Bra question? kinda gross question?!


Question: Bra question!? kinda gross question!?
alright, so my mother is one of those old-fashioned mothers who don't like anything that has to do with bras, panties, boys, skirts, you get the point!. right now, the bra i'm wearing is about five years old and is disgustingly too small on me!. it makes it look like i have armpit boobs! (don't laugh)

well, in the mail, i found a coupon for one free pair of victoria's secret cotton panty and 10$ off any bra (but not from the discount bin)!. there's no way i'm going to wear the bras i wear anymore, so don't convince me to do that!. how much are the cheapest bras at victoria's secret excluding those in discount!?

and if you were my mom, how angry would you get if you found out your daughter went behind your back to buy a bra and panties!? angry enough to hit her!? she's a very aggressive person and threw a giant pan at me today!.

do i qualify for a padded bra!? i'm 14, 5'4", 93 pounds!. i don't know what my bra size is, but i have very large hands and when i try to grab my boob with my hand, i can't get all of the boob!. sorry if that was gross!. what is the best bra for me!? how about best panties!?

person who answers all questions get best answer!. :]

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There are stores that have assistants that will help you find out what size bra you need and Victoria Secrets is probably one of them, along w/ Nordstroms, Macys, etc!. If you're too shy to do that, go to any department store, like Ross, where you'll find numerous sizes and grab whatever size you think might fit and try them all on -- although it is common to easily misfit yourself and not know it!. There are two measurements, the actual cup size (A,B,C,D,DD, etc) combined with your body circumference just under your breasts (32, 34, 36, etc)!. Padded bra's are for those that want their cup size to appear larger!.
Victorias Secret can be costly, you will probably find cheaper bras at Ross, Marshalls, and when on sale they can have great deals at JCPenny, Mervyns, Sears, etc!. However, keep in mind that you pay for what you get and often cheaper bras can be more uncomfortable so make sure to keep your receipts!. Look up a department store in your area on line to see if they offer assistance w/ fittings!.

Whether your mom has a problem w/ this or not, you need to do it!. She sounds a little like "Carrie" the movie!. Maybe she's associating underwear w/ sex so maybe don't use the words that can be associated with sex and just call it underwear!. It's really not sanitary to only use one bra day after day, year after year, tell her that!.

There's lots of places to reference on the web, but here's one w/ pictures to help:
http://lindasonline!.com/bra-school!.php

Panties, well!.!.!.!.that's a whole other ball game and one of those to each his own so we can't really tell you that one!. I think a man invented panties cuz they can be the most uncomfortable thing sometimes and finding a good pair is hard and only you know your body shape!. Again, this is another sanitary thing so I hope your mom doesn't flip out on ya, I'd definitely call CPS if she crosses the line with abusive behavior!. Good luck!.

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You should have as many pairs needed until you can do you laundry!. If you do you're laundry once a week, then you need 7 of both, if you do it once every two weeks, then you'll need 14!. It's not sanitary to wear panties for more than one day and you need to allow the elastic to regroup (allow 24 hours off) on the bra's so they should not be worn for more than one day (it's better to have a bra for each day, but it's not unusual to wear a bra more than one time either)!.

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The absolute best stain remover I've found is, believe it or not, 409 All-Purpose Cleaner!. It can even remove blood stains that have been soiled in for days!. It may help yours, but possibly not all the way because when you put your clothes in the dryer, the drying sets the stains, but I'll bet it can help!. Spray it on, let it sit for a couple of minutes, then rub it, spray it again and let it sit for awhile!. I've used it for all sorts of stains and it's removed them all without destroying any of my fabrics so far!

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Make sure you understand the terms of your coupon!. Chances are the panties are only free if you buy a bra and the $10 off the bra are probably for bras that cost $40 and up!. This type of coupon may not work for your budget!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

A few years is a long time to wear one bra!
And, if it doesn't fit you anymore, than a new one is in demand!

I would just try a few different sizes and styles on to find what is most comfortable for you!. If you tell and associate their a run down of your issue they will e glad to help you find what is right!.

