i keep looking becuase i cant believe what i am seeing!.
please be responsible and dress appropriately, be modest, respect your body or no one else ever will!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
a little - however, he is probably noticing this and thinking that he's losing his 'little girl'!.
It's also possible that he's beginning to realise that he's got to start thinking about periods, birds and the bees, male vultures hanging around your door and all that!. OK he may be WAAAAY behind, but dads often are - lol!.
It's VERY unlikely that he's thinking how hot you are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's also possible that he's beginning to realise that he's got to start thinking about periods, birds and the bees, male vultures hanging around your door and all that!. OK he may be WAAAAY behind, but dads often are - lol!.
It's VERY unlikely that he's thinking how hot you are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your dad is probably freaking out bc you're growing up so fast!. I doubt he is staring at you with lust he's just wondering what happened to his little girl!. Dad's have a hard time seeing their little girls grow up!. If he or anyone else does touch you or say something out of the way please tell someone ASAP!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
its completly normal dont feel bad about ur bod ur dad notices bcuz he is realizing that u r growing up and from the sound of it fast It sux being a women but this is the awkward crap we hav to go throu and I am srry to tell u but thats def not the worst of itWww@Answer-Health@Com
ok the dad thing, that weird!.
the boob thing, thats life hunny!.
im 15 i have 36D!. i got them in less then a year!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
the boob thing, thats life hunny!.
im 15 i have 36D!. i got them in less then a year!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well all pepole come in diffrent shapes and sizes dont they & im only 10 years old & im like 5'3 & im da same size as you!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
34D is quite big, but suited to your body, don't worry!. as for your dad looking, hes probably just shocked his little girl has grown up so quickly!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Im sure your dad is just like wtf where did those come from!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Depends what you mean by looks , im sure its fine Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yeah its weird, your dad shouldn't notice you in that way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yeahits kinda fishyy!. the only answer is you stuff you bra!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
That is weird!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Next time he does it give him a slap from me and he shall get the message ;P, because it is a bit weired :sWww@Answer-Health@Com
Is what weird!? That you've got big boom-booms or that your dad looks at them!? Www@Answer-Health@Com
Face it with positive mind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Nope not weird!. If he noticed!.!. thats not his fault!. His little girl is just growing up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hey woww, cn u pls tel me wt all did u eat in all these 2 months , or ur routine!? i am 32 B and want to get bigger!.
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as a parent he will notice changes on his child!.!. like a doctor would a patient!.!. !.!.!.i think if it makes u uncomfortable then its not normal!.!. and u should tell some1 u trustWww@Answer-Health@Com
No!.!.!. it all in genetics!.!.!.
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i am pretty sure that is not normal but where do you liveWww@Answer-Health@Com
read my answer,in ur other similar question!.,,,,,,,,,,,, n the matter!. ur father is looking towards ur breast!. is not a big deal!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. ur big boobs has given u new appearance!.!.!.!.!.!. so he is noticing!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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uh that is weird, maybe u should talk to your mom about it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
umm!.!.!. wats d and bWww@Answer-Health@Com