I lost my virginity at 10?!


Question: I lost my virginity at 10?
I lost it by rape. To be honest with you, I didn't really know what was happening. Am I still considered as a whore and a sluut it society?

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No, No ,No ,No, No, No, No..and so on. Whores choose to be whores, defined raped is unwanted sex, thats not a choice is it? Nobody will ever logically veiw you that way, and if they do, they are scum. Live your life like it never happened. Commit to everything you would do as if it didnt. you are a virgin.



First of all, the rape wasn't your fault, there are pigs out there who pray on innocent people. It is extremely important for you to NOT dismiss this and go on and live your life like nothing happened. You are not a whore or slut, you are a victim. Live your life and be cautious with men to make sure they want to be with you for you, not for sex. I hope this helps.
Also, there are rape centers that can counsel you and help you. If you haven't got treatment for this yet then please get some help.



Whooaaa, no?
not at all, obviously you didn't want this to happen.
whore and sluts purposely have sex with people,
you can't be judged for something that happened out
of your control. this is probably the saddest thing I've heard all day.
no one should be judged regardless but this, no one will ever think that about you.
i'm very sorry to hear about this thoughh.



you posted this on a girls Question, she asked how to change her bad ways of sleeping around...you wrote
"The bible says that sex is for marriage, enjoy ur time in hell
U should not be doing that
Ur too young, r u seriously that stupid?
Shut ur legs, n treat ur body like a temple
Lets just c who becomes grandma at 20
Me? Or you"

Judge and be judged.
Only God decides who is forgiven. Don't act all holy and mighty, you obviously don't read the bible. Anyone trying to condemn someone to hell will not enter Heaven



I would argue that you didn't lose anything then. Because for me, losing your virginity is a consensual thing. So you'll lose it with the partner of your choice when you're ready IMO.

But no you aren't a slut or a whore.



How would you be considered a whore? it wasn't your choice, you were RAPED for god sakes.
No one in their right mind would call you a whore for being raped.



You were 10 so, you wouldn't know what was happening so if anyone does think you are a slut they have no heart if anything people should feel sorry for you



No, I actually still consider you a virgen. To me, when virginity is lost, it was BOTH of your choices. Not forced.




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