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There are bras for 10 bucks at VS in sale!. Your mother's behavior is absolutely unhealthy, but if she's that kind of a person I think you should not do something behind her back for your own sake!.

If you have an aunt you can trust, talk to her about it!. She can convince your mother maybe!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Woah girl!.
Go get a bra, for sure!. The cheapest bra you could find there would be like $20!.
If you cannot grab your whole boob you are probably between a B or a C maybe even a D if you are that blessed!.
If your mother hits you, call CPS!.
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Go get them ! really ! it helps with sports and every thing and if your mum does find out cry and say all the reasons you need one ! i would feel upset that my daughter had to do that behind my back and yess get a padded one ! and btw im from england so i dont know any prices =[ sorryWww@Answer-Health@Com

Ok u want nice undies u dont need to go to victorias secret most people only go there for special ocassions as its too expensive!!! and there are loads of gorgeous bras in other shops go get meaused and look around!!! its not the bra that mekes u sexy its the person!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't look at this question as gross!.

It isn't!.

I I was your mother, I would have no problem with it!. I'd probably take you myself!.

It's a natural part of growing up!.

Try looking at your body in a positive light!Www@Answer-Health@Com

1!. Kill your mom!.

2!. Take her keys, cash, and dignity!.

3!. Go to store, buy bras and panties!.

4!. !?!?!?!?

5!. Profit!Www@Answer-Health@Com

LEAVE HOME UR MUM SOUNDS LIKE REALLY EVIL DOESNT SHE KNOW SHE COULD STUFF UR BODY UP BY MAKING U WEAR A WRONG FITTING BRA!?!?!?!?!? SLAP HER OUT U DONT WANT TO END UP BEING A HUNCH BACK WITH STRETCH MARKS ON UR BOOBIES NOW DO U!? Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wow!.!. if your mom has you wearing bras that are 5 years old and way too small call DCFS!.!.!. specially if she will hit you for buying new ones!.!.!. thats just bullshit!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Use this guide, I've used it for over 23 years:

http://www!.amplebosom!.com/acatalog/Measu!.!.!.

BTW you can get CHEAPER bras and underwear at Target or Walmart or KMart!. VS is pretty pricey!.

Be sure you actually read the entire coupon!.

Where is your father!? Have you told him she threw a pan at you!? Have you talked to your guidance counselor at work!?

A true mother would have no issue with getting a properly sized bra for her daughter!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

VICTORIA'S SECRET!?!?!? next thing you know you'll be wanting to go on car dates and park with boys! your mother needs to take you to k-mart and buy you a decent, white, cotton sports bra!. that's all you need young lady!. next thing you know you'll be sneaking behind your mothers back and trying to buy bikini panties! all this boob grabbing is leading me to think you are thinking about sinning! i am trying so hard to keep my son on the straight and narrow and i can't keep fighting girls like you!. you don't know my son!.!.!.do you!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

VS will measure you to get the correct bra size for you!. If you don't want to have them do it you can look online to find out how to measure for the right size!. It is simple really!. As far as how many to own!.!.well I would say at least 3 so you can have enough to ciruclate when washing!. If you don't want your mom to wash them they can be washed by hand and hung dry!.
WalMart has decent bras for less then 10 dollars and i know you want the free panties but the amount you will save on 2 bras from walmart can get you a pack of 4 or 5 panties for less then what you will spend on one bra hun!.
Panties you should have at least a weeks worth I say!. You need to go by your clothing size to help you figure out what pantie size you need!. Most packages of nice cotton ones are on the back!. The hanes or Fruit of the Loom , bikini style or low rise style at wal mart are less than 10 dollars also and are comfortable!.
Cotton ones you can wash by hand and hang dry this way your mom won't have to really know!. It is hard having a parent that doesn't understand, but now a days, especially with you being in HS, these things are a necessity!.
Do what you need to do and get what you can!.
If she find out let her know that just because she doesn't like to wear them doesn't mean you don't!. Tell her you feel more comfortable in them and that you need to wear them because you are a teenager in school!.
If that doesn't work I would suggest talking to your school nurse or counselor ( i know that will be hard, but I think it is important for you to have someone to help back you up)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I ma not sure about your mom she sounds mean but you really need to buy some bras!.
The average women has at least 4 0r 5 pairs of bras!.
I don't think your mom will hit you but if she does i would call the cops besides hitting you for buying a bra is really stupid and she is an abuser and can go to jail for that!.
you can wear a padded bra it will make you look like you will have more cleavage!.
any panties will do but cotton is the best you are able to breath down there with cotton and they will feel comfortable to!.
To measure your bust get a measuring tape like the ones that come in a needle kit and measure under your breast and the cup of the breast it is really easy under your breast is the band size like 34 or 36 and the breast itself is the cup size i will post a link to victoria secret hope it helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you are 14 and need to wear a bra, then you need to get some bras!

