Serious question?! All serious answers please. ?!
Question: Serious question!?! All serious answers please!. !?
I'm still in high school and me and my boyfriend are veryyy serious :)!. We try to be together all the time!.!. although him not living in the same town makes it kind of difficult!. He is 3 years older than me and we have talked about having sex!. I don't know what to do!. I want to do it because I love him so much and I know he loves me!. We are both virgins!.!. In the back of my mind I am worried about getting pregnant even though we would use a condom!. Also I don't like pain!.!. lol!. So!.!. theres another downside for my first time!? any help, comments, or stories would be appreciated :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Having sex is something that you should wait as long as possible to do!. If you truly love him and think that you would have no regrets later in life if something happens and you two break up then I think you are probably ready!. the only way to not get pregnant or get std's is not to have sex!. there is always a chance that you will get a defective condom or it can break or since you are both virgins he could put it on wrong!. Just think this through really good and make sure you are ready to live with anything that comes along with this!. I don't want to scare you but these doubts and fears you are having are for a good reason!. Some girls don't experience pain or bleeding their first time!. I had a little pain and it honestly didn't last that long and there was just a spot of blood!. I know some people that it hurt worse and some that it hurt less!. This is something that only you will know if your ready for and don't do it to hold on to your guy or if you feel pressured about it!. Having sex with a guy doesn't make him love you and won't always keep him around!. If he truly loves you he will wait until you are both ready!. Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
this soungs so familier to me !. me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and we are 3 years apart!. i am 15 and he is almost 18 !. We did have sex a couple months ago!. and there is hardly no pain at all there is just a little twinge at first!. i didnt bleed at all!. if you do decide to do this please use protection!. i hope this helps you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think you should wait until like after high school!.
having sex, and then possibly becoming pregnant during your years in high school, well it's pretty difficult!.
just wait until after high school, and safe sex is good!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
having sex, and then possibly becoming pregnant during your years in high school, well it's pretty difficult!.
just wait until after high school, and safe sex is good!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should wait to have sex after marriage because what if your relationship never worked out!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
if you have all theses questions then you aren't ready!. Sex is not a way to show someone you love them or to prove your love for them!. You do it because it is an Extension of your love for that person !. now that said, what would you do if you got pregnant and what if said baby is Handicapped!? babies aren't all born perfect and it is something very real to think about!. Condoms and other forms or birth control aren't fool proof!. 2 of my kids were birth control babies!. My son is 15 and Autistic!. please don't be pressured to do anything you aren't truly ready for!. and if he pushes you into it then he truly do sent love you, and you can tell him I said so!.!.lol
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