I got fingered for the first time and..?!
Question: I got fingered for the first time and!.!.!?
So ive been talking to to this guy for 8 months!. we're together but without the whole boyfriend and girlfriend title!. well!.!.!. im only 15 and hes 17 about to turn 18 and 2 nights ago was the first time i did anything very sexual!. I wen over his house and he fingered me!. and it wasnt like i expected it!.!. it hurt a lot and at first it felt good but then he started to get really rough with it and i didnt know what to do!. it was going by so fast and i didnt just wanna be like stop cause!.!. idk!.!.!.!. well anyway!.!.!. as i was going home i realized that i was bleeding!.!.!. i thought a guy could really!.!. 'pop your cherry' by just fingering!? is this normal or am i overreacting!. please serious answers!. Im not really a worried girl!. im usually layed back and whatever but i just need to get soe answers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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The pain and bleeding would be normal from an aggressive hand!.!.!.or finger as the case may be!. TELL him he was too rough and he left you sore and bleeding!.
Since he isn't actually your boyfriend I would tell you refuse his future advances since he isn't mature enough to be gentle with such a young girl (sorry)!. Unfortunately with him being almost 18 he might have had some previous experience with this!. And don't be surprised if he suddenly wants "more"!. If he doesn't love you and isn't your boyfriend, you have now just become his booty call!.
Here is more advice I would give to you if you were just a bit older and he was actually your boyfriend!. First sexual experiences (well any actually) should be with someone who actually cares about you!. You need to be aware of what you like and not be afraid of saying so!. If it hurts, do not endure just because you like him!. This does no one any favors not to mention puts a bad taste in your mouth for future encounters!. Sex is for pleasure!. And although I am NOT advocating sex for a 15 year old, if he can't make sure it is pleasurable for you, he isn't worth the time it takes to unsnap your pants!.
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Since he isn't actually your boyfriend I would tell you refuse his future advances since he isn't mature enough to be gentle with such a young girl (sorry)!. Unfortunately with him being almost 18 he might have had some previous experience with this!. And don't be surprised if he suddenly wants "more"!. If he doesn't love you and isn't your boyfriend, you have now just become his booty call!.
Here is more advice I would give to you if you were just a bit older and he was actually your boyfriend!. First sexual experiences (well any actually) should be with someone who actually cares about you!. You need to be aware of what you like and not be afraid of saying so!. If it hurts, do not endure just because you like him!. This does no one any favors not to mention puts a bad taste in your mouth for future encounters!. Sex is for pleasure!. And although I am NOT advocating sex for a 15 year old, if he can't make sure it is pleasurable for you, he isn't worth the time it takes to unsnap your pants!.
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this is what happened with me !.!. i bleeded after!.
when he was fingering you did it feel like he was scratching you!? well if so then he popped your cherry !.!.
the first time you have sex it won't hurt !.!. well it didnt with me !.!.
most girls bleed and get that pain when they have sex which is unlucky because a dick is bigger then fingers !.!.
guess we are both lucky :)
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when he was fingering you did it feel like he was scratching you!? well if so then he popped your cherry !.!.
the first time you have sex it won't hurt !.!. well it didnt with me !.!.
most girls bleed and get that pain when they have sex which is unlucky because a dick is bigger then fingers !.!.
guess we are both lucky :)
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same thing happened to me my first time ,
so i guess you can get your cherry popped that way!.
it hurt alot too afterwards for a couple days but now im fineWww@Answer-Health@Com
so i guess you can get your cherry popped that way!.
it hurt alot too afterwards for a couple days but now im fineWww@Answer-Health@Com
dw it soundss finee
hes just been too roughh tatt all
next timee tell him to calm downn a bitt
orr justt stop if ur not enjoying itt x Www@Answer-Health@Com
hes just been too roughh tatt all
next timee tell him to calm downn a bitt
orr justt stop if ur not enjoying itt x Www@Answer-Health@Com
Deanna, get off your moral high horse and start answering people's questions!
It sounds like your "boyfriend" was getting a little rough, especially being that it was your first time!. You may wish to disclose this to him and let him know that you were sore from the level of rigor that he used in stimulating you!.!.!. Ask if next time he could be a bit more gentle!. The presence of blood may indicate that your vagina had been agitated to the point of bleeding!. The skin is very thin on/in your vagina and can easily be broken!. You may have just had a little cut!.
Don't be too worried about it, but make sure to tell him so he doesn't do it again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like your "boyfriend" was getting a little rough, especially being that it was your first time!. You may wish to disclose this to him and let him know that you were sore from the level of rigor that he used in stimulating you!.!.!. Ask if next time he could be a bit more gentle!. The presence of blood may indicate that your vagina had been agitated to the point of bleeding!. The skin is very thin on/in your vagina and can easily be broken!. You may have just had a little cut!.
Don't be too worried about it, but make sure to tell him so he doesn't do it again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wow honey, you are 15!!!! Are you proud of this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com