If you have $20 or so, you can get more than one bra from a place like Walmart, Target, or any other department store!. You can even find good quality, rarely worn bras at thrift stores!. You don't have to buy from Victoria's Secret! Most of their items are quite pricey and not necessarily what you are looking for - especially for a girl your age!.

Do you have any other adult women that can help you!? An aunt, a friend's mother, etc!? Your mother should NOT be hitting you at all, and especially if it has to do with necessary items of clothing!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Go to Kohl's, JCPenney or Macy's and be fitted for a bra!. The clerk should be able to measure and fit you in the correct size!. This is their job!

If you are too embarassed to do that then just try on a bunch of bras in different styles and sizes in the dressing room until you find one that works!. Also try them on with a shirt to make sure that once you are dressed the bra doesn't look funny or bunch up or anything!.

My daughter (age 18) is about your size 5'4" 103 lbs!. She buys her bras from Kohl's or JCPenney!. She gets very nice colored bras with slight padding for under $10 each!. She has even gotten some bras off the clearance rack at Kohl's for $2!.98 each!. Panties cost very little - under $3!.00 a pair!. The bras at Victoria's Secret are probably not going to be appropriate for your age and they are expensive!. Go to their website to see how much they cost!. Buying a $40 bra to get a pair of $3 panties for free is dumb! For $50 you should be able to get at least 3 bras and 3 panties if you go to a reasonably priced store and look for a sale!

I am more concerned that you are afraid of your mother and she is aggressive towards you!. Do you have an aunt or grandmother you could talk to you!? Could you go shopping with them!? How are your planning to pay for these purchases!? Is there a dad in the house!? Could you write your mom a note saying that you know she isn't comfortable with you growing up etc but you really need her to help you with some stuff!.!.etc!. If you are in danger of being hurt, you need to leave and/or call the police!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you should go to a lingerie store and get professinally measured so you know what size you are!. Don't be shy!. The sales associates in these types of stores are there to help you in these types of situations!. Once you know your size, you can pick a bra from that store or go to VS and take advantage of the coupon you got in the mail!. VS bras are very good quality!. I wish I had a coupon!. lol :)

Good luck to you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

ok dont be worried about what other people think when you ask the question lol! :) ok i know that going behind your mothers back may not be the best thinkg but yea it sounds like you need a new bra!.!. the ladies at victorias secret will deff help you find the right size bra for you and everything you just have to ask them and i think all the bras at victorias secret are expensive so i would save up some money if you want to get a new bra from them!.!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, where I live, we don't have Victoria Secret (unfortunately) but usually a bra costs for me about $20-30, maybe more for a high quality one!.

As for dealing with your mom, she may get upset but do you really have an option!? Every girl/woman should have a proper fitting bra, it makes your clothes fit better and most of the time makes you look thinner! I think if you got a nice conservative bra, nothing with lace or in black, and you just explain that your other one didn't fit you anymore, she may have an easier time understanding!.

And I'm not totally sure if you qualify for a padded bra, I'm quite big and I don't really like padded bra's because they make me look bigger, but you can always get fitted by the people at Victoria Secret and they can get you the fit you need!.

Panties, the same thing, nothing too lacy or frilly, just normal, maybe a nice colour!.

Good luck, and just try to help your mom understand instead of getting angry with her, so then maybe she'll listen to what you have to say instead of getting angry with you!.
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First of all I would try to talk to your mom and just explain to her that your bra is gross and you need a new one!. If she isn't a sensible person, well, you'll have to go behind her back!. because honey, you neeeeed a new bra!.Its very unhealthy to wear a bra thats too small for you!. How much money do you have to buy a bra!?!? Bras a victoria secrets range in price, but they are usually expensive!. Look for clearence boxes in places like american eagle, deb, aerospostal, pacsun!.!.!.!. Sometimes i find cheap bras and underwear for only a couple dollers in those places!.(american eagle((aerie)) has the best bras!)If you have enough money to go to victoria secrets, they usually have tape to measure yourself there, and you can find a size thats right for you!. Department stores like macy's and jcpennys sometimes have this too!.
As far as your mom getting angry, don't worry about it!. If she get's angry over you buying a new bra, and she hits you!.!.!.You need to tell someone!. That's not a healthy enviornment to live in and you should consider geting help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First you do not need a padded bra if your large breasted already!. You should be able to get a bra wherever you want to shop!.
My mother was one of those the girls can't do anything but the brothers could do whatever they wanted!. I bought a razor at age 14 and she flipped out on me!. It was thrown away by her!.
Now lets talk about the pan throwing!. This is ABUSE! There is no other word for it!. Talk to someone!. Your mother might have some other issues that need to be dealt with!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ok the cheapest bra at V!.S!. is around $30!. You're mom shouldn't get angry, if you want to get a bra that fits!. She wouldn't wear one that doesn't fit her!. Now I would be angry if you got it at V!.S!. At your age that best bras to get are at Walmart!.Ane they much cheaper than V!.S!. and last longer!. TRUST ME! That's where I go to get mine and they LAST!!!! V!.S!. are for decorations only!. I wear a padded bra, but that's because I don't want my nip to show when it's cold!. If you get a padded bra!.!.!.!.!. get one that has very little padding!.!.!. it's hard to reshape all that padding once it's been washed!. Less is better!.

The best bra!.!.!.!.!. I get the bra that has very little padding throughout the entire cup!. Soft (as in don't get lacy, you can tell you have lace on with ANY shirt) and the most important!.!.!.!. UNDERWIRE it's a must!. You don't want your boobs down to your knees by the time you are 30!. I started wearing bras when I was 8 (I was a VERY yearly developer) and ALWAYS wore underwire!. It takes getting use to, but they will stay perky!.!.!.

The best panties!.!.!.!.!.!. depends on what type you like!. Hippsters are nice!. I hate thongs

As far as your bra size!.!.!.!. go into V!.S!. and ask them if they would measure you!. I know it's strange, but you don't want a bra that is too big or too small!. Knowing your accurate bra size is the key to making your bust look great no matter what you wear!.


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So in victorias secret you would qualify for their PINK section which is the section for us teens :)
It really depends on which size you are on the cost!. The cheapest bras go for about 26!.50 and most expensive around 40 dollars!.
http://www2!.victoriassecret!.com/collecti!.!.!.
That is the site so you can look and decide!. The people at victorias secret PINK can fit you so you really dont need to worry about your size!.
Well you really do need bras that fit you so i wouldnt be too mad!. Maybe talk to your mom first come to a compromise!? Cause seriously you do need a proper fitting bra otherwise it isnt good for you!.
Yeah you can get a padded bra if you want!. Sometimes they are more comfortable!. But while you are in the shop you can decide which fits best and is the most comfortable!.
http://www2!.victoriassecret!.com/collecti!.!.!.
The cheapest undies you can get are about 5 dollars original price!.
Finally, when you get there you will see the sales and things cause they are different in most shops!. (but usually 5 for $25)
Hope i helped you and good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com


1!.there are ones that is $26 for one bra and then 2bras for $40

2!.if i was your mom!. i would be angry then be like okay i see your point know!.

3!. No not angry enough to hit!. but there might be a chance

4!.Yeah you do!.

5!.probably one that has under wire and padded!. if you want to go for push up bra that is fine too!. but i would stick with under wire and padding bra!. Panties i would probably say!. no thong that is slutty and so just get like bikini!. cut or something in that range

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